Fan Shengmei asked Qu Lianjie to borrow money for her father's surgery fee. She regarded Qu Lianjie as her own support, and asked him for help when she was in trouble, but she never expected that Qu Lianjie didn't take her to heart at all.
Lian Jie, can you lend me 20,000 yuan?My dad is hospitalized and needs money, and I'll pay you back as soon as I get paid. Fan Shengmei was crying, and anyone who heard it knew that she was in trouble.
But Qu Lianjie didn't intend to pity the fragrance and cherish the jade, he pretended to say: "I'm sorry, I'm currently attending the company's annual meeting in the field, and I can't help you!."Otherwise, I'll ask my secretary to give you 1,000 yuan!”
When Fan Shengmei heard this, she instantly collapsed, "How do you say this?."How's my relationship with you?Is it perfunctory to me like this?Why don't you ask my father what his current situation is?”
Qu Lianjie showed a knowing smile when he hit **, not only laughing at Fan Shengmei's simplicity, but also laughing at him for not knowing the height of the sky
You are brothers and sisters in this matter of men and women. I think we've become friends. I'm just asking the secretary to send you the money. I'm so busy now, I'll come back when I go back!”
As he spoke, he ignored Fan Shengmei's retention and hung up**.
Fan Shengmei always thinks that what makes Qu Lianjie different from other men is that Qu Lianjie is not only thoughtful, but also respects Fan Shengmei very much. At the age of 30, it is not easy to meet such a very nice and rich person for her. Fan Shengmei cherishes it and loves it to the depths, and even "dedicates" herself to Qu Lianjie.
She thinks that Qu Lianjie is a person worthy of trust, but when she encounters the incident, she knows that Qu Lianjie doesn't care about herself at all. Fan Shengmei was stunned, especially when she learned about Qu Lianjie's "scumbag" routine from Qu Xiaoxuan's mouth, and she was even more embarrassed by his "wrong payment".
However, if everything can be done all over again, will Fan Shengmei really never be tricked by Qu Lianjie again?
I'm afraid it's hard!
Because Fan Shengmei is so inferior!
In "Ode to Joy", Fan Shengmei is the most graceful, beautiful and moving of the five girls, and at the same time the one with the most inferiority and self-esteem.
Because of her graceful and slim appearance, there seems to be no shortage of suitors around Fan Shengmei. Due to her inferiority complex and self-esteem, Fan Shengmei has been troubled by scumbags.
Especially after Fan Shengmei felt that Andy, who was very good in all aspects, just found a Wei Wei who looked extremely incompatible with her, Fan Shengmei lacked confidence in the other half of the future.
People always like to "compete" with the people around themCompare relatives with children, compare with friends, compare with colleagues, compare with friends, and compare men with girlfriends.
Fan Shengmei has always been very careful, and because of her good looks and excellent grades in school, she is always surrounded by a large number of boys. Among these boys, there is no shortage of Fan Shengmei's favorite objects, but Fan Shengmei always wants to take a second look and wait a little longer. Unexpectedly, looking at it, waiting and waiting, Fan Shengmei waited until she was 30 years old.
As the saying goes, "Thirty-one flowers for men, thirty tofu scum for women". At the beginning of her career, Fan Shengmei found that the older she was, the lower the likelihood of meeting a man with superior conditions. So, Fan Shengmei and Qu Lianjie met at a drinking party and made up their minds to catch him.
Andy brought Fan Shengmei to the scene of the private reception, and when she received Lao Tan's ** to leave, Fan Shengmei, who was alone, walked around the scene and took a ** half-concealed.
It just so happened that at this time, the bored Lai Qu Lianjie saw her, Qu Lianjie raised his wine glass and deliberately hit Fan Shengmei, "This beautiful woman, you are also coming to the drinking party?."”
Fan Shengmei looked at Qu Lianjie from head to toe, knowing that those who could attend this kind of drinking party were either rich or expensive, so she didn't dare to snub it, and smiled, "I'm just a small person, and I'm not qualified to attend this kind of drinking party." I'm with friends. ”
After going back and forth, Fan Shengmei felt that Qu Lianjie was very good at pleasing girls. Although he was wearing brand-name clothes, he didn't have the boss's eyes above the top that Fan Shengmei had met before, and he didn't take a little person like her in his eyes.
Under the backdrop of the lantern wine, Fan Shengmei glanced at Qu Lianjie with a little drunkenness, and suddenly felt like a world away. She seems to have seen herself with Fan Jiayin Qu Lianjie, and she no longer worries about money.
Fan Shengmei is too short of money, and her younger brother has nothing to do, marries a daughter-in-law, and has children, but he can't work, he can only eat old things. But Fan's father and mother said that Fan Shengmei spent so much money at school, and she should repay her parents for her nurturing grace after work, otherwise she would be a "white-eyed wolf".
