Everything in the world is like a grain of sand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it slips, and if you don't carelessly, it will slip away quietly. There are many things in life that cannot be forced, and when we desperately desire something, the more likely it is to lose it. In fact, for all things in the world, our gains and losses are a kind of fate, which is a kind of indifferent and calm fate, we can't be anxious, we can't be more serious, the tighter we hold it, the easier it is to lose. When we get something we love, we can say that we are lucky, and no matter what the final outcome is, our hearts are jumping. Of course, it is best that these things can accompany us for the rest of our lives, but if we lose them, although we will cry and break our hearts, we have them after all, and we have obtained them. Isn't it also a happy thing to think about the happy days when we were happy in the past, and now that we have lost them, those happy memories are still in our hearts
The gains and losses in life are a kind of inevitability, gained, should be happy, lost, and don't feel miserable because of it. When we hold something too tightly, it is easy to hurt it and let it slip through our fingers. The more we care about something, the more likely it is that we will easily lose it, which is also inevitable, just like a grain of sand in the palm of our hand. On the other hand, if you spread your hands out and lay the sand grains flat in the palm of your hand, you will find that those mischievous sand grains will lie there quietly, motionless, they will not slip away, and they will not run away. When we treat it with a calm state of mind, don't hold on to the things we love, and give them the space to breathe freely, that relationship will accompany us, and we will not easily lose the things we love. The more we care, the easier it is to lose, because we care too much, we always suffer from gains and losses, we spend a lot of time and energy to dwell on the pain of caring, and as a result, before we know it, those things have left us. Moreover, because we care too much, if we lose it, our hearts will inevitably not be able to bear the pain of loss, which is not a blow to our lives
Sometimes, if we have to get something, or we don't give up, then we probably lose it in the process of chasing it. There are many opportunities in life that cannot be forced, it is possible that somewhere on the street corner, we will meet the great nobles in life, or it is possible that the moment we gain something valuable, we suddenly lose it, these are very likely to happen.
1.The more you care, the easier it is to lose.
When we desperately desire to get something, we care very much about the gain or loss of this thing, but sometimes the more we care, the easier it is to lose, and the easier it is to make ourselves miserable. The sand in your hand is grasped tightly, the easier it is to flow down, and in the end only a small amount of dust remains. Everything in the world is like this, don't care too much about what you want to get, but need to have a calm and calm attitude, so that we can get what we want.
2.Calmly face the gains and losses.
Life is a kind of bearing, when our beloved leaves us, it will be useless for you to call the sky and grab the earth. Life is originally scattered and impermanent, the world is originally ups and downs, and when you are proud, good things rise like a tide;When frustrated, everything is like a flower falling, don't take the gains and losses too seriously, whether it is gained, or lost, this is an indispensable part of our lives, and we should face it calmly.