"The sister on the bow of the boat laughs, the brother on the shore looks, and the long rope ripples of love" The song "The Love of the Slender Man" was a household name at the time.
Born in a remote mountain village in Hebei Province, Yu Wenhua has become a high-profile Chinese soprano singer and national first-class actor with her tenacity and hard work.
Her career has been smooth sailing.
God rewards hard work, and Yu Wenhua's career is thriving, but his love life has gone through twists and turns.
Her love path is full of thorns.
After Yu Wenhua and her ex-husband Li Fan experienced the pain of divorce, they chose to take their daughter to spend the rest of their lives with their current husband Li Nian.
Although they have been married for more than 20 years, they have never welcomed a child of their own.
Now, without her children, how is her life?
Yu Wenhua was born in 1966 and has many brothers and sisters, but she is one of the most outstanding.
It is said that most babies are wrinkled when they are born, but Yu Wenhua is different, she has been very delicate since birth, and her facial features are also particularly moving.
When she was a child, Yu Wenhua was praised by everyone for her good looks, and as she grew older, she not only did not become disabled, but became more beautiful and moving, and she was favored when she walked to the **.
Although she has an outstanding appearance, the children in the family are very sensible, helping with housework, farm work, etc., so that Yu Wenhua lives in such an environment.
Despite this, she was full of inferiority complex inside.
On an ordinary day at home, Yu Wenhua sang a few lyrics at will, but he didn't expect his family to praise them after hearing them.
This unexpected support made Yu Wenhua feel the power of self-confidence and courage.
In the cottage in the countryside, Yu Wenhua is immersed in beautiful singing every day.
Soon after, her singing was like spring rain that moistened the hearts of every neighbor and won a lot of praise.
Neighbors have suggested that if she continues to work hard, she will become a good singer.
This suggestion is like a seed that takes root in Wenhua's heart, leading her out of the countryside and towards a brilliant future.
Yu Wenhua knows that dreams can only be realized through practical actions.
Although there are many siblings in the family and the tuition burden is heavy, she does not want to put too much pressure on her parents.
However, her parents have always encouraged her: "Don't worry about the tuition fees, as long as you study hard, you will have a career in the future, and our whole family can benefit." ”
Yu Wenhua is determined to realize his dream through hard work. In order to support his daughter's education, her old father did not hesitate to sell the cattle that had accompanied him for many years, the sheep and the hens that were laying eggs, and even borrowed money from everywhere.
He had only one wish, and that was to give his daughter a higher art education.
Yu Wenhua got a great opportunity in her career, and at this time, she met her life mentor Han Shaoyun, whose teaching and careful guidance made her singing skills improve by leaps and bounds.
With her own hard work, Yu Wenhua was successfully admitted to a local art college, which made the whole family feel extremely happy and proud of her.
Since my parents were real farmers, they had to work in the fields at dawn every day, and they were over forty years old, but they looked like they were in their seventies.
Yu Wenhua left home to study, and her parents were worried that she would not be able to eat, so they often took a hitchhike to bring her food, but they were afraid of embarrassing their daughter, so they had to ask the security guard to notify her.
After getting along for a long time, some classmates who didn't know the inside story mistakenly thought that Yu Wenhua's grandfather often came to school to bring him food, and every time Yu Wenhua saw his father with wrinkles on his face, he felt both pain and self-blame, and at the same time deeply felt sorry for his father.
Holding back tears, she took the food from her father, then rushed into the classroom and shouted, "That's not my grandfather, that's my father!".”
The classmates were stunned for a moment, and then began to whisper, privately discussing Yu Wenhua's family background.
But even in the face of the ridicule of his classmates, Yu Wenhua never felt inferior because of his father's identity.
Whenever she was ridiculed, she would secretly make up her mind that she must work hard to make a good life for the whole family.
In 1985, Yu Wenhua was successfully admitted to China's ** Academy and entered the National Song and Dance Troupe because of his outstanding performance.
This good news finally gave her parents hope at the age of 70.
She finally straightened her back and proved herself with her strength, leaving those who once despised her completely speechless.
During his college years, Yu Wenhua won a scholarship with excellent grades, so he did not ask his family for any living expenses, and he never caused any trouble to his family.
At the critical moment of graduation, Yu Wenhua suffered a huge blow in his life - the death of his father.
Despite the hardships she faced, she did not give up, but chose to persevere in her efforts, hoping that one day she could get ahead and let her parents live a good life.
After graduating, she was assigned to work in a local song and dance troupe and became a soloist.
Yu Wenhua is in the prime of her youth, beautiful and talented, and has won the admiration of many male colleagues.
Yu Wenhua decided to focus on his career and not consider personal emotions for the time being.
She knew that her father had not passed away happily, and now that her mother was old, she had to speed up her pace and bring her to her side as soon as possible.
