Unexpectedly, the former host Tu Lei "got into trouble" again!
Some time ago, he appeared in the public eye after not appearing for a long timeWho would have thought that Tu Lei's appearance this time caused a stormNetizens shouted for him to explain, what happened?
As the incident continued to ferment, Tu Lei chose to respond, but what was unexpected was that many netizens did not buy his explanation, and even became even more angryWhat exactly did he say?Why does Tu Lei frequently arouse the anger of netizens?
Netizen comments.
In fact, the cause of the incident is very simple.
Since December, Hebei tycoon Xie Kefeng has finally found his son after 25 years, and this news has touched countless netizens, and everyone has expressed their blessings to them.
At the same time, netizens can't help but be a little concerned about Xie Qingshuai's life after returning home. Perhaps it is for this reason that Xie Qingshuai's social account has skyrocketed by millions of followers in a few days. Overnight, the Xie family became one of the popular "Internet celebrities".
On the night of December 8th,Xie Qingshuai and his family started the first live broadcast on their social accounts to share their joy with netizens.
Fortunately at the beginning, it didn't take long for the live broadcast to gather tens of millions of viewers, and in this regard, the Xie family was full of smiles, and it can be seen that their family is very happy.
Not only that, but fan gifts also kept swiping the screen at that time.
However, the situation changed later because of the appearance of a ...... person
This person is none other than Tu Lei, who once served as the host of "Love Defense", who suddenly appeared on the live broadcast in the second half of the live broadcast.
To know,Tu Lei has been known for his serious and profound speech and on-the-point comments in programs such as "Happiness Knocks on the Door", "Love Defense", "It's All About You", "Perfect Confession", "One Turn into a Pair" and other programsand was recognized by the audience, even if he later faded out of the audience's field of vision because of some things, there are still many people who like him.
Therefore, when he appeared in the live broadcast room, the audience's enthusiasm couldn't help but be a little high.
However, when he talked to the Xie family, the atmosphere in the live broadcast room slowly solidified, what was going on?
It turned out that Tu Lei reconciled his family and had a conversation in the live broadcast room.
At first, the conversation was quite normal, Tu Lei first greeted him, and then praised Xie Qingshuai's calm and kind qualities since he recognized his relatives, especially when he said that Xie Qingshuai chose to be self-reliant and not sit back and enjoy his success, Tu Lei also specially comforted Xie Qingshuai, saying:"Accept the heart given by your father, you can still work hard, and the two are not in conflict. Why don't you accept it?”
In addition, he also persuaded Xie Qingshuai: "...Child, you can accept the gift of your parents, as long as you know how to struggleThose properties and cars are also the love of your parents for you, after all, you have not been by their side for 25 years, and it is understandable that they want to compensate you, you have to be considerate of their feelings. ”
I have to say that these few sentences are indeed absolutely absolute.
It not only dispelled the long-term concerns of understanding Qingshuai, but also said what Kefeng and his wife had always wanted.
Even the audience in the comment area couldn't help but be amazed when they heard it, and some netizens even commented directly: "Tu Lei is worthy of being an emotional expert, that is, a professional." ”
However, what people didn't expect was that Tu Lei committed a "** disease" in the next second, and he turned on the "poisonous tongue mode", perhaps Tu Lei's original intention was to "strike while the iron is hot" and spread "positive energy", but what he didn't expect was that the following words had the opposite effect.
What did Tu Lei say?
Tu Lei. First of all, he asked Xie Qingshuai: "If you have a choice,."You will choose to be born in an ordinary family and be with your parents all the timeOr will it be like now, leaving for 25 years, and then returning to a wealthy family?”
Hearing such a question, Xie Kefeng's and his wife's expressions gradually stiffened, especially Xie Kefeng's mother, who lowered her head guiltily.
At the same time, the comment area exploded directly.
Xie Qingshuai commented on the live broadcast audience.
After all, everyone knows that Xie Qingshuai was unfortunately lost because of the negligence of his familyWhen he asked this, he undoubtedly sprinkled salt in the hearts of Xie Kefeng and his wife.
Fortunately, Xie Qingshuai at that time firmly answered this question:"Of course I just want to be with my parents. ”While talking, he held his mother's hand, which eased the atmosphere in the live broadcast room.
