The six years of primary school are very important every year, and they cultivate children in several aspects, and children get high scores in exams every time
After the child enters primary school, the whole academic pressure has increased several times compared with kindergarten. Parents are also very concerned about their children's academic Xi grades. Research from the University of Missouri at Columbia in the United States shows that good or bad grades in primary school can have a big impact on a child's future.
The level of primary school performance is not only related to future academic development, but also affects a child's physical and mental health. Researchers found that children who did well in the classroom during primary school were more popular and emotionally secure than those who had academic difficulties. On the contrary, it is easy to be anxious and depressed.
First, there is a lack of active thinking. Some parents said that my child's homework left by the teacher is always completed carefully, and I personally watched and wrote, and the child's grades were not good!Some parents said that my child always writes, but his grades can't go up.
I have seen a few parents accompany their children to write homework, children encounter do not understand, parents are very anxious, and are looking for information and Internet search, and even play ** consultation, the very standard answers let the children neatly write in the homework book, in fact, the child from beginning to end just acts as the role of a copying machine, what's more, directly tell the child to write the results, the equation on the list, what is the point of this?
Second, I didn't have Xi interest in learning and didn't get attention. Interest is the best teacher. Some children are not good at expressing themselves, are timid, and their voices are very small, so they are not easy to be noticed by teachers and classmates, and rarely raise their hands in class!This is easy to be ignored by teachers and classmates!I always don't get praise from the teacher, I feel that I will always be an audience, and learning Xi is someone else's business, I just need to watch others perform!Gradually, I lost interest in learning Xi and did not have the consciousness to participate in learning Xi. I didn't even get praise from my teachers and applause from my classmates for a semester!The influence of this non-intellectual factor will make a child with good intelligence become a poor student!
Teach your child to find problems.
No", "I don't understand", "I'm not proficient", "I think on my own and have no answers", "I have doubts" are all problems, and parents should teach their children to record these problems, and then solve them by using their own brains and asking teachers and classmates. This step is particularly important, as Albert Einstein said, "Finding a problem is more important than solving it!"."Parents must encourage their children to find problems, and when your children learn to find problems and know how to ask for help with problems, they will develop the ability to actively learn and Xi for life, which is important and important!
Don't be faster than others, but take your own path.
Many parents will be staring at where other children are now. But forget, other people's position belongs to others, if you just want to let the child run fast, and forget to let the child solve the problem that he does not have a firm grasp of, then he can't really run fast first, and secondly, it will leave the child with one "pit" after another, and there will be more obstacles to learning Xi in the future.
Xi determines the future
Many children are forced by their parents to learn and Xi, although their grades will be excellent, but they cannot be excellent for a long time. Some children, under the guidance of their parents, have a good XiXi learning habit from an early age, and they do not need the supervision of their parents in the future learning Xi, and they can independently complete the Xi learning tasks, so that the children will be excellent for a long time.
Many children will Xi, re-Xi, accumulate and explode on time every day, and it is because of this learning habit that they will be like a fish in water in learning XiXi Xi. Such children are the real winners of the school Xi, rather than squatting in the Xi class every day. Such a child is the real winner at the starting line!
In the whole six years of primary school, how much effort we adults put in, how much children can gain.
Accompany children through the six years of primary school" tells vivid stories with concise words in terms of the psychological development characteristics of primary school students, the characteristics of cultural knowledge they have learned, the cultivation of learning XiXi habits, and the cultivation of learning Xi ability. I believe that after reading "Accompanying Children Through Six Years of Primary School", parents and children can easily get rid of the confusion of primary school and truly experience the joy of growing up.
In addition, there is also "Accompanying Children Through the Three Years of Junior High School", which focuses more on how to understand adolescent children and communicate effectively with them. As a parent who came over, the author sometimes had times when he was at a loss in the process of accompanying his children, so the examples that happened in the author's house in the book have been successful or unsuccessful. From the perspective of an educator, the author also wrote about his own awareness and reflection in the book, hoping to be helpful to everyone.
Child, you need to understand that all the effort you put into your school Xi is ultimately for yourself. Your hard work today will make you brilliant tomorrow, make you a useful talent, and make your life more fulfilling and exciting.
Reading can make you smart, humble, and learned, and ultimately make you an elegant and brilliant person. Without the accumulation of reading and learning Xi, it is impossible to have the glory of tomorrow. When you create a better future with your own efforts, when you feel the value of your life, when you realize your life dream, you can understand the true purpose of studying, and you will also thank yourself for the sweat and hard work you have paid!
I have read these books many times, and each time there is a new inspiration, I can't help but sigh at the importance and hardship of education, when you finish reading, you will find that those confusion, confusion, and suffering in your education, especially in getting along with children, have been given solutions, and some even have steps.
And ** is not expensive, the money of a meal, your life may be changed.
It would be better if you could read with other parents, receive the influence of wisdom together, and give it away, and others will praise you for your taste.
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