At the opening ceremony of the 1990 Beijing Asian Games, a song "Crane" was performed by young female soloist Yu Wenhua movingly, making her an unforgettable existence in everyone's hearts.
China Record Corporation has a discerning eye and sends her an invitation to cooperate. Faced with this coveted opportunity, Yu Wenhua gladly accepted it.
This cooperation allowed her to meet her first boyfriend Li Fan.
It turned out that Li Fan, the composer in charge of karaoke production, worked as an editor at China Records.
Li Fan has admired Wenhua for a long time, because Yu Wenhua's solo performance of "Crane" at the Asian Games made Li Fan completely moved.
Yu Wenhua is two years older than Li Fan, and was born in the Northeast region with a graduate degree in composition at *** College.
Yu Wenhua was able to get this opportunity, which was inseparable from Li Fan's recommendation.
They met at work and found that they were very compatible with each other and fell in love with each other over time.
Yu Wenhua found that he had deep feelings for Li Fan, and the hearts and minds between the two had already been connected, but someone just wanted to pierce this layer of window paper.
In 1991, Li Fan made up his mind to remake a karaoke song called "Slender Man's Love".
He decided to let Yu Wenhua play the heroine, but the heroine lacked a male lead.
After layers of selection, he chose a popular actor from many candidates, and he is Yoon Sang-jee.
Yu Wenhua's gentle and shy interpretation, coupled with Yin Xiangjie's popular singing, this wonderful combination actually produced unexpected ratings, and a new chorus method "Slender Man's Love" was born.
The song won a silver award at the first MTV Awards.
In 1993, the two singers became popular by singing "The Love of the Slender Man" at the Lantern Festival Gala of Beijing TV.
So, Li Fan immediately composed the next song for them, "It's not raining, it's not windy, there's a sun in the sky".
The following year, the two were honored to be invited to the CCTV Spring Festival Gala and sang this song.
Yu Wenhua has since emerged on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, she is at the peak of her career, in order to maintain her relationship with Li Fan, she chose to enter the palace of marriage with Li Fan.
Soon after, Yu Wenhua gave birth to a lovely daughter to Li Fan.
Yu Wenhua pursued career success and left his daughter in the care of his mother. She was busy with work all day and rarely went home.
Although everyone thinks she is a winner in life, her marriage is in trouble and cannot be recovered.
Now, the relationship between the two has broken down.
Yu Wenhua's heart was torn apart by her husband's betrayal, and her husband Li Fan had a deep infatuation with a beautiful female colleague who was six years different in age from her.
The two have been together for a long time, the female colleague is young and beautiful, and Yu Wenhua is busy with work and rarely goes home, resulting in less and more separation between the husband and wife.
In this case, Li Fan had an improper relationship with a female colleague.
Yu Wenhua adheres to the purity of love and finds it difficult to accept the reality that feelings are tainted.
In the face of her husband's betrayal, she resolutely chose to leave.
Li Fan felt deep remorse and left his daughter to Yu Wenhua.
Yu Wenhua fell into deep pain after the divorce, she couldn't understand why someone would betray her, she washed her face with tears all day long, couldn't eat, and couldn't sleep.
With no one to talk to in real life, Yu Wenhua can only spend a painful time on the Internet.
At this time, a netizen named Li Nian appeared in her life, he was by her side, and the two of them had all kinds of problems together, as long as Yu Wenhua needed it, Li Nian would always be by her side.
The relationship between the two gradually warmed up, and they finally decided to meet.
In 2002, they finally made this decision happen.
Yu Wenhua was deeply attracted by Li Nian's gentlemanly demeanor, and Li Nian was so excited when he saw the netizens he had been thinking about for a long time.
The two quickly fall in love, but Yu Wenhua is skeptical about the fact that Li Nian can accept her to have a daughter.
Li Nian dispelled Yu Wenhua's doubts with practical actions, he regarded his stepdaughter as his own, took care of her, and was also very filial to her grandmother.
A year later, they walked hand in hand into the marriage hall.
In order to help Yu Wenhua work easily, Li Nian resolutely gave up his piano career and became an agent, driver and life assistant.
For 22 years, they have never had children under their knees, because Yu Wenhua missed the best time to have children, and Li Nian was deeply worried about this, so he decided not to have children.
Yu Wenhua once said: "If there is really an afterlife, I will definitely choose him as my husband." This sentence fully proves that her decision was a wise one.
Yu Wenhua was immersed in happiness and launched a number of popular family songs, such as "Missing My Mother", "I Want to Say to My Mother-in-law", and "Working Hard for My Husband".
Today, they are in their fifties and still love each other dearly.
Although Yu Wenhua has experienced two marriages, she was lucky to find her true love after all.