Our students do not take a gap year after high school and go straight to college after a three-month long vacation.
A few months ago, my cousin called me and asked me to help her son who had just been admitted to college to choose a suitable laptop.
I rejected it outright.
Her child has reached adulthood and can no longer be called a child, he should be an adult with independent self-care ability, and he should be required to be held to the standards of adults.
Parents can't hold their children in their hands, trust themselves too much, and don't trust their children too much.
There is a very absurd saying, "As long as the parents are still around, 80 years old is a child". This kind of person who pulls calves is very ridiculous, a childlike giant baby, no, it should be called a childlike old baby, an old baby.
The education system is in line with the national conditions and culture, it will not develop independently, it will definitely take into account the demands and Xi of the public, the people think that children can not be independent, then go directly to college, the people think that children can not rest, then there can be a break year to experience society.
How do ordinary people have this kind of cognition?In feudal society, 14-year-old underage girls were forced to marry, and similarly underage teenagers had to marry wives and have children, and then develop independently.
How is it that now, at the age of 18, he is still a child, and he still needs to grow up carefully under the care of his parents and the education of the school?
Because it has to be in line with our development.
Of the 1.4 billion people, 13800 million leeks, these leeks are not cultivated as screws earlier, then it is a burden on society. If you can graduate a year earlier, you can provide a labor force a year earlier and promote economic development.
In the past, steelmaking, which had to smash pots and sell iron even if it delayed eating, is now just pushing the production speed of screws, and it will not affect morality without delaying anything.
As for how many of them stand out, it doesn't matter at all. It is not important how long the service life of screws is, whether they will be eliminated in advance, and whether the safety performance is up to standard. The important thing is that there is a steady stream of screws that can be replaced, and which one is broken.
Rough development does not need to be done so finely.
And this whole set of processes is complete and complete.
If HR sees a one-year break on a job seeker's resume, he will definitely break the casserole and ask in the end, this interrupted year is an indelible stain, no matter what you do, it is difficult to make up for the vacancy.
Especially when this year appears after the college entrance examination, this is even more weird. For companies that are stricter, this kind of discontinuous resume is not read at all, and it is directly brushed off.
In the eyes of the Chinese, this is called not doing business, this is called abandoning studies, and this is called deviance;Instead of consolidating oneself, exercising oneself and laying a solid foundation.
What you can do in a gap year, in the eyes of the vast majority of parents and teachers, is something that can be done after graduation, why should you interrupt your studies for a year. If you delay for a year and forget everything you learned before, can you still study Xi hard?
What I learned in college had little to do with what I had learned in the previous 12 years, which almost only taught students literacy and exams. I studied liberal arts at that time, and the three subjects of literature and comprehensive literature were of little help to my life development, nor did it help my subsequent study Xi.
There were two courses that taught me how to distinguish between those who tell false words and those who lie.
The things I learned in college had little to do with the skills that society needed, and after a month of classes, I skipped almost all the remaining classes and spent the four years on my own. The years of self-study have instead exercised my independence and self-learning ability.
But the environment does not allow most people to do this, and the sense of urgency and psychological oppression in the bones does not allow slackness and disconnection.
The happiness of Chinese is very low, and it is inseparable from the environment of hurrying to chase, from birth it is like a lit candle, counting down all the time, always catching up, rushing in a hurry.
In this environment, it would be a miracle if there could still be a gap year.
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