With the progress of society and the improvement of people's quality, more and more people have begun to pay attention to the rights and health of pregnant women. However, in real life, we will still find that some people will say some inappropriate words when communicating with pregnant women, which will bring unnecessary stress and harm to pregnant women. Today, let's take a look at a few words that sensible people will not say to pregnant women, and see if you are still making the same mistakes.
1. Is the baby in your belly a boy or a girl?
This question often triggers unnecessary guesswork and stress. In modern medicine, fetal sex determination is prohibited in cases other than medically necessary cases. Moreover, both boys and girls are the hearts and minds of their parents and should not be subject to any discrimination or pressure because of their gender. Therefore, a wise person should avoid mentioning the sex of the fetus when communicating with pregnant women.
Second, you have to eat more, otherwise the child will be malnourished.
This sentence seems to be caring, but it will actually bring unnecessary psychological pressure to pregnant women. Pregnant women should pay attention to balanced nutrition during pregnancy instead of blindly eating more. The doctor will give reasonable dietary advice based on the physical condition of the pregnant woman and the development of the fetus. Therefore, we should not ask pregnant women to eat more or less according to our own ideas, but should respect the doctor's advice.
3. How have you gotten fat lately?
During pregnancy, a pregnant woman's body undergoes a series of changes, the most obvious of which is weight gain. However, some people tend to ignore the physical changes of pregnant women and even make fun of or ridicule their weight gain. This behavior is very impolite and disrespectful. We should understand that the physical changes in pregnant women are normal physiological phenomena and should not be used as an object of ridicule.
Fourth, you must have a smooth delivery.
There are many benefits to a vaginal birth for both the mother and the baby, but not every pregnant woman is able to have a smooth birth. Sometimes, doctors will recommend a caesarean section due to the position of the fetus, the physical condition of the pregnant woman, etc. Therefore, we should not demand that pregnant women must have a smooth delivery. Whether it is a vaginal birth or a caesarean section, the doctor's advice and judgment should be respected.
In conclusion, we should try to avoid the above few sentences when communicating with pregnant women, so as not to bring unnecessary stress and harm to them. We should respect the choices and decisions of pregnant women, understand their physical changes and psychological needs, and give them adequate care and support. Let's be a sensible person and care for the health of pregnant women and fetuses together.
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