So, my parents, my brother and sister-in-law, and my nephew all rely on Fan Shengmei.
Fan Shengmei picked up the burden of a large family alone, and she couldn't bear it, and dreamed of marrying a rich man so that she could get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible. But rich people are either particular about the right people or will choose young girls, which rich man will be tempted by a 30-year-old woman like her?
After thinking about it, Fan Shengmei, who had low self-esteem in her heart, seemed to wake up.
After leaving the drinking party, Fan Shengmei asked Andy to help find out what happened to Qu Lianjie after marriage. Andy asks her rhetorically if she is interested in that personFan Shengmei smiled and looked out the window, how dare she choose a man?
For Fan Shengmei, if Lianjie is single and interested in herself, Fan Shengmei will definitely not let it go. After all, Qu Lianjie is not only rich, but also seems to know how to respect her very well.
Men and men get along, no matter what the process is, the result will always be "upside down" to that square inch. A woman with self-esteem and self-love needs a man's romance more in order to feel the respect of others.
Fan Shengmei is such a woman, who has not been respected by others in a "patriarchal" family since she was a child, and she is very eager to be respected by others. It is precisely because of this deficiency that Qu Lianjie entered Fan Shengmei's heart.
Qu Lianjie said to Fan Shengmei, "It's a blessing to be able to have dinner with beautiful women", and opened a bottle of 3,000 yuan red wineFan Shengmei was excited to find that no one had ever been so willing to spend his own money.
Qu Lianjie told Fan Shengmei, "Women are like flowers that need to be taken care of. Fan Shengmei was moved, so she wore the red dress that Qu Lianjie bought for herself, came to the castle-like hotel, listened to the classical ** with Qu Lianjie, and spent a good night together.
Fan Shengmei is an unruly woman in her bones, she handed herself over, not only because Qu Lianjie was rich, but more importantly, because Qu Lianjie respected her.
However, does Qu Lianjie really respect Fan Shengmei?
Of course not!All the affection between Qu Lianjie and Fan Shengmei is played on the spot.
People say that scumbags "have no sense of responsibility, no responsibility, and like to shift responsibility to women". The same is true for Qu Lianjie, others spend the past and the moon, how can he be willing to leave Fan Shengmei alone when he has just divorced?
Some people say: The best way to forget a person is to quickly plunge into a new love. When Fan Shengmei discovered that Qu Lianjie was hypocritical, her inferiority complex rediscovered that she had flaws in age, family and finance.
At this time, she knew that there was no hope of marrying into a wealthy family, so she turned her head to look at Wang Baichuan.
Wang Baichuan and Fan Shengmei are college classmates, when they were in school, Wang Baichuan had a good impression of Fan Shengmei, but because Fan Shengmei was too radiant and looked ordinary, Wang Baichuan never dared to chase boldly.
Fan Shengmei's father was admitted to the hospital, and he was in a hurry to clear up the relationship with Biqu Lianjie, but Wang Baichuan had no intention of ignoring it. Fan Shengmei has lacked love since she was a child and is extremely easily touched.
Wang Baichuan's "enthusiasm" made Fan Shengmei mistakenly believe that she had encountered true love, and she found that finding a man who loved her deeply and was willing to share the burden with her was more important than anything else.
Besides, Wang Baichuan is not bad for money, he is a small boss who is famous, looks good, and compares high and low. So, when Wang Baichuan confessed to Fan Shengmei again, Fan Shengmei accepted him.
Fan Shengmei is graceful on the surface, but she is very traditional in her bones, and she gets along with Wang Baichuan just to get married.
can get married and ask for a house, so Fan Shengmei has been constantly putting pressure on herself since the day she got along with Wang Baichuan, in order to urge herself to work hard to earn money and make a down payment for a good house.
But Qu Xiaoxuan thinks it's too terrible for Fan Shengmei to think like this:
How can getting married become a big burden if you say this!It's so sad to be stuck to someone who has spent their whole lives glued!Living in this world, it is a great event in life to learn how to make oneself happy and healthy. ”
Fan Shengmei couldn't figure it out, she regarded Qu Xiaoxuan as a rich second generation, and she wanted whatever she wanted, so she didn't understand their insistence on the house as a migrant worker.
But Wang Baichuan and Qu Xiaoxuan are different, Fan Shengmei always thinks that Wang Baichuan knows herself very well and likes herself very much, so even if she is really "sticky", Wang Baichuan is still willing to share it with herself.
Perhaps, it was the fact that she couldn't get used to listening to Wang Baichuan's promise to herself that Fan Shengmei had this illusion, mistakenly thinking that Wang Baichuan was in favor of the water and "loved" deeply;mistakenly thought that Wang Baichuan was willing to share the burden of the Fan family with him.
