Shake off.
Some self-awareness and action is needed:
Develop self-awareness:Be aware of what your values and beliefs are and understand why you think about them. Knowing your own needs and goals helps you to see yourself more clearly without being influenced by the outside.
Independent Thinking:Try to think on your feet and don't be easily swayed by the opinions of those around you. When making decisions, consider your own opinions and feelings, and evaluate the strengths and weaknesses of different perspectives.
Develop self-confidence:Boost your self-confidence and trust your own judgment and decision-making. Accept your own individuality and uniqueness, and don't have to deliberately strive to be like others.
Find Vibes:Look for social circles or groups that align with your views. Socializing with people who share similar values and interests can help solidify your position.
Accept different points of view:While it's important to stand your ground, it's also important to be open to different perspectives and ideas. Respect the ideas of others, which helps to promote a wider range of thinking and perspectives.
Self-reflection:Reflect regularly on your actions and decisions. This helps to understand how you made your decisions and think about whether you need to make a change.
Getting rid of the herd mentality is a gradual process that takes time and effort. By cultivating self-awareness, independent thinking, and acceptance of different points of view, the tendency to blindly conform to the herd can be gradually shaken off.