When people are old, these three things would rather be brought into the coffin than told to their children
When a person is old, it is like a book, every page is full of stories, and every stroke is engraved with years. We have walked through the wind and rain, seen the rainbow, and tasted the ups and downs of life. In the process, we will go through many things, some things that we want to take to the coffin, and some things that we cannot say to our children.
The first thing is about your regrets. Regret is an inevitable part of our lives, and it can stem from something we missed, or something we didn't do. However, these regrets should not be a burden to our children. Everyone has their own life, and they have their own dreams and pursuits. If we impose our regrets on them, it can leave them feeling stressed and distressed. Therefore, it is better to bring regret to the coffin than to pass on these negative energies to your children.
The second thing is about your complaints. Life is always full of challenges and difficulties, and this is the only way for us to grow. But we can't blame others for these difficulties and setbacks, and leave all the complaints to our children. They have their own lives to face and their own difficulties to solve. If we keep complaining, it will not only bring them negative energy, but also affect their outlook on life and values. Therefore, it is better to complain in the coffin than to pass these complaints on to the children.
The third thing is about your stubbornness. When people get older, they sometimes become opinionated, and this is normal. But this stubbornness should not be our control over our children. Everyone has their own way of life and values, and we should respect their choices. If we insist on our own views, we may arouse their disgust and dissatisfaction. Therefore, it is better to stubbornly stay in the coffin than to stubbornly control the children.
In general, when people are old, there are some things that we would rather take into the coffin than say to our children. These things include our regrets, complaints, and stubbornness. However, we also need to understand that children have their own lives and dreams, and they need our understanding and support, not burdens and pressures. Therefore, we must learn to let go, learn to accept, and learn to face every stage of life with love and wisdom.
I hope that every reader can think and understand after reading this article. Because life is a thick book, and every page is full of stories and wisdom. And our choices and actions will determine the direction and meaning of this book. So, let's write this book with love and wisdom together!