The secret of a thriving family is diligence, harmony, and foresight.
Family is the foundation of a person's life, as Mencius said, "The foundation of the world is in the country, the foundation of the country is at home, and the foundation of the family is in the body." "Working together as a family and living a down-to-earth and diligent life will be the only way for the family to prosper. In this process, living in harmony and dealing with it rationally is the key to building a happy family. Let's work together on the secret to a thriving family.
1.Diligent and steadfast, gather wealth.
The Book of Changes says, "The house of accumulation of goodness must have afterglow, and the house of accumulation of unkindness must have aftermath." "A thriving family is inseparable from the joint efforts of its members. There was once a young man who was lazy and his career had not improved, and he asked the wise man for advice, "If I work hard for a month, will my career be good?"The wise man told him, "When you are in a cold room, holding a thermometer and the number on the thermometer rises, will your room be warm?"This enlightens us that a hard-working family is the key to a bright road, and only by being able to endure the hardships that others can't endure can we enjoy the blessings that others can't.
2.Harmony has a foresight and builds family temperature.
The temperature of the family often determines the happiness of a person's life. Mutual understanding and concerted efforts are the cornerstones of building a harmonious family. In life, contradictions inevitably occur, but a happy family is not without contradictions, but wisely not competitive. In the face of the little things in life, knowing how to take a step back is the secret to making the days better.
3.Small things are not disputed, and big things are not responsible.
In life, there will be bumps and bumps in the teeth and tongue, and quarrels in the family are inevitable. But a happy family is not without contradictions, but the wisdom of knowing not to compete. When faced with life's little things, take a step back;And in the face of big things, the attitude of irresponsibility is even more important. Encountering blame does not solve any dilemma, but it needs to be shared with responsibility and tolerated and resolved with love.
4.Carry it together and build a protective umbrella of love.
One person's strength is limited, and family members can work together to hold up the umbrella of love. Zhou Guoping once said, "Home is a small boat that wants to carry us through so many years." "With the support of our families, we can find a safe haven in the ups and downs of life and weather together.
5.Do not turn over the account, and tolerate it in the name of love.
Turning over old accounts can never be solved, and every flip will leave a crack in the relationship. Learning to give in and tolerate in the name of love is the secret to maintaining family harmony. In life, maintaining the innocence of love and not caring about past gains and losses is the best cultivation for a family.
6.Clean and unpretentious, maintain temperament.
The best state of a family is that the rooms are clean, the relationship is pure, and the life is simple. The state of the room reflects the family relationship and the inner state of the individual, and the cleanliness and tidiness indicate that the family is organized and has a clear mind. Keeping clean is the best temperament of a person and a family, so that people can maintain a pure and innocent state.
In a complex world, maintaining a clean and pure state is not an easy task. Therefore, cleanliness is the best temperament of a person and a family. As the "** Regulation" said, "The room is clean, the walls are clean, the cases are clean, and the pen is correct." "Even if you live in a humble house, you have to live cleanly. The simple attitude to life reflects a family's understanding and pursuit of life.
Through diligent and steadfast, harmonious and far-sighted family management, as well as the principle of getting along with each other in small matters and not responsible for big things, the family can be warm and harmonious, shoulder the responsibility of life together, and build a protective umbrella of love. Under the concept of not turning things over and tolerating in the name of love, the family can remain pure and life can remain simple. Only in such a family can they prosper and share happiness. In the end, we hope that every family can find the temperature of home and play the melody of happiness together with the joint efforts of every family.