Regarding Xie Qingshuai's answer, Tu Lei didn't say anything, and he didn't show the slightest expression on his face, and then asked sharply: "When you publicly said that you would take good care of your grandparents who raised the family, did you consider the feelings of your biological parents?"Aren't you afraid that your parents will be angry?”
This question directly embarrassed Xie Qingshuai, at that time he was a little overwhelmed and didn't know how to answer, after all, one side was his biological parents, and the other side was his grandparents who had been very good to him since childhood, so he directly avoided the screen and lowered his head.
Looking at their son's appearance, Xie Kefeng and his wife were a little distressed and worried, so Xie Kefeng chose to come forward:"As a father, I have a lot of respect for my son's choiceOf course, I am not in a position to say anything about this.
I just want to say that it has not been easy for me in the past 25 years, no one knows how much I have suffered and what I have paid behind it, only I know. ”
Hearing this, Tu Lei directly expressed his opinion: "Actually, I know why Xie Qingshuai said it even though he knew that sentence would make many people feel uncomfortableIn the final analysis, this child is still with you and his wife, and he knows ...... be grateful”
Regarding Tu Lei's opinion, Xie Kefeng and his wife nodded in agreement, until they heard Tu Lei say "......."Xie Qingshuai has become so good now, you really have to thank his grandparentsAs a parent, you can't interfere too much with your child's choice, and you should let your child make his own decision......After these words, Xie Kefeng's and his wife's faces changed. Especially Xie Kefeng, his face suddenly became stiff.
Needless to say, as a once smash hit host, Tu Lei said such controversial remarks as "getting himself in trouble" ......
Sure enough, after the live broadcast ended,Tu Lei's behavior has inevitably received hot comments from many netizensEveryone first discussed it in the comment area of Tu Lei's social account.
A netizen asked Tu Lei: "Yesterday I was in the live broadcast room, and I felt that you had forced them into a corner when you asked your grandparents." ”
Later, as the matter further fermented, this incident also caused strong dissatisfaction among other netizens.
Netizen comments. Some netizens said: "I watched the live broadcast throughout the whole process, when Tu Lei made his unbelievable remarks,Father and Mother's face was obviously dark, and the child was in pain on the side. ”
Another netizen said:"Grateful to grandparents, this sentence can only be said by Xie QingshuaiBecause his grandparents accompanied him in childhood, he had no way to put aside his feelings and only talk about reason, which we can all understand. ”
Spicy comments from netizens. There is even a netizen who said: "That's a buyer, happiness is based on the pain of other people's families, this is not an orphanage adoption." ”
From these comments, we can see the attitude of netizens towards this matter, and most people expressed their incomprehension of Tu Lei's behavior.
Not only netizens,Later, many seekers learned of Tu Lei's words and publicly reprimanded him.
Sun Haiyang, the prototype of the movie "Dear", said that the biological father is not incapable of educating his children, but that the children are abducted and sold and lose the opportunity to educate their children, and the same crime is ...... for buying and selling, and both buyers and traffickers are guilty
Official ** report.
and Du Xiaohua, the father who is looking for relatives, as the only father who did not find a child in the prototype of "Dear", he changed his previous gentleness and elegance, and directly released **, accusing Tu Lei: "I don't want anyone to say thank you to the buyer, this is a great disrespect to our parents looking for relatives!."It's not the ...... we let them raise”
We can see that Du Xiaohua in ** is very emotional, and his language is extremely sharp, which is different from his previous image.
Related Reports: In addition, there is also Shen Junliang, a father who has successfully found relatives, and he also directly expressed his anger to Tu Lei:"Anyone who is willing to take the time to get to know the family group will not say such a thing as thanking the breadwinner!”
Not only these few, but also many parents looking for relatives have posted ** one after another, and they all said that they didn't understand Tu Lei's behavior and remarks.
As the incident became more and more intense, Tu Lei also hurriedly responded, but what Tu Lei didn't expect was that his words made netizens even more angryWhat did he say again?
Tu Lei responded publicly to the sentence "thank you for supporting your family", saying:"As a ** person, I have always supported the same crime of buying and selling, and the crime of buying and selling is even greater.
