At the age of twenty, you should live as confidently and independently as you are at the age of forty
At the age of thirty, you should live as merciful and wise as you are at the age of sixty
At the age of forty, you should live like you are at the age of eighty to understand life and death
Fifty years old should live as youthful and curious as twenty years old
Sixty years old should live as risky and fearless as thirty years old
Seventy years old should live as energetic as thirty-five
The impact of the family of origin on everyone is profound, and the bits and pieces that we experienced in the process of growing up, whether it was laughter or tears, have shaped us today. However, there are times when the scars left by the family of origin are not so easy to heal and can even become an obstacle in our path. Li Xinpin's "Native Family Trojan Horse Quick Screening" provides us with a new perspective, helping us to understand and decipher those Trojan horse programs hidden deep inside.
First of all, the title of the book is very catchy. "Native Family Trojan Quick Screening", which combines the native family with a Trojan program, vividly depicts those negative imprints that unknowingly affect us. These imprints are like Trojan horses hidden in the mind, and when triggered, they can trap us in an endless loop. And this book is to help us quickly screen these Trojans and find out the root cause of the problem.
In the book, the author analyzes the impact of the family of origin on us in simple terms through a large number of examples and cases. From physical and mental health to emotional relationships, from relationships to money and finances, almost every aspect of life is covered. Through the author's analysis, it is not difficult for us to find that many times, our problems in some aspects are not accidental, but inextricably linked with the original family.
Among them, the "three-step rapid screening method" proposed by the author is particularly eye-catching. This method teaches us to jump out of a single event, analyze the problem at higher latitudes, and quickly find the Trojan imprint. By comparing the current problems with the same type of initial events in the family of origin, and then with similar problems that have occurred before, we are able to identify the commonalities and Trojans behind them. This method is not only practical, but also very enlightening.
It is worth mentioning that the content of the book is not limited to theoretical elaboration. The author also provides many practical methods and tips to help readers get out of the shadow of their original family and find themselves again. These methods cover multiple levels such as psychology, behavior, and emotion, and are highly operable.
After reading this book, I was deeply struck. It not only made me re-examine my family of origin, but also made me understand the real reasons behind the problems that bothered me. More importantly, it taught me how to face and overcome these problems, allowing me to face the future with more confidence.
The Native Family Trojan Horse Quick Screening is a great book to read. It not only helps us to recognize our inner world, but also guides us to find our own bright future. This book is undoubtedly a beacon of light for those who aspire to break free from the shadow of their original family and pursue a better self.
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