In the work "North and South", among the five women, Dai Xiaoyu was originally the most favored by God, and she held a very good card in her hand.
It has the characteristics of high intelligence, high education, outstanding appearance and superior family background.
But in the end, Dai Xiaoyu played this excellent card to a mess. Because of an irresponsible man involved in an extramarital affair, she not only lost the child in her womb, but also was deprived of her uterus and permanently lost her rights as a mother.
The scumbag Peng Pai was persuaded by You Shanshan's resounding slap and decided to return to Norway. In the eyes of this man, she is a good friend and a good man. Although Liu Liangzhou loved her deeply, he offered to end the relationship. Two men left one after another.
Dai Xiaoyu's final fate is like a dream, everything is nothing, and the only thing that remains is the deep trauma on her body and mind. Her father was a soldier, he was an old Communist Party member, an excellent military commander, and an excellent combat hero. Of course, she also inherited her grandmother Bai Jinghui's independent villa.
At the end of the play, Dai Xiaoyu mentions when worshipping her grandmother:
I've found someone you can trust and you can rest assured!
Who is the person who can be trusted by Dai Xiaoyu?
Peng Pai, known as a "scumbag".
Dai Xiaoyu is a very realistic person, and she longs for a stable life at the age of thirty, which is her true wish.
Her mistake was that she was never willing to fight for her future, but instead pinned all her hopes on a man who had deceived her into becoming a five-year junior.
After cohabitation before marriage and an unplanned pregnancy, the man chose not to have children because he and his ex-wife already had a daughter.
Dai Xiaoyu was severely injured in a car accident that resulted in a miscarriage and underwent a uterine removal operation. The doctor said it was caused by a third trimester of pregnancy with placental abruption. When she regained consciousness from the intensive care unit, she silently held Liu Liangzhou's hand tightly and angrily shouted to Peng Pai "Get out!".”
After experiencing the baptism of blood, she finally came to her senses and gave up the man Peng Pai, who was once regarded by her as an alternative, but had no reservations about her, and chose Liu Liangzhou.
Peng Pai walked into the hospital with flowers in his hand to confess, but was slapped hard by You Shanshan, and then immediately turned around and returned to Norway.
The reason why Peng Pai left was because of the indifference in his heart. There can never be a second reunion between them.
Known as the "pick-up man" is Liu Liangzhou.
Liu Liangzhou initially fell in love with Dai Xiaoyu at first sight!
During that period, Dai Xiaoyu and Peng Pai ended their relationship for the first time, and because of her cousin Bao Xue, she managed to maintain a brief relationship with Liu Liangzhou.
Why is it called reluctant?
Because at that time, Dai Xiaoyu didn't like Liu Liangzhou. Compared with Peng Pai, Liu Liangzhou, as a young photographer, has too little wealth.
Dai Xiaoyu holds the view that being with Liu Liangzhou may only bring spiritual satisfaction, but it does not ensure stability in life.
Therefore, her current boyfriend Peng Pai brought the will of the property and the diamond ring to hope to renew the old relationship with Dai Xiaoyu, and Dai Xiaoyu turned around and returned without hesitation. What is sympathetic is that Liu Liangzhou is full of sincere emotions, but he has become a substitute for several months in vain.
When Dai Xiaoyu was injured in a car accident, Liu Liangzhou became the first person to rush to the hospital, not only giving her a blood transfusion to save her life, but also caring for her wholeheartedly.
Dai Xiaoyu lost her uterus, causing her to lose her ability to have children. Liu Liangzhou told Dai Xiaoyu's father that he had no good feelings for his children from the beginning.
Liu Liang and Zhou Huan happily played the role of "pick-up man", and the people in the barrage comments felt heartache for Lao Liu.
Despite this, Dai Xiaoyu's feelings for Liu Liangzhou are still cold. She is putting in the effort and pretending to care very much about Liu Liangzhou. She did this because she was deeply grateful to Liu Liangzhou.
I am deeply grateful because he saved her life by transfusing her blood when she was dying, and I am grateful to him for all the efforts he has put into me, especially in the face of the scumbag Peng Pai, who gave me a hand that I could hold tightly.
Liu Liangzhou's departure was actually out of deep love.
Dai Xiaoyu and Liu Liangzhou ended their relationship.
The person who proposed to break up was Liu Liangzhou, who loved him deeply. Actually, I think Liu Liangzhou is not only sober-minded, but also very responsible.
