The grandson's wedding gift house, the daughter-in-law asks for the right to double fingers, and the property certificate fights to win people
This year, I am entering the 76th year of my life with a son and a daughter. The daughter is 54 years old and the son is 51 years old. After six years at my daughter's house, I am now enjoying my old age with my wife.
Around 10 a.m. the day before yesterday, I had just bought a basket of the freshest prawns at the market to show my granddaughter who was about to bring the kids home. However, when I got home, I was surprised to find a family of three sitting on the sofa, which made me stunned for a moment.
This family of three is none other than my son, daughter-in-law and grandson. I didn't froze for no reason, because the last time I saw them was three years ago, and that meeting wasn't pleasant, which meant they didn't even bother to ask me how the past three years were.
When he saw me come back, my son warmly addressed me as father, and my daughter-in-law was just as friendly. The smiles on their faces made me wonder if the sun had risen in the west.
I forced my composure and went into the house to start working on the ingredients at hand, not daring to delay my granddaughter's lunch. It just so happened that my granddaughter came, and I couldn't let her go hungry.
My 25-year-old grandson walked into the kitchen and said to him affectionately:"Grandpa, what are you cooking?We have good news for you this time"。
It turned out that the grandson's marriage had made significant progress. Some time ago, the grandson went to the woman's house in person, and the woman's parents agreed to this family business.
Hearing this, I nodded, heartily happy. Although he has a lot of opinions about his son and daughter-in-law in his heart, his grandson is innocent after all. Knowing that he was going to get married, I naturally blessed him from the bottom of my heart, hoping that he could live a good life and not be like his immature and unfilial father.
My grandson was raised by my wife and me. Twenty-five years ago, when my daughter-in-law was seven months pregnant, my wife went to her son's house with ten old chickens, two baskets of eggs and a bucket of wild yellow eels that had been carefully raised for more than two years.
The son said that the daughter-in-law prefers to eat these. When the daughter-in-law has her period, as long as she says that she wants to eat something, even if it is late at night, her husband will get up and cook it for her, for fear that she will be hungry. All the ingredients we brought were given to my daughter-in-law, but she didn't eat them.
Under the careful care of his wife, the daughter-in-law recovered well, and her face quickly returned to the prenatal level. When the neighbors saw it, they all praised my wife for taking good care of me.
On the other hand, my daughter had no one to take care of her for the first month. The mother-in-law she met didn't like her daughter-in-law's behavior, and I felt very guilty at the thought that my daughter was going to marry away from home, beyond our financial means.
After I retired, I also went to my son's house to help with my grandson. We stayed there for 19 years, raising our grandchildren from newborn to 19 years old. We watched our grandson go to college and become a promising child.
When I received my grandson's acceptance letter, my wife and I were very happy and felt that my grandson was doing well in his career and that we could enjoy our old age in peace.
However, to my surprise, after my grandson went to college, my daughter-in-law seemed to be a different person, and she said that the 19 years she spent with us were a suffocating life without freedom, and she had had enough. She never wanted to share this home with us again.
Hearing these words, my partner and I both got goosebumps. Maybe we were at fault in the first place, but isn't it typical for her to wait for her grandchildren to go to college and grow up before saying these things on the grounds that she wants us to move out?
In desperation, I turned to my son for help, hoping that he could make decisions for us, but I didn't expect my son to squirm, and when my daughter-in-law glared at us, my son said:"Dad, it's different now than before, and daughters also have the responsibility to support their elders. We have raised you for 19 years, and we rely on my sister to honor you in this life. "
I raised his children for 19 years and subsidized them with my pension, yet they said they raised me for 19 years. Hearing these outrageous words, I was so angry that I had a heart attack and had to be admitted to the hospital.
After being discharged from the hospital, I saw that our luggage was left at the door with the door closed. My wife and I hugged and cried, so we had to take our luggage back to our hometown. Luckily, we still have two houses and a pension, otherwise we don't know what to do.
A month after we returned to our hometown, my daughter found out what her brother and sister-in-law had done and offered to take us to her house. I'm reluctant :"How can you stay at your daughter's house?You still have to take care of your in-laws, take care of yourself, don't give us a beating"。
My daughter didn't argue and took my luggage and put it in the car:"Raising children to prevent old age is a matter of course. My husband has no opinion, and neither do my in-laws"。
At the insistence of our daughter, we moved here and have lived here for six years, enjoying the warmth and care of our parents-in-law and son-in-law.
Three years ago, my son came to visit me cursoryly, spent half an hour pretending to care, and then moved on to the topic of property. He said that he felt that it was too wasteful for us to live in his daughter's house, and that the two houses we used to live in were also empty, and suggested that we give them to him, but I firmly refused.
My son was very upset because of this, and we ended up arguing. When the son-in-law came back, he kicked my son out, and since then, my son has not been seen for three years.
When I saw my son this time, I began to suspect that they had bad intentions and that they were probably here for the two houses. My daughter and son-in-law and I have been discussing the ownership of the property for a long time. The one in the city is worth 700,000 yuan, and it will be left to her daughter in the future;The one in the suburbs is worth 500,000 and is intended to be left to his grandson, who is innocent.
In fact, during the conversation, they talked about the fact that their grandson needs to buy a house when they get married, claiming that the in-laws asked for a down payment on the marriage house, otherwise they would not talk about marriage. My daughter-in-law began to wipe her tears, trying to win sympathy, and I snatched the suburban real estate certificate and stopped her:"Xiao Kai, this is a house on the outskirts of my hometown, and it was originally prepared for you. Sell it for a down payment, and if it's not enough, ask your parents for it. As a grandfather, there's nothing I can do about it. "
The grandson took the real estate certificate and thanked him repeatedly, but his daughter-in-law interrupted him. She smiled unhappily and held up two fingers:"Dad, you're wrong. Isn't there two houses?What about the one in the city center?I have calculated, if these two houses are sold, I can buy Xiao Kai's house in full, so this house is Xiao Kai's pre-marital property. Dad, you don't know, women are very cunning now, if you only give a down payment, and only write the woman's name on the house, when something goes wrong, half of your down payment will be lost in vain, it is better to buy a whole house for Xiao Kai. "
To the greedy daughter-in-law, I replied lightly:"The house belongs to my daughter, and this is her reward for honoring me. Her other possessions, if any, are hers. This house is yours.
My son and daughter-in-law were anxious when they heard what I said, and my daughter-in-law asked me unhurriedly if I was crazy and if I shouldn't give my property to my son and daughter.
Without hesitation, I took my grandson's title deed, pointed to the gate and said:"Yes, all the property belongs to my daughter, not to my son. You can go and don't ask for a house anymore. "
They tried to stay and threatened not to leave without giving them two houses. I calmly called my son-in-law and asked him to bring someone to drive them away.
In the face of their refusal, I said to my son-in-law:"You go and get the title deeds, and I'll transfer these two houses to you now.
When they heard this, they reluctantly left. During this time, my son also called me **, but I didn't pick up.
I have made a will accompanied by my daughter to leave all two houses to her. I've done everything I can for my son's family, and I'm not prepared to let these ungrateful people continue to take advantage of me.