I am Lin Yue, 37 years old this year, and Zhan Mei is my best friend who grew up.
In an accident, after my husband accompanied Zhan Mei in the hospital, I had an extra daughter, but I was willing to treat her as my own daughter.
Zhan Mei's parents and I are employees of the same company, and we both live in the company's staff dormitory. My family lives on the second floor, and Zhan Mei's family lives on the third floor.
Elementary, middle, and high school were all best friends and went to school together almost every day. Our relationship is so good that we are in love, the first person to know must be the other party, and she is the one who knows my secrets the most.
After high school, we were admitted to different universities, and Zhan Mei's parents also left their jobs and returned to their hometown, and their life trajectories have been staggered ever since.
Since then, we have only been common on our phones, and occasionally we will go to each other's cities.
Later, we got married and had our own families, and we were even further apart.
I'm in Fujian, she's in Zhejiang.
After we got married, we had even less contact. Everyone is busy living their own lives, making money, raising babies, and learning to bear the burden of life on their own.
After graduating, I worked as a salesman in a foreign trade company, responsible for connecting customers on the Amazon platform.
Xu Lin is the company's procurement, responsible for finding high-quality and inexpensive products and accessories in various provinces and places, and then exporting them to foreign countries after making finished products.
Our work needs to be docked, and we have a good impression when we come and go.
After two years of dating, we got married.
Before I got married, I specially called Zhan Mei ** and invited her to come to my wedding. It's just that at that time, her mother-in-law left, and she was filial piety, so she didn't come to my wedding. I only transferred a red envelope of 2888, wishing my marriage a prosperous and sweet one.
Later, I also went to Zhejiang once and met Zhan Mei.
She was struggling a bit, and I remember when I was in high school. We went shopping, and she fell in love with a doll, 200 yuan, which is equivalent to a week's food expenses for the two of us, and she bought it without blinking.
But now, 60 pounds of cherries, she is too expensive and reluctant to buy them.
Her mother-in-law is sick and owes a lot of debt, and every money earned by Zhan Mei and her husband has to be carefully calculated and carefully distributed, and she has saved every penny of the child's milk powder and diaper money, rent, living expenses, and basic consumption to pay off the debt.
That time I left, I secretly left 5,000 yuan for Zhan Mei, hoping that she could live better.
If Xu Lin will go to Zhejiang on a business trip, I will ask him to buy some milk, fruits and children's clothes to send.
Within a few years, Zhan Mei also came to Fujian, but he was alone with his children.
When Zhan Mei's husband was at work, he was in a trance because he was too tired and was accidentally swept into the machine. Although he was sent to the hospital in time for treatment, after more than 20 hours of rescue, his life could not be saved.
There are no relatives to rely on at the mother-in-law's side, and the mother-in-law does not want Zhan Mei to live in her mother's house. Zhan Mei stayed at her mother's house for half a month, and then came out with the child.
I was her best friend, and she wanted me to help her find a job so that she could settle here with her children.
The company happened to be recruiting merchandisers, so I trained Zhan Mei in advance, and sure enough, she passed the company's interview very smoothly.
I also helped Zhan Mei find a house near the company, with a one-bedroom and one-hall rent of 680, and a kindergarten two or three hundred meters away from the residence, which is a very convenient place to live.
Xu Lin and I are very sympathetic to Zhan Mei, it is very hard for a woman to beg for a life with a child, and we will help her as much as possible in life.
There is a saying that there are many rights and wrongs in front of the widow's door.
There are always some people who look at Zhan Mei's orphans and widows, feel that they are easy to bully, and talk about right and wrong behind their backs.
The children also did the same, bullying Zhan Mei's child, saying that he was a wild seed and a child without a father.
Or that his mother killed his wife and killed his father.
Or, his mother was inappropriate and relied on selling her body to raise ......her children
There are even conspiracy theories, saying that Zhan Mei is a good means, hooking a married man, and letting the family post it for her to find a job and take care of her children for free, and she has nothing to do to buy clothes and fruits.
Who knows what the exchange of interests ...... behind closed doors
I was about to explode when I heard this, Xu Lin rarely came to Zhan Mei's place, and almost every time he came with me. Occasionally, once or twice, I don't have time to come over, so I will ask Xu Lin to deliver something instead of me.
I'm pretty sure that Xu Lin and Zhan Mei don't have any improper relationships.
But these foul words are also disgusting to listen to, and the point is not to let these people teach their children badly.
It just so happened that Zhan Mei had worked in the company for two years, and he had saved more than 100,000 yuan in the past two years, which was enough to give them a better place to live and school.
Last year, Zhan Mei met a man who was quite good in all aspects.
The man is 3 years older than Zhan Mei, divorced, and has children with his ex-wife.
After getting along, the two of them felt good, and the child did not resist, so they had plans to be together.
Originally, both of them planned to have no children, but who knew that their fate with the children was too great to stop them.
If it weren't for the chest pain, he would go to the hospital for examination, and Zhan Mei would not know that he was actually more than 3 months pregnant. Originally, Zhan Mei didn't plan to have this child, but the doctor said that she was pregnant with a ring, which means that you are destined to have this child, and the color ultrasound also showed that the fetus is developing normally and can be pregnant with a ring.
The doctor's words made Zhan Mei hesitate.
After the man knew that she was pregnant, he was even more happy, and he also felt the strength of fate, saying that since the child chose to come to us, he would give birth to him well. Whether he has this child or not, he will also treat Zhan Mei and his ex-husband's children as his own children.
When Zhan Mei was close to giving birth, the man was still on the way to work and did not return home.
Xu Lin and I took care of Zhan Mei in the hospital, Xu Lin helped watch during the day, and I guarded Zhan Mei's bed at night.
Zhan Mei was very embarrassed and said, "Why don't you go back, I'll ask a nurse to take care of me." You're here to take care of me, it's too much of a delay for you, and there are children at home. ”
I refused directly, "That's not good, I have to take care of you when you give birth, don't worry about the children of our two families, I will let my in-laws help take them." You're my best friend, I have to be the first to see your child when it's born, and when she grows up, I'll have to call me godmother!”
Okay, well, let her call you godmother when the time comes. ”
The child was born, a beautiful little girl, with big round eyes, pink and tender, very cute.
I'm even happier in my heart, hehe, I'm also a person with a daughter.
It's beautiful!