The length of life lies in the wonderful, I hope you can make the most of the time.
Today, I have been in the hospital, accompanying others to see doctors, and this is the first time I have written an article on my mobile phone.
In the morning, while still having a weekly meeting, a bad news suddenly came to the circle of friends, a familiar name, left us due to illness, I thought it was the same name and surname, quickly opened the address book, checked the avatar, and then the whole person, chuckled, and his chest was extremely depressed.
Just a few years ago, I was paddling a glass boat in the Pacific Ocean in Saipan under the sun in Saipan, she was dark-skinned, and she loved fitness as much as I did.
Therefore, her departure is the most incomprehensible to me, a person who loves life.
Since the beginning of this year, there have been more and more friends who have suddenly left around me, and there have been more and more friends who have fallen ill, and I am reflecting on a question, whether I am old or have undergone some subtle changes, after all, they are only in their forties, or even in their thirties, so young that I can't believe it.
Their names, I often think of in the dark, they were far away and are still far away, and I would rather I didn't know they were gone.
Last month, I don't know if it's influenza A or mycoplasma, two days after a fever, I decided to buy myself critical illness and other insurance, I originally planned to buy it again at the age of 40, four years in advance, because in the past ten years, I have never had a cold and fever, but this year, in the case of my insistence on exercising, I inexplicably had a fever three times.
So, is the public relations and ** industry considered a high-risk industry?My answer is, yes.
A few days ago, a female public relations teacher in her thirties and in her prime of life in a large factory, had afternoon tea with me, and suddenly talked about insurance, she reluctantly told me that if you can buy it, buy it quickly, her physical examination report, a few years ago, the insurance company refused to insure, and almost none of the indicators are normal.
Is this an isolated case?
Of course not. After all, the end of the public relations circle is insurance, there are too many acquaintances working in AIA and Prudential, I asked an old colleague from the newspaper, according to the data she gave me, **public relations circle, forty years old is basically the age of refusal of insurance, thirty years old has a physical examination report, miserable.
Like all human beings, the three major killers in this industry, smoking, drinking, and staying up late.
The public relations of car companies is under great pressure now, and the public relations of a new force, who used to be an acquaintance in the Internet circle, has quit smoking for many years, but this year he picked it up again, and it was controlled at about half a pack a day.
In recent years, many old people and ** people have also begun to gradually quit smoking, they use e-cigarettes instead of cigarettes, but the rectification of e-cigarettes, they have been reduced to the situation of buying inferior fruit cigarettes in micro-business.
There is also a problem that hits the soul directly, which is hair loss. According to a friend, the previous use of minoxidil had stopped the hair loss, but although the new job increased the income, the hair loss continued after the resumption of smoking.
An old man told me that he used to be thankful that he could leave work before 10 o'clock one day in a week. Catch up with the handling of major public opinions, and it is on standby 24 hours a day.
According to him, at that time, not only himself, but also many of his peers around him, almost could not escape the invasion of cervical spondylosis, high fasting blood sugar, rhinitis and other problems. I went to the doctor, but all I got was a "correct nonsense": without him, the only solution was to leave his job and change his living environment.
The high-pressure era of the Internet has passed, the fierce generals of the horse race, today's remaining task is to take care of the home, tinkering, once the public relations team in the industry is also a hegemon of LeTV, it is said to be one of the most comfortable companies in the circle, and even said, you can only work four days a week, Sohu, which once knocked out the entire piracy circle, has now become a good company that young people like the most.
* And public relations, is a river and lake, the rivers and lakes of literati and ink writers.
Since ancient times, there has been a lot of good wine, almost every circle, and when friends get together at the end, they can't do without getting drunk, such as the Internet of science and technology, the car circle, and even more so the wine circle.
In the past few years, in the early days of the business, there was almost every month, after all, I expanded my territory and entered many new fields, and social interaction became the core reason for drinking.
Chinese people are thin-skinned, human affection is greater than the contract, before doing business, not friends, it is difficult to make a deal, so between public relations and **, there are few product-oriented businesses, and most face-oriented businesses.
I know a few great gods who are poems and distant places, and the articles are written brilliantly, but they are far away from social and customers, and in the end business is still difficult.
Wine has become the best weapon to break the ice, after being dizzy, light a cigarette, alcohol combined with smoke, the pleasure of atomization, quickly let everyone look at each other pleasing to the eye.
From now on, I will be my own person!
At the time of the 3Q war, 360 set up a combat team, rented a hotel, closed the operation, and Lao Qi gave the content creation team of public relations, directly matched with Moutai, and everyone's talent was like a spring, creating one after another articles that made Tencent's head big.
