A man's search for a partner is closely related to his own ability, economic status and appearance conditions, and it also has a lot to do with emotional intelligence. Around us, we often see men with average appearance, ability and economic status, but they can have the pursuit of many women. The most important advantage of this is that they have a very high emotional intelligence and can bring pleasure to the women around them. However, a 27-year-old young man shared his experience of being single in Shandong, and his family suspected that the feng shui problem at home caused him to find a suitable partner, so he refurbished the layout. However, netizens complained one after another, believing that the problem was not Feng Shui, but the man himself. Let's take a closer look at this man's experience and the predicament he faced.
The 27-year-old man mentioned in his sharing that he has reached marriageable age but is still unmarried, which makes the family very anxious. In order to solve this problem, the family began to suspect the feng shui problem in the home, and they hired a master to make a change in the feng shui layout. Although the man himself was not convinced of the power of Feng Shui, he agreed to the change in order to comply with his parents' wishes. Through the ** shared by the man, we can see that his appearance is very outstanding, **white, tall, sunny and handsome image is impressive. In addition, his family conditions are relatively good, and he owns a small two-story western-style house with exquisite decoration in the countryside. Compared to other men in the same village, his family conditions are superior. However, despite these conditions, the man could not find a suitable match. This makes people wonder if it was the feng shui problem that caused him to be single, or if he had a problem with himself.
The man said in his sharing that he couldn't find a partner and couldn't blame him completely. He pointed out that there are relatively few female resources in rural areas, so it is difficult for many rural young people to find a wife. What's more, today's women pay more attention to material conditions, and the pursuit of economic power often comes with material needs. Men feel that women nowadays are too materialistic, and they are more demanding on men's economic conditions, and even after getting along for a period of time, they will propose to break up because of some trivial things. Love is supposed to be an exchange of mutual affection, not money, but in reality it develops in this direction in many cases, which makes men distressed. Although a few years ago, his parents forced him to marry because of his singleness, but now they seem to have begun to look for other reasons to shift their attention to the feng shui at home. From this man's experience, it can be seen that his problems are not just the cause of Feng Shui, but more of his personal problems.
Men think that they are good-looking and have good family conditions, so they are picky about their choice. He believes that finding a partner is a lifelong event, so he can't compromise at will. However, netizens have different opinions on his opinion. They believe that finding a partner is not directly related to physical appearance, but has a lot to do with emotional intelligence. As long as the man knows how to coax people, provide emotional value to the other party, and be diligent and motivated, marrying a daughter-in-law is a matter of minutes for him. Some netizens even complained that using the money to renovate the gate on a blind date is more effective than any other method. Some men are handsome but behave stingily when it comes to getting along with their blind dates, which makes the other person feel frustrated. In this way, people will naturally choose to leave. From these points of view, it can be seen that men do not see the essence of the problem, but blindly think that the conditions are good, and thus pursue marriage.
For the 27-year-old man, he does not yet have a particularly strong desire to get married, so he is not so positive in his attitude towards love. In addition, since he lived in a rural area, his economic conditions were indeed more average compared to those in the cities. Today's women are more realistic, and when they choose a boyfriend, they not only look at their appearance, but also value each other's economic strength. If a man has nothing, of course it is difficult to find a daughter-in-law. The combination of these factors made it impossible for the man to find a suitable partner in the marriage market. From this case, we can see that finding the right object is not only a matter of appearance and economic conditions, but more importantly, we should pay attention to our own development and improvement. Only those who have the ability and emotional intelligence can have more choices in the marriage market.
Through the sharing of this 27-year-old young man, we can see the dilemma he faces as a single man. Although he has the advantage of outstanding appearance and good family conditions, his family even suspected that the feng shui problem at home caused him to be unable to find a suitable partner, so he rearranged the layout. However, netizens have pointed out that the problem is not in feng shui, but in the man himself. Because he does not have a strong desire for marriage, his attitude towards love is not positive enough. In addition, women in reality pay more attention to each other's economic strength. Therefore, as a man, he should pay attention to his own development and improvement on the basis of external conditions, and improve his emotional intelligence in order to better find a suitable partner in the marriage market.
In real life, singles face a wide variety of dilemmas and challenges. In addition to physical appearance, economic conditions, and Feng Shui, a person's inner cultivation, positive attitude, and care and care for each other are also very important factors. Focusing on self-improvement and promotion, and striving to be a valuable person, will not only increase attractiveness, but also make it easier to find the ideal partner. Everyone has the right to find love and happiness, and it is hoped that every single person can find their happiness at the right time and place.
As netizens said, relying on feng shui changes alone cannot solve the problem of singleness. The key to finding happiness lies in one's own efforts and improvements, not in external conditions. Only by improving one's emotional intelligence, knowing how to get along with others, and bringing pleasure to each other, can you have more choices in the marriage market.