I just wanted to ask you:
What do you think of your life?Do you feel happy in your life right now?Do you think you are happy or unhappy right now, and what is the reason for your unhappiness?Did you find the answer?
I read a sentence: A happy life is a life without complaining, and a happy world is a world without complaining.
Speaking of the word complaining, it is very ordinary in life, because in everyone's life, in everyone's life, there will be more or less unsatisfactory and unsatisfactory.
Complaining has naturally become our best vent, when encountering misfortune, or difficulty, it is difficult to balance the psychology without complaining, when complaining, or after talking to others, the heart will be more or less comfortable, it can be regarded as a decompression of yourself, and perhaps you can win the sympathy of others.
Of course, there is a degree to everything, and to be tolerant, it is normal for people to complain, and everyone will make a common mistake in life.
But this common disease cannot become a Xi, and when complaining becomes a Xi in your life, it will mean that your life becomes pessimistic and life becomes gloomy.
There are things happening every day in life, we have to face new things every day, if we complain about this today, complain about that tomorrow, we know that blindly complaining, we will lose the meaning of life itself.
Read a story.
The peacock complained to Queen Juno, and she said, "Your Majesty, I am not unreasonable to tell me, no one likes to listen to the singing voice you gave me, but you see that the song of the yellow warbler elf sings tactfully, it monopolizes the spring light, and the limelight is exhausted."
Juno told it, "Shut up, jealous bird, look around your neck like a colorful ribbon." The gorgeous feathers that stretch out when you walk appear in front of people like colorful jewelry. You are already the most beautiful bird in the world, and you are still jealous of the song of the yellow warbler.
It is impossible for one animal to have the advantages of all animals in the world. Some are tall and mighty, some are as brave as eagles, agile as magpies, and crows have voices that can predict the future.
No one is perfect, and everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses.
We must be good at discovering our strengths and dealing with our shortcomings with the right attitude, instead of blindly dwelling on our shortcomings and annihilating our own strengths, which will only make us fall into pain and sink deeper and deeper.
When we appreciate others, they are also appreciating us.
is like a peacock, who is already the king of birds, but he still envies the singing voice of the little yellow warbler, but he doesn't know that he is the scenery in the eyes of others, and he goes to Juno to complain that he doesn't have a good singing voice.
In life, we often think that we can win sympathy by complaining.
Just like Lu Xun's Xianglin sister-in-law, unfortunate things have grown calluses in other people's ears, and the original sympathy may also turn into ridicule, and eventually become a joke after dinner.
Along the way, there will always be many misfortunes and setbacks in life. We can't change the reality, so we should put our minds on it, and instead of blindly complaining, it is better to change silently.
Don't complain that your job is bad, don't complain about your poor living conditions, don't complain about your poor men or ugly women. Don't complain about your bad background, don't complain about the injustice of the world, there are too many unsatisfactory realities, only by working hard silently can you have the ability to change the status quo and change a positive attitude.
When we blindly complain, not only can we not solve the fundamental problem, but in the end we are actually hurt, and complaining too much is equivalent to pouring water in our shoes, making our road more difficult to walk in the future.
Blindly complaining will only affect the mood of others and make your own mood worse. As the saying goes: letting go is happiness. The reason why you are still complaining is because you still can't let go of something unfortunate or a failure.
Instead of complaining, let it go and face every tomorrow with a detached and open-minded mind, and you will find that the sun is new every day.
Success begins with awakening, mentality determines fate, in fact, complaining is also a mentality. If you complain less, your mentality is better, your mentality is better, and your fate will be smooth.
Most of us' life situation is neither nothing, everything is bad, nor everything is good, everything goes well, it depends on what kind of mentality you have to face all kinds of things in life.
When someone you love leaves you, you are sad and complain about his ruthlessness, but from another point of view, you are very lucky, because his departure has fulfilled the opportunity for another person to love you.
Look at the problem from multiple angles, everything is not so unfortunate, put a good attitude, reduce complaints, and life is full of sunshine.
Don't live too small, don't dwell on the little stains in life, open your mind, embrace tomorrow with a smile, you will find that life is so comfortable and the world is so beautiful.
Life cannot be smooth sailing, do not let complaining become a Xi in our life, once the difficult situation arises, we must look for the root of the problem, use a positive attitude to discover our strengths, and then strive to change.
Behind every successful person has endured a lot of bitterness, they know that it is useless to complain, only by working silently can they get what they want.
Life is not easy, everyone is moving forward with a load, don't let complaining become a Xi in your life, only hard work can live better.
I believe that after many years, when you look back, you will thank yourself for your silent efforts.
For love to complain, what do you think, let's talk about it in the comment area.