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When a man gets along with you, he is afraid of getting too close to you, for fear of causing misunderstanding among others, especially the misunderstanding of the opposite sex that he really values, and keeps his distance from you again and again.
Or when you take the initiative to show favor to him, he is afraid to take responsibility, afraid to avoid repeatedly, afraid to accept your gifts and your feelings. Men subconsciously have such a choice, which obviously does not make sense to you.
On the contrary, when a man gets along with you, he will subconsciously be close to you and is not afraid of gossip from others, and when you take the initiative to show favor to him, he will gladly accept it and be willing to take responsibility, be friendly to you in life, and be loyal to you. A man who dares to approach you and accept your feelings means that he has identified with you. You know, men will have "three dares", just want to chase you. Do you understand?
1.Dare to defend yourself in public.
When a man gets along with you, if he has no feelings for you and doesn't want to be involved with you, he will keep his distance from you at this time.
When chatting with you, he will talk about simple topics, but will not talk to you in depth. He won't just tell you about his private affairs. At the same time, he will subconsciously keep his distance from you, especially in front of outsiders, and his attitude towards you will often seem a little cold.
On the contrary, when a man really has a crush on you, at this time, he will appreciate you, trust you, dare to be defenseless against you, and be willing to tell you about his privacy. At the same time, he will also subconsciously approach you and dare to defend you in front of outsiders. It is only when a man sees you completely as his own that he shows such signs.
2.Dare to support you in critical moments.
A guy is a bit mean to you when he gets along with you. He doesn't want to spend money to buy you gifts, he doesn't want to spend time with you, and he doesn't want to cook a delicious meal.
When you are in adversity, he doesn't want to be drawn into you and hides away. When you ask him for help, a man always has a lot of reasons to reject you. Men don't want to mind your business, and most of them are not interested in you.
On the contrary, a man has moved his true feelings for you and has a crush on you from the bottom of his heart. At this time, he will treat you as his own, but he will not see you. For him, your business is his business. He dares to support you in anything. When you are in a helpless predicament, He will never give up on you. A man who dares to accompany you hand in hand to get out of the trough of life shows that he has moved his true feelings for you.
3.Dare to do better for yourself.
When a man gets along with you, he only thinks about himself and not about your feelings.
He felt comfortable. He often behaves mischievously, speaks casually, and inadvertently makes you unhappy. He doesn't care. If you have any opinions, he will say that you are "hypocritical", "difficult to serve", and impatient with you. Men will treat you like this, apparently they don't take you seriously.
On the contrary, if a man really has a crush on you and wants to be with you, he also really wants your approval. He will take your feelings seriously, and he will dare to be better, just to be worthy of you, just to capture your heart.