In the palace of marriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been an insurmountable problem. Some people say that before I got married, my mother-in-law was better to me than my own mother, but after I got married, my mother-in-law became an enemy. Such a change makes people sigh: Is marriage really a war without gunpowder?
Before marriage, my mother-in-law treated me like her own daughter, and her meticulous care made me feel the warmth of home. She always smiled and said to me, "Daughter-in-law, don't worry, I will treat you like my own daughter." At that time, I walked into the palace of marriage with joy.
However, life after marriage was not what I wanted. My mother-in-law started to get stern and was very critical of me. She always said: "Why are you so ignorant as a daughter-in-law?"."Why are you a daughter-in-law so unkind to take care of people?"I tried to adapt to the change, but I found it more and more unbearable.
I began to wonder if my mother-in-law was nice to me before marriage, just so that I could marry her sonI began to run away, unwilling to go home and face my mother-in-law's indifferent face. I'm even starting to regret why I walked into this marriage trap?
Until one day, I overheard the conversation between my mother-in-law and my husband. It turned out that my mother-in-law became strict because she was worried that I would not be able to withstand the pressure of marriage and not be able to be a qualified wife and mother. She wanted me to learn to be independent and learn to take responsibility for the family.
At that moment, I suddenly understood my mother-in-law's good intentions. She didn't mean to make things difficult for me, but she wanted me to grow into a better person. So, I started to work hard to learn Xi and grow. I learned to cook, do laundry, take care of the children, and became a real housewife.
Today, the mother-in-law is no longer the indifferent enemy, but a kind mother. Our relationship has also become more and more harmonious. I know it's all because I've learned to understand and be tolerant.
Marriage is a long-distance race that requires the joint efforts of both parties. Only by learning to understand and tolerate can we go further. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law also needs us to manage it with our hearts in order to become a guarantee of family harmony. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law