Not a rich girl but with "princess disease"?College boys talk about "Puxin women", and they say it too simply
After college students enter colleges and universities, they face more free time, and they have undergone a metamorphosis in all aspects. Especially in terms of falling in love, they have been restrained by parents and teachers for many years, and they can finally face this favorite relationship unabashedly.
Many students are eager to meet that special person in college. Relationships on campus are often simple and pure, and this experience is truly rare. However, there is a phenomenon that many people have discovered: college boys seem to be a bit Buddhist in the pursuit of love, and are no longer as active as before.
For many students, they hardly have much attention and experience in the aspect of love during the Xi phase before entering college. Whether it's being strictly supervised by their parents or because of their heavy academic workload, they don't seem to have the heart to think about other things.
I recall that when the writer went to college, once the boys entered the college life, they were often full of enthusiasm and initiative in the pursuit of love. However, there seems to be some changes in today's college students, and it can be observed that many male students have become more Buddhist in their approach to love.
They no longer actively courted their female classmates as they used to, such as going to evening Xi together, going to the cafeteria and the library on a date, and the boys seemed to lose interest in these ways of getting closer to each other.
In other words, many students may prefer to stay in the dormitory and play on the computer rather than go out"Pursue girls"。In fact, it's not necessarily that the male classmates are becoming more and more arrogant, a college boy said something inside.
At a university in Ningbo, a male college student shared his views on some female classmates on the Internet, which resonated with many college students. You may have heard of the term "Puxin man", which refers to a boy who is obviously very ordinary but unusually confident.
However, classmates with this kind of personality are actually male and female, so this college student also gave a code name to similar female classmates, calling them "Puxin Girl".
Despite the high acceptance rate for the gaokao, students who are admitted to regular universities usually maintain their academic XiXi habits and most of them do not talk to friends in high school. And after entering college, I really started to think about talking about friends.
For female students, their expectations and standards are often higher. The boy bluntly said that some of his classmates are obviously not rich girls, but they have developed a "princess disease": we are all in college and are all receiving our parents' living expenses, but they always ask boys for decent gifts.
These female students also always ask boys to take care of them everywhere during their Xi studies, get up early to send them downstairs in the morning, ask boys to occupy seats in the Xi room, and occasionally invite other roommates to eat, making boys feel that it is difficult to meet their "qualified" standards.
What makes this college student complain even more is that this kind of female classmate is very ordinary in terms of family, appearance, academic Xi level, personal ability, etc. According to such ordinary conditions, if you have a more rational assessment of yourself, you should not make too many demands on boys, and you will not show so many "princess disease" behaviors. However, this kind of student is just the opposite, and is rated by the boy as a five-star "general trust" level.
As for the academic Xi status of the university, this male student thinks it is very important. If you don't meet the right person, you shouldn't be in a hurry to talk about friends. He bluntly said that the male classmate's complaint was very direct, and there are indeed some girls in this situation. Of course, the expectations placed on them cannot be seen as entirely unreasonable, because sometimes they do not care about external forms.
In order to deal with the relationship between the two, we can't just look at the appearance, but need to see the real need through their expectations and actions, that is, the desire to be noticed and affirmed by boys.
When evaluating others, you need to take a more holistic view, not just look at the superficial appearance. In any case, every student's concept of campus love is different, and how to choose is personal freedom.
Students only need to make it clear that after going to university, they should also pay attention to their academic Xi status, and study knowledge carefully before considering other things. If you can't guarantee that you will pass the exam, even a successful graduation will be a problem, and other talk will be even more empty.
College students are well-educated and should take a relationship seriously enough. Many people think that it is a big pity that they didn't talk about friends when they were in college. However, the author believes that it is a sign of a lack of responsibility to talk about friends easily, which is not as good as those students who are serious. If you don't feel that you have met the right person, you don't have to rush to determine the relationship.
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