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Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "People who have long accused and suppressed their family members are either stupid or bad. ”What Mr. said is extremely true, it is very enlightening, and a successful family must have a few people who understand, especially women.
The most terrible thing about a family, or a family, is not poverty at all, but that there is a person who often creates internal friction and keeps creating contradictions and quarrels!
You must know that family internal friction can really ruin an otherwise beautiful marriage.
No one wants to live as a hedgehog and a resentful woman, who didn't come with hope and kindness from the beginning, who didn't face a group of people alone, trying everything to fit in, but the same should be experienced.
It's too hard to keep understanding and forbearance all the time, and the cost of growth is too great, so big that it's suffocating.
In a family with constant internal friction, there is a need to make too many concessions and acceptances, and in the process, either Nirvana will live a transparent life, or it will be degenerate.
Most of the reasons for such a family are poverty, and both people are responsible, but often the one who pays more bears more, and if things are uneven, they will cry.
If there is a strong person in the family, and the level of cognition is not high, and the person who interferes in everything, it is simply a catastrophic destruction for the family.
Such people often don't pay much, but they manage a lot;There is not much to give, but there is a lot to ask for and calculate;I don't have much ability, I point fingers everywhere, and my tone is quite big;For the sake of one's own momentary pleasure, you can do whatever it takes and be reckless.
The presence of a narrow-minded, strong and selfish person in the family will inevitably alienate the rest of the family and create no harmony in the family.
In a family, in fact, no one owes anyone, the best understanding is to respect each other, be polite, the relationship is not far or close, don't believe in the knife mouth tofu heart, compassionate people, can never say vicious words.
If you don't have the ability to do strength, you can either pay money or make efforts, otherwise it is best to shut up and stop losses in time.
A harmonious family can only have a harmonious family and a loving family that can only blossom if it understands and tolerates each other, does not be selfish, maintains fair respect, does not look partial, and passes down the warmth from generation to generation.
As the saying goes: once cause and effect are ripe, no action can prevent them from appearing, and if pain and embarrassment are inevitable, it is best to prepare ourselves.
Everyone is at a different level, and there will be a high and low level of awareness. Those who can speak well have outstanding points, can see the problem thoroughly, and must know that you can see the essence of the problem at a glance, and the person who has been looking for the essence all his life, from the moment the incident happened, it has long been very different.
Some things need to be completed together, and they need to communicate inevitably, and the result of communication will be the main contradiction, and the problem will be delayed for a long time, which will cause disappointment and pessimism, and will not place hope on anything, and often be a bystander, it is easier to find the answer.