Dust to dust, dust to dust.
Birth, old age, sickness and death are already the norm in the world, and no one can escape the death brought about by age!
However, the death of any one member of the family can change the fortunes of the entire family.
The reason for the death of the elderly is even more important, if the family has undergone earth-shaking changes after the death of the elderly.
Then you must see if there are these 4 situations, if there is, it means that the fortune of the family has begun to decline!
When an elderly person dies, he usually leaves behind a little inheritance, which may be a valuable heirloom, or a legacy estate, or money.
Siblings may fight over these legacies, seriously affecting the harmony of the family.
It is a very amazing thing that the old man warned the eldest for a long time before his death that he must not conflict with the second child after his death.
At that time, the relationship between the eldest and the second was still very good, and there was no conflict between the twoWho knew that when the old man died, the eldest and the second would really fight.
This incident really happened to me, and the reason why the two fought was because of "cremation" or "burial".
may be because the eldest and second live in different environments, the eldest thinks that the old man should be buried in the ground when he dies, and does not want to see his mother burned to ashes and buried in the soil.
But because the second brother is very advanced in contact with things, he thinks that he should be cremated now, who would have thought that the two brothers, who have been in harmony for many years, would turn against each other at their mother's funeral.
The two lost the old man in the CCCC as a conciliator, so no one could suppress the eldest and second child who no one cared about.
Such situations are not uncommon, and many cases are due to inheritance issues, as well as the arrangement of funerals for the elderly.
caused siblings to have disagreements, and in such a sad situation, no one would get used to anyone's stinky problems.
And there are countless problems such as competing for inheritance, brothers and sisters calculate each other, this one feels that he has suffered a loss, and the other feels that he has taken less.
Several sibling brothers, for a little benefit, sword each other, "This is the same root, why is it too anxious to fry each other"!
Brothers and sisters always have a good life and a bad life, and those who have a good life will think, why can't you give me a little more if you are doing so well?
You are so rich and still want to share it with me, do you have a conscience?
The richer ones feel that money is not enough at any time, and everyone is afraid that they will suffer losses, and they will fight for it, and in the end, the big family will be shattered.
If the old man under Jiuquan saw such a situation, I don't know if he would be chilled.
Relatives are all about helping each other when they are in trouble, not saying that the only thing left by their parents is a "legacy".And the head of the fight broke the blood.
If this was the case, the old people would have donated all their possessions before they died, because they would rather see their children live in a miserable life but have a harmonious family.
I don't want to see the fight for the rest of the inheritance shattered, and the head is broken and bleeding!
When an elderly person dies, his children will suffer greatly.
Generally, after the death of the elderly, the children have to go through a long period of low period, but this low and sad time must not last too long.
Otherwise, you will be in a predicament, unable to extricate yourself, and even lose motivation for life.
Obviously, the father and mother who can be seen when they go home, and the response that they can get by calling their parents will disappear forever, how painful it is.
Especially when they see what the old man left for themselves, their thoughts are pulled back into painful memories.
If your children are unable to get rid of the pain caused by the departure of the elderly for a long time at this time, they are likely to suffer from depression.
Such plots may be rare in reality, but they are common in TV dramas, such as the death of an old man and a child who is preparing for the college entrance examination.
Because of the history of the elderly, the sons and daughters who are about to experience an important turning point in their lives, the "college entrance examination", have been affected.
As a result, the final results are not satisfactory, and the trajectory of his life has undergone major changes.
The filial piety of the children and whether the old man treated him well or not can be seen in the sadness of the children when the old man dies, but if such sad emotions last too longIt will not only affect Xi school, but also work and life.
Therefore, it is normal for the elderly to be sad when they pass away, but people cannot be resurrected after death, so our next thing must not be excessive sadness, but to live a better life and give an explanation to the old man who has passed away.
Moreover, the most common death is not natural death, and more elderly people are dying of disease.
They can't eat on their own, they can't go to the toilet on their own, they can't even do basic turning, they were strong when they were young, and now they have become like this.
Maybe their hearts are more painful, but they don't want to bring bad feelings to their families at this time.
So in fact, sometimes the death of the elderly is a relief, their daily chemotherapy, every day, and their loved ones' low mood in front of them will make them feel sad.
So the deceased is gone, we as children have fulfilled our obligations, and the next thing is to be ourselves!
The old man has become the spiritual pillar of the family, and when he goes home, he can see his parents, and he can still be beaten by his parents in his forties and fifties.
But the old man died suddenly, and they faced too big a gap in their lives.
This is the time when the mood is at its lowest, and it is also the most sensitive time, and people in extreme grief are like a bomb that is ** at a point.
If you don't release these pressures quickly, you are likely to hurt the people around you.
Among them, it is a terrible thing for husband and wife to turn against each other, because husband and wife obviously rely on the relationship maintained by the two, although there is no blood relationship, but husband and wife are the most unique.
If the history of the two will cause two people who once loved each other so much to fall apart, it means that the two are no longer as harmonious as they seem.
Because of the old man's life, the husband and wife quarreled a lot, but because of the parents' reasons, they did not reach the point of divorce.
At this time, the old man is the mediator between the two, but when the elder dies, when the two are in an excessively sad mood, they are likely to explode because of a little thing.
In the end, there was a lot of trouble, and without the old man in the middle as a conciliator, soon the husband and wife would turn against each otherThe person who was once the most familiar has become the stranger!
Many young people don't know so many old rules, and they don't want to sit in front of their parents.
The rules of the old tradition seem to have been retained only in the previous generationFor example, what to do on major festivals, how to burn incense during the Spring Festival, and what rules are there when going to the grave.
These are all led by the old man when he is alive, and when the old man dies, many people will no longer abide by this old set of rules.
At this time, the family style will change a lot, and even change the tradition of the family!
Nowadays, many young people are addicted to the glitz and wine and the virtual world.
But such a situation is already a sign of the decline of family fortune, and it is also the beginning of the depravity of many people after losing discipline.
The death of a family member is a big blow to any family member, and it is even difficult to accept.
But this is the time to test whether this big family is harmonious.
Because a little thing can make a big fight, it shows that this big family is not as good as it seems on the surface.
I didn't take the old man's advice before he died.
The deceased is gone, and all that remains is to live well on their own and give them a good explanation in heaven!