Dai Xiaoyu has no affection for him, only gratitude.
Only those who love deeply can truly feel this emotion.
When Dai Xiaoyu gets along with Liu Liang and Zhou, she may feel very embarrassed and may even avoid his caring gaze.
He was a little jealous because his studio hung out the ** of beautiful female stars, not himself. However, before Liu Liangzhou's ** was replaced, Dai Xiaoyu had already begun to play with these **, and he didn't care whether he really replaced his **.
When Liu Liangzhou was facing a long business trip, Dai Xiaoyu carefully took care of his luggage. He said, I was waiting at the airport for the plane to come back. And it is recommended to stay overnight that night. He said, "I don't like the night." When Dai Xiaoyu said this, there was no fluctuation in her eyes, nor did she have any emotions and desires. She knows her duty, she knows her destiny, she knows her choice. It seems that this is her duty.
In fact, this is a disservice to Liu Liangzhou.
Neither of them can find true happiness if they continue to get along reluctantly. Especially for Dai Xiaoyu, she will always be burdened with deep guilt.
In a relationship or marriage, two people should stand on a relatively equal footing. In this state, both parties will feel that each other is right, and the other will feel happy and happy. Due to his lack of love and gratitude, Dai Xiaoyu chose to put himself in a relatively low position to pursue Liu Liangzhou, which not only damaged his self-esteem, but also suppressed his own emotions.
Due to a heart attack, Dai Xiaoyu's grandmother Bai Jinghui died unexpectedly. Leaving all the inheritance to his daughter. However, she had already prepared her will in advance. I feel heartache for my granddaughter Dai Xiaoyu losing the ability to have children, because she can't love the person she really wants to love, and her future married life is full of uncertainty.
She decided to leave her mansion worth up to 10 million to Dai Xiaoyu for use. For his beloved granddaughter, he left only one letter.
Dai Xiaoyu finally understood that the person she had loved without hesitation was actually not worth it. His heart was struggling. I paid a heavy price for my wayward behavior.
The people who love him the most include his parents, grandmother, and Liu Liangzhou, who has no reservations about himself.
In the plot, Dai Xiaoyu revealed to her grandmother during her grandmother's 100-day festival that she had found someone worthy of trust.
Some netizens jokingly said that the person entrusted to her by Dai Xiaoyu was You Shanshan. Ultimately, both men are single, petty bourgeois women with careers and real estate, but no real lovers. They went on vacation together and were once jokingly referred to as "hugging tightly, like a couple." ”
Of course, this is just a joke, and I firmly believe that the TV series "North and South" will not convey a concept of mate selection that does not conform to social order and good customs.
In fact, based on the following factors, we can deduce that this trustworthy person may be Liu Liangzhou:
1) Dai Xiaoyu has suffered severe injuries both physically and mentally, and in just a few months, it is unlikely that she will ever develop feelings for a complete stranger again.
2) After a few months of careful tidying, she gradually realized the reliability of Liu Liangzhou and gradually developed a deep affection for Liu Liangzhou.
Dai Xiaoyu not only changed jobs, but also found her own career path. It's no longer just about having a stable expectation of a man, but being willing to work hand in hand with him.
In order to allow Dai Xiaoyu to face Liu Liangzhou again with a peaceful mind and an equal perspective, we decided to arrange a breakup for them.
3) Liu Liangzhou loves Dai Xiaoyu deeply, although he chose to leave, his real purpose is to wait, when Dai Xiaoyu really recognizes himself, face him with a new perspective, not out of gratitude, but out of true love.
4) At the end of everyone in the TV series, a subtitle will appear, which reads "So far, all of so-and-so's performances in this work have come to an end".
However, when Liu Liangzhou left, he did not see the subtitle of that sentence, instead, it was an affectionate confession of "I love you", and an agreement with Xiaoyu to wait for him to go home and drink together. This place is likely to be a foreshadowing planted by the screenwriter in advance, and a few months later, Liu Liangzhou returned here again.
As long as Dai Xiaoyu can truly recognize himself and have deep feelings for Liu Liangzhou, then it will be a matter of course for them to reconcile.
5) In the original work, this kind of presentation also exists. After experiencing a new crown epidemic, Dai Xiaoyu and Liu Liang were deeply affectionate, and finally came to each other's side.
Therefore, in my opinion, the trustworthy person mentioned by Dai Xiaoyu is none other than Liu Liangzhou. You know, the person you're talking about is myself. In your opinion?