"If a person is over fifty-nine, he doesn't spend three dollars, and he doesn't go to three places", does the wisdom of the ancestors make sense?
Time flies, like flowing water, and in a blink of an eye, life has entered sixty years old."Later years
There are many people who are as busy as a spinning top when they are young, and after the age of 60, they are immediately idle, and they have nothing to do all day long.
But there is such a sentence on the Internet: ".If you want to abolish a person, let him be idle, and be idle all the time。Therefore, some smart people regard the age of fifty-nine as a beginning, after all, this should also enjoy the "sunset red".
But old age is not the same as middle age, after all, after entering old age, it is also the last journey of life.
So in this journey, we elderly people feel a lot, including:Personal energy, family conflicts, lack of money, and children's incomprehension. Especially".health" and "money."These two questions basically made some elderly people feel the cruel reality.
Because the ancestors had a saying that was very good: ".What's not sick, what's not money!
After all, after reaching the age of 59, people also have to plan for their old age. Because once a person gets older, unexpected situations will happen to his body at any time, and if he is not prepared at this time, he will also catch his family off guard in the case of lack of money and health problems.
Therefore, after people reach the age of 59, it is necessary to establish a direction, and what the old man said: "When people are over fifty-nine, they don't spend three dollars, and they don't go to three places" is also reasonable.
People over fifty-nine, three dollars do not spend:
First, unnecessary entertainment money is not spent.
Fifty-nine years old is actually a very embarrassing age, because although he is still a middle-aged person of the "post-50s", he will enter the stage of old age if he takes a step forward.
Of course, there are many elderly people who are about to "retire" and let go of themselves, so after the age of 59, they either go to socialize every day, or have dinner with some elderly people, and even "organize team building" and travel everywhere.
Although spending money on travel is a happy thing, but when people reach the age of 59, it is better to have less entertainment, because:
Some people are sophisticated, and there is really no need.
For example, today's children of the Zhang third family are married, tomorrow the granddaughter of the Li fourth family will have a full moon wine, and the fifth day after tomorrow Wang Wu will move again, etc. Anyway, after some elderly people join the elderly group, this kind of thing is busy one after another.
Of course, when encountering this kind of thing, you must include a gift money, for ordinary families, 100 200 yuan can't go out, 400 600 yuan is too much, but you have to spend it.
In fact, after reaching the age of fifty-nine, people have entered the stage of retirement, so some of the original social circles between colleagues can be completely eliminated. As long as you don't participate, you won't have to pay for it, so you can save money to prepare for your retirement and grandchildren.
Second, some people don't spend money that they feel they are taking advantage of.
There are many elderly people who have learned to take advantage of them after they reach the age of 59. For example:
Some elderly people often go to a certain pharmacy or a certain street to receive free gifts for free. There are also some old people who believe in the high interest rate of such and such a company, so they give them the money they have saved, and then sit back and enjoy the results.
In fact, after reaching the age of 59, people should also pay attention to this truth"If you can't eat poorly, you can't wear poor, and if you can't calculate, you're poor. "And in this world, there is no free lunch, often the free is the most expensive, after all, if you want to get something in return, there is a price to pay.
Therefore, after people reach the age of 59, although they have entered the "most beautiful sunset red", we must be sober-minded, do not covet the property that we should not get, nor do we want to be greedy for small gains, and give our property to others and let others invest for us.
Because in this society, if you don't believe in your own children, but believe in outsiders, will there be a good return?Actually, this is a fantasy thing.
Third, don't spend your own money for the future.
Although some people have their own pensions after the age of 59, others have their own "pensions" of a few hundred yuan.
Therefore, for the elderly who take the "pension", working hard to save is the most important thing, not to mention spending their future money.
So what is your own future money?
When people reach old age, their health is not as good as before, so they are more likely to go to the hospital often. But when you go to the hospital, although there are some "medical insurance", you still spend some money, such as hospitalization and so on.
And the money that is used on the "blade" is the money of the old man himself in the future.
Maybe some old people said that when I have no money, my children will be filial to me, will give me hospitalization expenses, and support me until I am old. But we can think about it carefully, children also have their own families, and the pressure on life will be greater, if we spend our future money "without stinginess", and then pass it on to our children, then how can we bear it.
Therefore, after the age of 59, some elderly people work hard to save money, and do not take out their savings to subsidize their children, as long as they have savings, they can reduce the burden on their children, so they do not spend their future money.
People are over fifty-nine, and the three places do not go:
First, some "places of right and wrong" do not go.
What is the "Land of Right and Wrong"?In fact, some "places of right and wrong" are places that are prone to trouble. For example, some places to "eat melons", places to see the excitement, and some mahjong parlors and so on.
Why don't you go to such a place:
In fact, "where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and where there are interests, there are disputes", so if there are many people, then there will be some people of all kinds.
And after we reach the age of 59, as we get older, our bodies are gradually aging, and our brains are not as good as before, and if we go to these places at this time, it is easy to have some troubles or disputes. Once you encounter it, it is naturally impossible for yourself and your family to deal with it, so it is best not to go to such a place after the age of 59.
Second, don't go where it doesn't match your "magnetic field".
The earth has a magnetic field and is divided into north and south poles. Of course, for the human magnetic field, we often use the term "magnetic field incompatibility" to describe the relationship between us and some people is not very good.
Although there are some mysterious statements about some magnetic fields, when we go to a place, or when we meet a certain person, we will have a kind of "".Inexplicable"Feelings.
Some feelings are good, good feelings are pleasant;Some feelings are bad, and bad feelings areIf you're tired or irritable, that's probably because we're talking about it."The magnetic field is incompatible"Let's go.
For example, some mahjong parlors, some song halls, night shows, etc., which are not suitable for the elderly after the age of 59, and also belong to the magnetic field incompatibility, so it is better not to go to such a place.
Third, some "laborious" places do not go.
So what is a place of "hard work"?
For the elderly after the age of 59, the most important thing for us is good health, but some "hard work" places are contrary to the body, so it is best not to go to such places. For example:
Some liquor farms and other places of "labor".
For wine, "drink less pleasantly, drink more to hurt the body", but once you arrive at the wine field, you can't help yourself. And after the age of 59, diabetes will appear in some good schools, so it is naturally not beneficial to drink more alcohol at this time.
Some graves and other "laborious" places.
When a person reaches the age of fifty-nine, he is afraid of his own age, after all, this is also the period when he has entered his old age.
Of course, there is such a saying in the countryside, "If a person is over 70, he will not go to the grave", and the main reason is that he will feel more sad when he touches the scene. Therefore, after the age of fifty-nine, it is the same reason, some graves, deep in the desolate mountains, and dark places should not be walked.
Write at the end:
Through the above, there is still some truth in what the folk old people say: "If a person is over fifty-nine, three dollars will not be spent, and three places will not be gone". After all, when people are old, if they want to be healthy and spend their old age smoothly, they should also pay attention to something.