It wasn't until Wang Baichuan refused to write the name Fan Shengmei on the real estate certificate that he knew that all the good things were just forgeries.
On the other hand, looking at the various situations after the reunion between Wang Baichuan and Fan Shengmei, it is not difficult to see that in fact, Wang Baichuan has already expanded his business with the help of Fan Shengmei's connections and capabilities.
From renting office space to negotiating business with Qu Xiaoxuan and Bao Yifan, Wang Baichuan quickly grabbed Fan Shengmei's heart with only a few meals and sweet words that insisted on going his own way, making him willing to earn money for himself.
People say, "Scumbags who like to eat soft rice will also hurt your relationship."
The same is true for Wang Baichuan.
When Fan Shengmei still has the value of use, Wang Baichuan will not hesitate to make his promises, and plan the future for Fan Shengmei from time to time, so that she feels that her life is so promising;
But after Wang Baichuan noticed that Fan Shengmei's face was also useless, but Bao Yifan did not accept his ** goods, Wang Baichuan's patience and good temperament towards Fan Shengmei were no longer like before, and even began to dry her, deliberately ignoring her.
Grief-stricken, Fan Shengmei began to examine herself and tried to tolerate Wang Baichuan's bad temper. Especially after the company went bankrupt, Wang Baichuan did not reflect on himself, but pushed the mistake on Fan Shengmei, the pressure on him from the Fan family was too great, and Fan Shengmei felt that he was dragging down Wang Baichuan.
Wang Baichuan was sad when he saw Fan Shengmei, and said "no need to blame himself", but he was very beautiful in his heart, he wanted to make Fan Shengmei sad, because this was the only way for Wang Baichuan to control Fan Shengmei mentally.
This is also the routine that scumbags have been using all along: treat themselves well first, and then use the weakness and desire in their hearts to lose themselves and control themselves.
At the beginning, Fan Shengmei was indeed Wang Baichuan-style, when she paid more for Wang Baichuan, Fan Shengmei not only accepted Wang Baichuan's "Xi habit of lying" and "not responsible", but also took the initiative to help her contact customers, but the house problem made Fan Shengmei completely awake.
At that moment, Fan Shengmei finally understood that Wang Baichuan was really as Qu Xiaoxuan said, constantly shadowing him until he was dry, and then got rid of him as a victim along the water.
It turns out that Wang Baichuan has always been a "businessman", and he never thought of sacrificing himself for the Fan Shengmei family.
Although Fan Shengmei hates getting married, fortunately she has not lost her mind, and she can neither accept the unfair treatment of repaying the loan together or signing the real estate certificate.
After learning from the pain, Fan Shengmei took the initiative to ask to break up.
After watching "Ode to Joy", many people think that Fan Shengmei knows Qu Lianjie and Wang Baichuan by herself. If she is unwilling to rely on men to "suck blood", how can she fall into the trap of scumbags?
This is not the case, whether it is for Qu Lianjie or Wang Baichuan, although Fan Shengmei attaches importance to the external conditions of the two, she also gets along with the two with sincerity.
After Fan's father was admitted to the hospital, Fan Shengmei made a circle, but she couldn't borrow money, so she told Qu Lianjie. It can be seen that in her heart, Qu Lianjie is not regarded as an "ATM", but as her last support. For Wang Baichuan, Fan Shengmei is heart-to-heart, not only helping to recruit people in person, but also taking the initiative to help entertain customers. Even if there were better suitors around, Fan Shengmei never thought of abandoning Wang Baichuan.
Fan Shengmei has a sincere attitude towards Qu Lianjie and Wang Baichuan. She only fell into the trap of a scumbag by mistake because of her low self-esteem.
Fan Shengmei has actually always lived in the shadow of her original family and can't get out. She is very eager to be loved and respected, and if someone is willing to hold her at this time, even if it is only to give her hope of coming out of the darkness and telling her that "you are worthy of getting the best things", Fan Shengmei will fall into it.
But everyone understands that a man with an inferiority complex cannot face a relationship calmly. Because of the existence of inferiority complex, it is easy to please your spouse for love, or abandon your principles. Fan Shengmei is exactly like this, so she mistakenly thinks that the "false affection" between Qu Lianjie and Wang Baichuan is "love".
In life, there are many girls such as Fan Shengmei. They have low self-esteem and vulnerability because of such and such "defects";They will also lose themselves because of the scumbag, or such "accusations".
But in reality, everyone has their strengths and uniqueness, so there is really no need to feel inferior, and there is no need to abandon the bottom line for who and what.
You just have to remember that the man who loves you dearly always does it first and says it last;And people who say they love you but don't feel any love in their actions just want to hurt you and don't love you.