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Now it seems that the source of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been found, because they love the same man, no matter who this man is good to, either of them will be angry, right?
Here's the thing: After dinner at night, the 80-year-old mother-in-law called her husband to say that her mobile phone was broken, and asked her husband to help repair it, and the husband said that her mother-in-law's mobile phone had been repaired several times, each time it was more than 100, and it was better to buy a new one directly, and then "I" heard it and said to my husband: Why don't you give mine to my mother-in-law, buy me a new one, because my mobile phone memory is insufficient at work, I have always wanted to change it but I am not willing to do it, and the 80-year-old man has a low demand for the function of the mobile phone, and can call** It's okay, but I didn't expect my husband to say, "Why does my mom use your old phone?".Then I bought more than 3,000 smart phones for my mother-in-law.
This incident sparked a heated discussion among netizens:
Why do you always like to compare yourself to your mother-in-law?In fact, the wife is a good wife, and it can be seen that the wife is a good wife who is thrifty and thrifty, but it is best not to participate in the matter of the husband helping the mother-in-law buy things, after all, the money is earned by the husband, and he can buy whatever he likes to buy for his parents, if he wants to use your money to buy it, then it is another matter.
"Filial piety" is from the heart, not to be done for others to see, in fact, it is not impossible for an elderly man in his 80s to use his daughter-in-law's old mobile phone, but the husband does not agree, so there is no need to force it.
I was relieved when I saw this, because I also have a son, and one day I will be a mother-in-law, and if my son can think of buying me something, I will accept it, because it must be something he can afford;If you don't buy it, you can accept it, don't compare, and don't ask for it.
To be honest, my parents are using mobile phones and clothes that we wear now, and they are very happy every time they give them something, so there is no right or wrong in this matter, but everyone thinks about the problem from a different angle.
A lot of people say why is it too much for her mom to use your old phone and replace it with a new one?
If you want your mother-in-law to use an old mobile phone, it is generally the best choice that takes into account the total consumption power of the family and the actual use of the mobile phone, and it has nothing to do with whether it is worthy or not.
People's ideas are really peculiar, and there are still people who think that this wife wants to take advantage of this opportunity?
If you have such thoughts, I would like to ask your husband and wife are financially independent, and all family support is AA?If yes, well, then from your point of view, it is indeed "taking advantage", if not, then how can you say "taking advantage"?
So some people woke up and said that women should be kind to themselves, don't deduct and search, because you just moved yourself.
Filial piety has nothing to do with money, what you want is "heart", as long as you have a heart, even if it is an old thing;If you intrigue every day, showing off your kindness to you everywhere on the surface, even if you spend more money, it is not what the old man wants, right?
When it comes to the other party's parents, it is best not to interfere, unless the other party needs your help, which not only reduces the conflict between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also makes the relationship between the husband and wife more harmonious.
What people want to get along with others is to find a suitable way to get along, not who changes whom, who leads whom!
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