Netizens wrote to ask why girls nowadays are obviously very good, but they have become leftover girls?The reason is very simple, there is only one, today's children are not compromised, and they are single if they can't meet a suitable candidate, and most older girls have this mentality.
Today's children are not the first ten generations, they can be compromised, and it is a blessing to get together, where to find love at first sight, and they must meet their own standards in all aspects.
The requirements for others are too high, but the conditions are good, and the requirements of others are also high, so they are not tall or short, and they will drag their age to be dragged around.
Part of the reason is that the parents, the parents intervened, how successful such a marriage is, it is estimated that it is very difficult.
To be a man should be self-aware, to set your sights too high, to choose one or two advantages of the object, not to be everything, there is no absolute one thing in everything.
If you want to retreat in the face of difficulties, as long as you have a good character, it is good to have a job.
I don't know how thick the sky is, and I can only become a leftover woman when I jump around.
Some time ago, an older girl was introduced to a partner, and the conditions of the youth were very good, but the result was that the girl's parents were not satisfied.
Out of kindness, he repeatedly gave work to the woman's parents, telling him that the boy had a good job, and that his parents were retired from public institutions, that the family conditions were very superior, and that the young man worked in a state-owned enterprise and had a good character, and that such conditions were difficult to find with a lantern.
After repeated work, the woman's parents agreed to their relationship.
The two chatted on WeChat for a few days, but the boy quit silently and didn't talk again.
At this time, the girl's parents were anxious and asked what was going on?
Why don't the boys talk anymore?
At this time, I could only ** consult the man's introducer, and the reply given by the other party was that the young man did not love, because the girl spoke too strongly, and the young man said that he should disperse!
Later, I told the girl that this young man was not suitable, and I would introduce him if there was a suitable one.
After that, I introduced her a lot, and the girl wanted to find a boy who was officially working in the agency and institution according to her parents.
According to the request of the girl's family, she was introduced to a young man working in a government institution and a public institution.
The result was a girl's words, which made the young man feel cold and cold in his heart.
When she met, she told the boy that she didn't want to go on a blind date, and in order to deal with the family, her parents were anxious, but she was not in a hurry.
As soon as the young man heard this, the two of them chatted for more than ten minutes, and then hurriedly went home.
Later, under the persuasion of our introducer, the next day, the young man asked the little girl out for a meal, also to learn more.
This time the speech was even more outrageous, the little girl told the young man that she didn't want to get married, and after two contacts, the young man's heart was very sad, so he directly proposed to forget it!
Later, the girl's mother came to me and asked why the young man didn't talk anymore
At the time, I was too embarrassed to say it, but I could only say that it might not be appropriate!
Because we didn't listen to the other party in person, we can't draw conclusions, and we can only say it after implementation.
A few days later, the girl's mother came to me again and said that she didn't love this family very much at first, and she felt that the young man was working in a government institution and a public institution, so she agreed to learn about it.
Listening to her, I think it's the same reason.
Once again, I found the young man's mother to understand the situation, and it was confirmed that the girl talked a little too much, she didn't want to go on a blind date, she didn't want to get married, such a girl, the boy was willing to get along with her?
You must be low-key, you can't overestimate yourself too much, and the same is true for marriage, if you are too picky, you can only become a leftover woman.
The conditions on both sides are about the same, to be honest, it's really not good to have too high vision!