Marriage is like a long-distance run, with scenery and ups and downs.
In this long journey, the tacit understanding and understanding between husband and wife is crucial.
When a woman begins to indulge in the trivialities of gain and loss, three truths in marriage will be revealed mercilessly.
01.Marriage is not a transaction, but a heart-to-heart match
Once a woman begins to focus too much on material gains and losses, the relationship between husband and wife will be overshadowed by utilitarianism.
In marriage, if you keep the gains and losses in your heart, I am afraid that you will only end up with "impermanence".
"Gain calmly, lose indifferently", if a woman can treat the gains and losses in marriage with an indifferent attitude, she can truly experience the taste of happiness.
02.Marriage requires tacit understanding, not trade-offs
What husband and wife need more is a tacit understanding between each other. "One day husband and wife for 100 days", the accumulation of feelings does not depend on the gains and losses of a moment, but is based on understanding and tolerance day after day.
If a woman always clings to the calculation of gains and losses, it will be difficult for her to move forward hand in hand in the long river of marriage. What husband and wife need is to let go of the burden of gains and losses, work together to tide over the wind and rain, and experience the ups and downs of life.
03.Marriage is a practice, not a battleground
If a woman sees gains and losses as spoils of marriage, she will only lose more in trivial disputes. Romance in love is often easily buried by the trivialities of marriage, and what couples need more is to find resonance in trivialities.
Instead of taking trivial matters as a yardstick of gains and losses, if you regard marriage as a dojo of practiceWomen will be able to better resist gains and losses, and truly experience the depth and beauty of marriage.
In the long river of life, marriage is a practice of continuous iteration.
What husband and wife need is the courage to face life together, rather than clinging to the narrowness of gains and losses.
Only with gratitude and understanding can marriage truly bloom in its own glory.
Let us abandon the shackles of gain and loss, face the infinite possibilities in marriage, and walk together to the other side of happiness.
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