Parental love
Ten years have passed, and I opened "Parents' Love" again, only to find that there is a deeper emotional layer hidden in this classic TV series. The story of Jiang Dehua and Lao Ding seems to be a picture scroll, which has become more and more vicissitudes under the washing of the years. Today, I want to talk about not only their love, but also the helplessness and sorrow behind Lao Ding's forced marriage to Jiang Dehua.
Jiang Dehua, a poetic and simple name, has a rich and tortuous life experience. Like a gorgeous wildflower, she grew up in the countryside and was deeply influenced by the local customs.
In the journey of life, she has experienced the breakdown of her family and the disappearance of her husband, however, she did not sink, but stood out with her tenacity and hard work. Life on the island has provided her with a chance to start afresh and breathe new life into her.
Lao Ding is a man with both a sense of responsibility and a dream. Deep down, he has always longed to have a knowledgeable and cultured wife who can share the bits and pieces of life, but life does not always go his way. In front of Jiang Dehua, Lao Ding's heart began to sway, and he felt an inexplicable bond. At the crossroads of his marriage, he was forced to make a choice that left his heart ache.
Jiang Dehua married Lao Ding, this scene makes people feel a little embarrassed. Why did the director behave like this?Perhaps in order to present the ruthlessness of fate, the reality of life. In an era of uncertainty, people are always forced to make heart-wrenching decisions. Jiang Dehua, like a wildflower in the countryside, finally married Lao Ding, a not perfect choice in her heart, but became her partner for the rest of her life in desperation.
Ten years later, Jiang Dehua and Lao Ding's lives are not as calm as they seem, but full of twists and turns. Lao Ding's inner struggle and helplessness made him feel that the biggest sorrow in this life was to be forced to marry Jiang Dehua. Every time he looks back on the past, he always has a feeling in his heart that he can't let go, as if fate has played a huge joke on him. Jiang Dehua silently injected warmth and strength into this marriage with her strong and calm attitude.
Looking back on all this, we may be able to understand that life is always a last resort. Lao Ding was forced to marry Jiang Dehua for the needs of life, for responsibility and responsibility. In this journey of fate, they may have lost something, but they have gained something more precious. Perhaps, Lao Ding's real sorrow does not come from Jiang Dehua, but from his endless pursuit of a perfect marriage in his heart.
Ten years later, "Parental Love" taught us a truth: at the crossroads of life, we often need to make unusual choices. Lao Ding was forced to marry Jiang Dehua, although there was some helplessness and compromise, but this was also his firm choice in the face of fate.
Perhaps, Lao Ding has always been a romantic with dreams. He longs for the cultivation of knowledge and culture, and longs for a companion who is connected with his heart. However, reality is often the cruelest judge, and the arrangement of fate is often beyond the control of the individual. In the depths of his heart, there may have always been a regret, a dream that has never been realized, and this has become his greatest sorrow.
Ten years later, in "Parents' Love", we saw the sadness of Lao Ding being forced to marry Jiang Dehua, but we also saw the years that the two of them went through together. They may not have those vigorous loves, but they have the warmth of the quiet years. In life, we always need to make some unavoidable choices, but this does not prevent us from finding our own happiness in our choices.
Perhaps, everyone has a story about marriage, just like Lao Ding and Jiang Dehua in "Parents Love", their stories may be ordinary, but because of choice and persistence, they have become profound and beautiful. In this impetuous society, perhaps we can learn from the perseverance, choice and acceptance drawn from "Parental Love", so that life is more abundant and love is more profound.