The reason why I asked Xie Qingshuai to thank his supportive family was because I wanted to relieve him so that he didn't have to be so entangled. Besides, there is currently no evidence that Xie Qingshuai's grandparents were involved in the whole process of buying and selling children, so I was right to ask him to be grateful......”
As soon as this remark came out, many netizens became even more disgusted, and some netizens said: "What do you call this, since you know that there is no evidence,."Then why do you directly think that buying and selling has nothing to do with the grandparents who support the family?”
Some netizens also said: "Tu Lei, my aunt knows that buying and selling is the same crime." ”
In the face of the anger of many netizens, Tu Lei chose to delete **, and then apologized.
On December 10, he chose to connect with his father Du Xiaohua in the live broadcast roomThis time, he sincerely apologized to the many parents who were looking for their relatives.
Tu Lei apologized. Tu Lei said:"I reflected on myself deeply, I'm sorry, I didn't take into account everyone's feelings, and I said a lot of things that were not objective......
Tu Lei responded. From now on, I will use my account of nearly 60 million followers to post some verified information to help you expand your influence, and the traffic should be used in the right place. ”
Related Reports: At the same time, he also said that as a public figure, he should be cautious in his words and deeds, and he must pay attention to it in the future.
Regarding his apology, many netizens commented: "I hope Tu Lei can do what he says." ”
It should be noted that after the end of the microphone connection, Tu Lei expressed his sincerity with his practical actionsHe really used his social account to post a family search**, which was from Du Xiaohua, a parent looking for relatives.
It was precisely because of his sincere attitude that this turmoil finally came to an end.
I have to say that Tu Lei is the same as Gao Xiaosong, Zhang Shaogang, Bi Fujian and othersSuccess also has a mouth, and defeat also has a mouth.
Zhang Shaogang. We are noncommittal, Tu Lei is indeed a talent, not long after he hosted the radio program "Lushan Night Talk", many listeners kept calling and sending praiseSubsequently, Tu Lei served as the host of the evening program "True Love Reception Room", and in less than a month, the listening rate ranked first in the local program.
Tu Lei, "Night Talk in the Foothills".
Not only that, he once held 11 consecutive meetings with friends, each of which was as high as 1,000 people, and the venue was fulldirectly set a unique precedent for the host of Hunan TV at that timeIt can even be said that Tu Lei's meeting with friends was more popular than the meeting with fans of some artists.
Later, he hosted programs such as "You Belong", "Emotional Referee", "Love Defense War" and so on, which were once again loved by the audience and attracted countless fans.
Of course, the reason why he can win the love of many audiences is not only because of Tu Lei's talent, but also because of his mouth, every time he speaks, he is to the point, extremely profound, and people have to praise.
As he once said, the classic sentence: The beauty of a woman is not in her posture and face, but in "not dismissing her husband and being poor"! The greatness of a man is not in wealth and scheming, but in "not tired of chaff and ugliness"! Time flies, when beauty is gone, when wealth is gone, are you still in love? Staying together for a lifetime does not rely on persistence, not patience, but willingly with you!
There is also "the spare tire must also be in line with the size and brand, otherwise the spare tire will become a waste tire sooner or later."It's a bit cruel to say that, but that's what life is'La's garbage' is sometimes a misplaced talent, and a lover is sometimes an enemy who throws the wrong one! It must also be reasonable and valuable to be prepared! To pay, you must also have dignity and a bottom line, so as not to be looked down upon! "Wait.
I have to admit that Tu Lei's quotations are indeed classic, and every word is fine.
However, although Tu Lei is very popular, he also has a lot of controversy.
Tu Lei. For example,Previously, Tu Lei was criticized for "bringing goods too arrogant"; Because he "spoke ill of each other" to female fans who did not listen to persuasion, he was criticized for "forgetting his roots"; was once "bombarded" by netizens for pedaling the cabin on the plane and so on.
Tu Lei's live broadcast brings durian.
Related Reports: Including this "Thanksgiving for Raising Family" turmoil, it was also caused by a sentence.
Maybe Tu Lei originally had good intentions, but who expected that he would "overturn" in the endI don't know why he came?
What do you think about Tu Lei's incident, and you are welcome to express your opinions.