The eldest sister who has been on the other side for many years passed away suddenly, but she was only 53 years old, and there were no signs before, which made people sigh in surprise!Since I have been a neighbor for many years, my eldest sister is very good, and her death has a great impact on me!
In the past two years, as I grew older, I began to frequently receive news of the sudden death of old acquaintances, but they were all in their 50s, although they could not be said to be in their prime, at least they were in the right year, and some of their children were not yet **, which made people sigh at the unpredictability of life!
Listening to the cries coming from the door from time to time, the whole building was immersed in an atmosphere of grief.
I haven't slept well in the past two days, and I have a lot of thoughts, and I began to reinterpret the meaning of life. Constantly for the sake of study, career, marriage, family, parents, children, every day running around the streets and alleys, ** blocks, depressed all day long, drifting with the tide, bearing countless humiliation, pressure, anxiety. Perhaps, we have to learn to bear these pressures from all sides, do something we don't want to do so much, reconcile with the world with compromises, we must learn to silently digest the negative energy from all sides, hide in a corner that no one knows and secretly heal ourselves, but we can't predict when we will suddenly leave this world, and we don't even have time to react ......
Therefore, we must learn to reconcile with ourselves for the rest of our livesTry not to be entangled, not entangled, not aggrieved, not complaining, not compromised, not against your heart!Life is more than 30,000 days in the world, why do you work so tired, what people are sophisticated, what is deceitful, what intrigues, what stalking, to hell with it!It's as comfortable as you want!
suddenly remembered what the writer Yu Hua said: "Life is a question, no matter how you choose, there will be regrets." In the dead of night, I took out my heart and sewed and mended, and when I woke up, I was full of confidence. To live, you have to open roads in the mountains and build bridges in the water. Self-crossing is the ability, and crossing people is the pattern. Forgive everything before going to bed, and wake up to be born again. ”
Isn't it?Everything in the world is ** you, why don't you want to let go of yourself?There are some things that I am fortunate to have and lost my life, and I choose to let go, not to forgive others, but to let myself go!