Zhumadian Network News (Reporter Hu Xiangyang Guo Jianguang).In the past few days, Baiyun Park in Beijing's Xicheng District has become an Internet celebrity check-in place. They focused their cameras on Li Aizhi, a rural nanny from Li Xindian Town, Queshan County, Zhumadian City, Henan Province, and her employer, two elderly people in their nineties, to convey the true story of "a family of three". On December 2, the CCTV news live broadcast room column reported Li Aizhi's deeds in more than 7 minutes, "Treat each other sincerely, strangers become family members". The true story of Li Aizhi and the two old men spread all over the capital and was also known to audiences across the country.
Li Aizhi took the elderly outdoors in Beijing. Photo by Chu Yingshuo.
On December 7, the reporter came to Li Aizhi's hometown for an interview, and contacted Li Aizhi to learn more about Li Aizhi and her husband Li Chengshi's love stories.
She treated her employer as a family member for 9 years
Push the old man in the wheelchair into the sun, then half-squat down and take the old man in his arms, gently pat the old man's back, pull the old man's arms to relax his muscles, and then pinch the ...... legsThis is the picture shown in **, and it is also a scene often seen by the neighbors of Li Aizhi's employer.
Take care of the daily life of the two elderly people on time every day, take the elderly out for activities, feed the elderly spoonful by spoonful at every meal, massage the body of the elderly for at least two hours every day, and get up five or six times a night to hold the elderly to go to the toilet ......This is the daily work of Li Aizhi to take care of her sick employer for 9 years.
Fate always happens unexpectedly. In 2012, Li Aizhi went to Beijing to work as a nurse to take care of her first employer. Two years later, the old man died in the hospital. At that time, her every move of taking care of the elderly in the ward was watched and remembered by Mr. Wu in the same ward. "I see that she takes care of the elderly without being dirty, and she is very careful, which is very touching. Later, when the old man died, I saw her tidying up her things, so I said come to my house. Mr. Wu said.
Mr. Wu was half paralyzed. His wife, Mrs. Zou, has also been unable to take care of herself for many years, and her son is working in other places. "At that time, my wife could still say that she could move, and when she saw that Xiaoni was a living person, she beat and scolded her, and I felt uncomfortable when I looked at it, but Xiaoni didn't care, she said, 'Auntie is a patient, can't worry about her'. Mr. Wu said that his family had also hired a nanny before, but due to the lack of cooperation from his wife, the longest one worked for three months, and the shortest one only worked for one day.
The old couple has a bad swallowing function and eats less, so the meals should be soft, tasty, and nutritious. Especially Aunt Zou, she has to be fed spoonful by spoonful for every meal. When interviewed by reporters, speaking of the elderly, Li Aizhi had endless words.
In order to take better care of Mrs. Zou, Li Aizhi slept next to her at night, "I knew as soon as she moved, and it was convenient to pick her up." Li Aizhi said that he had to hug the old man more than a dozen times a day, and his height was only 1At 5 meters, she struggled to hold the old lady at first, but gradually mastered the skills.
Li Aizhi wipes the old lady's body once a day, and takes a hot bath for the old lady once a week in winter. The old lady who has been bedridden for many years has never had bedsores, and her body is always clean, and the relatives and neighbors who went to visit praised Li Aizhi for being amazing.
9 years, more than 3,200 days of getting along day and night, the two sides treat each other with sincerity, and the original strangers have become family members who are not related by blood. Li Aizhi called Mr. Wu Uncle and Mrs. Aunt, and Mr. Wu called her Xiaoni. Mr. Wu cares about Li Aizhi very much and trusts him very much. He often said to Li Aizhi: "Our family is handed over to you, and you are in charge of family affairs." ”
Mr. Wu's son is also full of respect for Li Aizhi: "Emotionally speaking, we are more like a family. Li Aizhi has long regarded himself as a member of the old man's family, and the words on his lips every day are "our family of three".
She never abandons the elderly and takes them back to her hometown to take care of them
In the past 9 years, Li Aizhi has poured all his energy into the two old men. Because the two old men are old, Li Aizhi is not at ease to leave. In Beijing for many years, she has been to only a handful of places, and rarely goes home. One year during the Spring Festival, Mr. Wu's son asked her to go home for the New Year, she returned to Zhumadian in the thirtieth year of the Chinese New Year's Eve, and returned to Beijing by car on the first day of the new year.
In 2015, Li Aizhi's mother fell and needed surgery, and Li Aizhi had to go back to her hometown to take care of her mother, but she was not worried about Mr. Wu and his family, so she simply took the two old people back to her hometown.
In her rural hometown, Li Aizhi not only has to take care of her mother and Mr. and Mrs. Wu, who have just undergone surgery, but also her lover and her brother who is paralyzed in bed. "Taking care of four people is really not something that ordinary people can do. She hugged this and that, turning over and moving her body one by one, it was so hard!Mr. Wu said.
