There are two kinds of women in this world, one belongs to you and the other does not belong to you. Even if it is a woman who belongs to you, she is also divided into two different existences.
One is to become the best companion on your life path, the most solid and reliable companion, and the strongest backing. There is also a kind of woman who is a stumbling block in your life, which will play the most serious role in hindering and hurting your family, career, and life.
Therefore, when a man chooses a partner, whether he is in love or married, he must keep his eyes open and see clearly, and never be too casual.
You must know that some women, even if others think she is very good, even if she looks good, but if she is not suitable for you, it will definitely delay your pursuit of happiness and success.
Generally speaking, women are "very big" here, and often this defeated husband, men must not want it.
1.The scale of the difference is very large
Don't underestimate a woman's kindness, let alone overestimate a woman's lack of self-love. Men will always naively think that women in the world will protect themselves well.
Especially protect your body and don't easily let other men take advantage of you. However, there will always be some women who don't regard their bodies as a thing at all, and even take the initiative to create all kinds of conditions and use their bodies in exchange for some of the benefits she wants.
Generally speaking, a woman, she has a large scale, not only in words, but also in the body is unscrupulous, this kind of woman is often the most defeated, men must not want.
Don't think that she said that the man she loves the most at this moment is you, so you are the man who can save her from the sea of misery and drag her out of the abyss.
Rest assured, such a woman, not only will you not be able to drag her out, but you will be dragged into the abyss by her. Before you know it, you let the top of your head, a green grassland.
2.The desire to spend money is great
It's not that women can't spend money. It's her pursuit of material things, which must match your own abilities.
As a man, he loves you and should naturally work hard to give you a better life. But that's not your birthright.
If it is true that it is because the man is so lazy that you are forced to lower the level of your life and make higher demands on him, it is also rightfully deserved.
Generally speaking, a woman has a great desire to spend money, especially if it does not match her own ability at all, as well as the material basis between each other, such a woman is often the most defeated, and men must not want it.
Don't think that as long as you find the best way to meet her material needs, she will fall in love with you. Rest assured, one day, when you are squeezed dry by her, you are powerless to support her vanity in material things.
As long as there is a man who can satisfy her, she will not hesitate to get rid of you and run away with other men. How can such a woman be worthy of your love and giving?
3.Stubborn and has a big temper
In this world, nothing is set in stone.
Time is changing, society is changing, and people should change with it. But there are some women who always live in their own world, and always feel what kind of person she is, and others should accommodate her and match her.
As a man, for a woman he loves, there is nothing wrong with choosing a certain compromise or grievance. But if a woman relies on your love for her and does whatever she wants with your three views, then you have to weigh it carefully, is she worth it?
Generally speaking, a woman is stubborn, has a great temper, has a lot of negative energy, and always uses the worst malice to speculate about everyone around her, including her lover and family, which is often the most corrupt husband, and men must not want it.
Don't be foolish enough to think that she loves you now and treats you as family, so she will protect you. Once you provoke her one day, how she will hurt others, she will also hurt you. After all, in her cognition, she is the protagonist of her own life, and everyone else is a dispensable supporting role.