Life is like a tide, with ups and downs, highs and lows. At the climax, we tend to indulge in the joy of success and get carried awayAt a low point, we tend to fall into the frustration of failure and can't extricate ourselves. However, whether it is a high or a low, we should maintain a normal heart, not to be happy with things, not to be sad about ourselves.
Don't be complacent when you're in a high place, and your thoughts and actions are only shadows. This sentence warns us not to be too complacent when we are successful, but to always be humble and think about whether our actions are moral and worthy of our conscience. At the same time, we should also be wary of "shadow single", that is, loneliness, because in the high place of success, it is easy to fall into a lonely situation and lose contact and communication with others.
When the low place is not sad, don't envy the cityThis sentence tells us not to be too depressed when we fail, but to be firm in our beliefs and maintain an optimistic attitude. At the same time, we must also abandon the envy mentality of "being in the market", and do not envy the success of others too much and ignore our own efforts.
So, how can you be unhappy when you are in a high place and not sad when you are in a low place?
First of all, we must have a state of "not being happy with things, not being sad about ourselves". This kind of realm requires us to have a deep inner cultivation, to be able to see through the ups and downs of life, not to be moved by the outside world, and to maintain a calm heart.
Second, we need to have a "contentment" mentality. This mentality is not to be satisfied with the status quo and not to seek progress, but to understand one's own needs, cherish what one has, and not overly pursue material and fame and fortune.
Finally, we need to have a spirit of "optimism". Whether it is high or low, we must firmly believe that as long as we work hard, there will always be gains, and there will always be a successful day.
Don't be complacent when you're in a high place, and don't be sad when you're in a low place, which is not only a life attitude, but also a kind of life wisdom. Only by grasping this wisdom can we walk more steadily and calmly on the road of life.