When people are young, they are ambitious and can do whatever they want, and that's because they have a chance to turn over when they are young.
Being young is the capital, and the future is terrifying, and you can**get up if you fall. But if you are over 60 years old, then you really don't dare to mess around, and some people can eat the "rations" they saved when they were young - eat the old book.
When you really reach middle and old age, it is also a kind of happiness to have an old book to eat. I'm afraid, I'm afraid, a few old books have been tossed and gone, and they have fallen into a state of no fixed residence, which is sad.
When a person reaches sixty, if he wants to live without being desolate, he must meet three conditions:
A friend has a distant relative, when he was young, he worked hard with his husband, put the child at home with his in-laws, and became a left-behind child, and finally built a two-story small building in the town, and built a small bungalow in the countryside, but her husband fell ill, in order not to let his years of hard work go to waste, and for the sake of his son, not to drag down his wife, he chose to run away from home, and he didn't know whether he was dead or alive for more than ten years.
The son is quite competitive, and after graduating from college, he worked in the city and talked about a girlfriend who was ready to get married. My girlfriend said that she didn't want a bride price, but she had to buy a suite, even if it was smaller, and it was her own home. Where do the children who just come out to work get the money?
Helplessly, the distant relatives thought that they were ashamed of their son when they were young, and the disappearance of their husbands was also to save money for their son, so they sold all the houses on the street and the bungalow they lived in, thinking that they would simply go to the city with them.
The houses in the small town are not worth much, and the country is even less valuable, so they borrowed some money from someone to make the down payment. The son and daughter-in-law got the real estate certificate, just their names.
After four or five years, the father-in-law died of illness, and the mother-in-law was lonely, so the daughter-in-law took her mother to live with her. The original small second bedroom can't live in.
The son discussed with his mother and rented her an abandoned stairwell, which used to be a place for others to pile up sundries, fenced with iron sheets, and there were many mosquitoes in cold winters and hot summers.
I thought that if I lived here, my daughter-in-law would feel guilty. Who knew that sometimes when I went back to their place to eat, I was still coldly spoken.
As the saying goes, "The golden nest and the silver nest are not as good as your own grass nest." ”Some parents mistakenly believe that "their children's home is their own home" and do not think about their own future.
As everyone knows, when you bring up your grandchildren, lose your own value, and are disliked, you will have nowhere to go.
As the saying goes, "the body is the capital of the revolution", and having a healthy body is an important factor to ensure that we live with dignity.
If you have already given your house and money to your children, it is not bad to have a healthy body, at least you will not lose your dignity.
I have seen a lot of middle-aged people who pick up waste for money, and they are in good health, they go from one neighborhood to another, from one trash can to another, both to exercise and to have a meager income.
If you have no house and no money, no matter how sick you are, it is not a little annoying, almost to the point that no one is willing to take care of it, let alone live with dignity. And in this case, it is easy to lose the courage to live.
I have a house and capital, even if I don't live with my children, I have to make my life full, so as not to be lonely. Dancing square dances, playing tai chi, often getting together with friends for a walk, going to the park in the city, picking vegetables and fruits in the countryside, watching TV dramas and playing cards and ......How to be happy and how to do it.
Only those who know how to plan ahead can have a bright future!Middle-aged and elderly people over 60 years old, don't be like a friend's relatives and sisters, give everything to their children, and now make themselves homeless, love yourself a little more, be "selfish", and let yourself live a quality and not desolate old age.