Recently, a piece of home monitoring** has been widely spread on social media. **, when the sister was tutoring her younger brother in his homework, she couldn't stand her brother's "non-cooperation" and even resorted to corporal punishment. The night before, the mother made it clear to her eldest daughter that she would charge 60 yuan a month for tutoring her younger brother in his homework, and authorized her sister to inflict corporal punishment if her brother was disobedient, provided that she was not injured or disabled.
Seeing this scene, many netizens expressed their opinions. Some people think that mothers are inappropriate and that corporal punishment is not an appropriate form of education. There are also people who think that the elder sister lacks patience and communication skills, and that tutoring the younger brother in his homework requires more patience and wisdom.
For this event, I think it needs to be thought about from multiple angles. First of all, for the mother, she may want to cultivate her sister's sense of responsibility and independence by having her sister help her brother with homework. However, she did not take into account that her sister was still a child and lacked enough patience and experience to tutor her younger brother. Moreover, corporal punishment is not the right way to educate, it not only harms the child's body and mind, but also destroys the child's interest in learning and self-confidence.
Secondly, for the elder sister, she needs to learn how to properly tutor her younger brother with his homework. The younger brother's "non-cooperation" may be due to the fact that he is having trouble or does not understand the topic. The older sister should be more patient in guiding the younger brother and helping him understand the problem, rather than using corporal punishment to solve the problem. At the same time, the elder sister also needs to learn how to control her emotions and avoid hurting her younger brother because of her emotional out-of-control.
Finally, this incident also triggered our thinking about family education. Family education is a vital part of children's growth, and parents should pay attention to cultivating children's morals, habits and learning abilities. In the educational process such as tutoring children to write homework, parents should adopt scientific and reasonable methods and focus on stimulating children's interest and initiative in learning. At the same time, parents should also communicate with their children to understand their ideas and needs, so as to promote the harmonious development of family relationships.