Aieda takes care of the elderly very carefully, just like taking care of her own parents. When it came to Li Aizhi taking care of Mr. and Mrs. Wu, Chen Fang, a neighbor in his hometown, gave a thumbs up.
After taking care of him for 4 months, it was not until his mother** that Li Aizhi returned to Beijing with Mr. and Mrs. Wu. It was this trip to Henan that let Mr. Wu know that the situation at Li Aizhi's family, who looked optimistic, was not optimistic.
She raised three "sons" and sent several relatives to their deaths
Good work, Mom!This is a message on the report Li Aizhi**. The child who called mom was not Li Aizhi's biological son, but her nephew Li Yu.
We have three children, one from her brother, one from her sister, and one of our own. Li Aizhi's husband, Li Chengshi, told reporters that Li Aizhi's sister is blind, her brother-in-law is disabled, and the two have a child. Because her sister couldn't take care of the children, Li Aizhi, who was not married at the time, assumed the role of "mother", and she still lived with her nephew until she got married and had children.
When Li Yu was two and a half years old, his father died of illness, and two and a half years later, his mother also died. Li Aizhi and his wife successively handled the funeral affairs of their brother-in-law and sister, raising their nephew, building a house for their nephew, and providing for their nephew to go to school until he graduated from college. Li Yu has called Li Aizhi and his wife "Dad" and "Mom" since he was a child.
The other child raised by Mr. and Mrs. Li is her maiden nephew. When her nephew was four or five years old, her sister-in-law ran away from home and never returned. Li Aizhi took his nephew over to raise him, plus his son and sister's children, and since then this not wealthy family has three children.
Li Chengshi's family was poor, and he only got married after knowing Li Aizhi for 7 years. After getting married, because of the large number of children, the couple earned money by farming, processing coils, and watching bicycles, working day and night, raising three children, two of whom were admitted to university. In 2008 and 2009, the couple took out loans to build two houses, one for their nephew and one for their son.
The arrears for building a house and the family's expenses overwhelmed the husband and wife. In 2011, Li Aizhi's father died of illness, and she decided to go out to work after handling her father's funeral. In 2012, she went to Beijing and her husband went to the south.
In 2014, Li Chengshi suffered from cerebral infarction and was unable to continue working, so he had to return home. Li Chengshi's second brother is not married, and he was also paralyzed in bed due to cerebral infarction in 2015, so he took the initiative to take care of his second brother as soon as he discussed it with his wife. In 2021, Li Chengshi and his wife organized a funeral for his mother-in-law.
The family is not supported by one person, and Li Chengshi is also a responsible person. Li Aizhi works in Beijing, and all the family affairs are taken care of by Li Chengshi. Li Chengshi took good care of his home and children.
Today, two of the three children are married, and only his own son is not married. However, their own son is also very competitive, which makes Li Aizhi and his wife feel particularly gratified.
Her story is famous in the capital, but she just wants to take good care of the elderly
Xiao Ni takes care of people very well, serves us to eat, drink and Lazar, takes care of us in every way, and takes care of us all year round. The neighbors all said that we were blessed to find a good nanny, a rare good person. "After getting along for so many years, Mr. Wu has long regarded Li Aizhi as a relative, "Some people say that 'there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time', which shows the hardship of taking care of the sick elderly." Xiao Ni is like our own daughter. ”
Love is a two-way street. Mr. Wu's family is also very good to Li Aizhi, and often buys things for Li Aizhi. "The old couple are both kind-hearted people and treat me like a daughter. The old man's kindness to Li Aizhi warmed her heart.
In Mr. Wu's mobile phone, a lot of good things done by Li Aizhi were recorded. She picked up her mobile phone and cash, and waited for the owner in the same place. If you can't wait, you will let Mr. Wu give the owner **, and the owner will send money to express his gratitude, but Li Aizhi will refuse all of them.
In the past 9 years, Li Aizhi has "walked" into the hearts of the old man and won the praise of everyone. After her moving deeds were reported, they spread throughout Beijing. There is an endless stream of reporters and Internet celebrities who interview her every day, and she politely refuses. She is very grateful for everyone's attention, and she just wants to take good care of the elderly.
The two old men were very great, they both signed the body donation formalities and handed over the aftermath to me. I will definitely give them a pension for the rest of their lives. Li Aizhi said that this is her promise to the two old people.
It is not easy for my wife to take care of the two old people, and I have to take care of my second brother. Li Chengshi told reporters that he is 55 years old this year, and his wife is also 50 years old. Li Aizhi - a simple peasant girl in the Central Plains, she may not be able to say the ancient precepts such as "the old and the old, and the old of the people", but with her own benevolent heart, she composed a moving movement of socialist spiritual civilization in the new era.