One of the three blacks in the public relations circle, there is constant wine on the desk all year round, and it is famous, and it is only inspirational to drink something.
The price of this result must be a big drunkenness, starting with half a pound of white wine and a bottle of red wine.
If, you ask me, can you do business if you leave wine completely?If I'm being honest, I'll tell you that it's 50% harder.
I quit drinking for half a year, and when I went back for a review in December, the ingredient list was clean again, but I only told you half of the truth, I just quit spirits, red wine, sake, plum wine, and I still drank it.
However, compared with tobacco and alcohol, staying up late is more harmful.
As a typical mental work, the brain is always in a state of high speed.
This year, it is the year when I have traveled the most business trips in recent years, and I flew nearly 70 times, but when I was about to cry to a few Party A fathers and say that I was working hard, an OTA father directly showed me the record of 100 flights, and my ass was really iron.
A public relations officer of a travel company told me that most of this year's books were read on airplanes.
In the days of running away from home, there is no strongest, only stronger.
There are many people around me who do content, and it is almost common for them to go around in circles between cities in a day, and they have to write, revise, find topics, and draw outlines on the way. What spring flowers and autumn moons, summer wind and winter snow, all have nothing to do with themselves, and it is an obsession to be able to fill the progress bar as much as possible in fragmented time.
I also heard a genius ** teacher tell me that when he was dreaming, he was thinking about the angle of topic selection and anatomical topic selection, he walked on the street, saw every business format, he was asking why.
He said that a quarter of his manuscripts a year were written in a state of half-asleep and half-awake, and then he quickly got up from bed, turned on the computer, and took advantage of the heat to write the articles.
In the industry, almost half of the ** teachers work at night and sleep during the day, so in this industry, baldness, big belly, impotence**, and wrinkles are the most common.
If the ** teacher is taking the initiative to embrace unhealthy, then public relations is more about being forced to be unhealthy.
The CEO of a ** company likes to work at night, but the company's public relations staff, from VP to director, have to come to work at more than two o'clock in the afternoon, and stay up late all year round.
In the e-commerce circle, public relations teachers like to say that this job is a 7*24-hour job, and the teacher can create public opinion for you at any time.
A Jiangsu public relations officer told me that when he was handing over the public food at home in the middle of the night, the ** rang, and an emergency public opinion meeting was to be held, and each meeting would last for 20 minutes.
In the past few years, ** is not good, and more middle-aged PR people have become more and more stressed because of involution and fear of losing their jobs, and often can only sleep four or five hours a night.
Melatonin doesn't work, and neither does seeing a psychiatrist.
In the past, I used to advocate that fitness is a cure for all diseases, but now I don't dare to blow it indiscriminately, because it seems that strenuous exercise after every fever often leads to sudden death.
Looking at it this way, in this circle, real financial freedom is not enviable, and happiness is to have a self-discipline and keep a job.
Sports, reading, thinking, looking at the entire circle of friends, I feel that only a perennial low-key public relations teacher in Guangzhou can do it.
In addition, in the automobile circle, in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Chaos Era that will be visible to the naked eye next year, ** and public relations, in addition to the physical risks, the risks at the judicial level are also increasing exponentially, malicious competition, water army, leading to judicial intervention, all this, the prototype of the end of this year has come out.
Every penny, the posture that falls, and the difficulty coefficient is increasing exponentially.
In the next few years, the world is full of uncertainties, and all logic and long-term value are being disrupted or broken
Eat well, drink well, play well, fall in love with the person you like, gather more with friends with similar interests, establish cognition with the unknown, finish the insurance obligations of your relatives, and try to spend your savings at the moment of death.
In 2023, the biggest change for me is that I have learned to spend money scientifically.
After buying insurance for yourself, you must start to turn the numbers on your bank account into an experience, not only the physical body is yours, but also the memories in the brain.
Everyone's logic of spending money is not the same, but you must spend it, otherwise why earn?Life is short, and you should be happy in time.
In 2024, do more anti-human things, maybe the answer, read books instead of short**, fitness instead of sleeping, and spend money instead of **investment.
Finally, if you want to be happier, remember never to lend money to anyone.
Life will come to an end, length is not the answer, wonderful must be the process.
Really, this circle, everyone has to learn to enjoy. Bless all my friends and readers, embrace the wonderful.
Make more appointments to go out on foot and climb mountains, travel to see the world, make more appointments to read, take pictures, listen to songs, watch movies, watch sentient beings, make more appointments to drink tea and fitness, and see yourself.