I read a poignant story today. In a small town in Yunnan, there is a 30-year-old border policeman, Liu Peng, whose 3-year-old son recently introduced the family at kindergarten, mentioning every family member, even the family's dog, "Nuo Nuo", but forgetting his father. This little forgetting made Liu Peng, who was far away at the border, feel deeply sad.
Why does this story resonate with me?First of all, as parents, we all want to have an important place in our children's hearts. But for border police officers like Liu Peng, their profession forces them to leave their families for long periods of time, which undoubtedly affects their relationships with their families, especially their children.
According to psychologists, children's memories are closely related to their daily life experiences. Prolonged separation can cause the child to psychologically have a vague memory of this family member, or even forgetfulness. It's not the child's fault, and it doesn't mean they don't love their parents. It's just an innocent oblivion, but behind it is a reflection of deep-seated emotional problems in the family of border police.
Liu Peng's story is just one example of many family stories of border police officers. According to one study, long-term separation has a significant impact on children's psychological development, especially in the establishment of parent-child relationships. Children may feel abandoned or uncared for, which has a profound impact on their development.
So, what can we do as members of society?First and foremost, we need to show more understanding and support for these families. The community can provide counseling and parent-child activities to help these families strengthen their parent-child relationship. Secondly, we can also raise awareness of the issue through social media and other platforms, which can lead to more support and resources for these families.
In addition, I think that ** and social organizations could consider providing more support to the border police and their families. For example, provide them with mental health services to help them cope with the emotional challenges that come with their careers. Special vacation arrangements can also be made for these families so that they can have more time to reunite with their families.
Humorously, if one day technology can allow us to appear in two places at the same time, it will be a boon for fathers like Liu Peng. But until that day comes, we need to work together to create a more welcoming and supportive environment for these families.
In conclusion, I would like to say that although Liu Peng's son forgot his father at that moment, we, as members of society, should not forget the sacrifices made by border policemen like Liu Peng. They are not only protecting our country, but they are also loving their families in their way.
This story makes us think about the balance between love and sacrifice. Let's not forget the heroes who worked silently behind the scenes, as well as their families. Let's work together to provide them with more understanding, support and care. The 3-year-old introduced a family member and forgot the police father