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Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-19

Please put it away!How to give valuable advice to others?

Hello, friends, today I want to share with you a super practical tip, that is, when people ask for your opinion, how to give them valuable, not perfunctory advice?

First of all, let's make it clear that when people come to you for advice, what they want most is your careful analysis and concrete advice. Instead of hearing vague words like "not bad", "okay", "should be fine". Not only does such a statement lack clarity, but it can also make the other person feel that you are just perfunctory to them.

So, the next time someone comes to you with an idea, here are a few things you can try:

1. Fully understand the situation: Before giving advice, understand the whole picture of the matter and the real needs of the other party. Only by understanding clearly can we give more pertinent advice.

2. Be honest about your opinions: Don't be afraid to express your true thoughts and opinions, even if it can be a bit poignant. After all, the other person wants to hear what you really think more than false comfort.

3. Provide solutions: In addition to expressing opinions, you can also provide some specific solutions. Let the other person take action when they accept your point of view.

Armed with these tips, the next time someone asks you for advice, you can calmly provide them with valuable, specific advice!

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