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Over the past week, I've once again been stuck in anxiety and worry. For the past two months, parents have either worried about their children's illness or are worried about their children's health. Even if the child is healthy and safe, it is scary to send the child to a school full of infectious diseases every morning. When I get home from school, the first thing I do is to touch the child's forehead temperature, and I have to reconfirm it before going to bed at night. I even wondered if the child knew about my worries, and every day when he came home like a small loudspeaker: so-and-so who was sitting with me had a fever today, and so-and-so asked for leave today. Hearing these news, my heart felt like a flutter, praying for the child to stay away from the disease, and worrying about what to do when the final exam Xi was repeated if the disease really hitI felt like I was a little delirious. However, the bad news is endless. In the group of friends, there are some frustrating conversations. Someone said that there were eight children in a class who had a cold. Then someone replied, "Eight?".There were 39 children in our class, and when we picked up the children from school, only 6 of them came out, and the rest were on leave.
The next day, I saw a WeChat hot search: the children in a class of a kindergarten were basically sick and on leave, and only 3 children were still insisting on going to school. There are only three seedlings in such a huge classroom, no wonder it is nicknamed "the ceiling of human cub immunity" by netizens. Looking back on the past year, no, it's been the past four years, and we, as parents, have been in the midst of various worries. Have you ever played "Carrot Squat"?Now we are like playing the viral version of "carrot squat": coronavirus squat, flu squat, mycoplasma squat. One disease is over, and another follows, seemingly endless. Adults are fine, wear masks when they go out, and there are relatively few people in contact. However, children gather together every day, eat together, go to class, and huddle together after class, and in the case of frequent contact, once a child gets sick, it is easy to cause infection. There are many children gathered in a small place, and a spark can start a prairie fire, and the spread of infectious diseases is bound to be out of control. Think about it, can you still see groups of children playing in the community?After school, they carry heavy school bags, and are either picked up by their parents or walk on the road by themselves, all their minds are focused on their heavy schoolwork, and they don't have the slightest idea of playing.
Even if you are sick, you cannot relax and rest. In the emergency room, I saw children hanging infusion bottles and doing homework, which made people feel deeply helpless. This phenomenon is not an isolated phenomenon, but has even become a common phenomenon. Some hospitals even have to provide special places for sick babies to complete their homework. If it weren't for those tall infusion rods hanging from infusion bottles, I'm afraid many people would still think that they had entered the Xi room. Such a situation has attracted widespread attention, and CCTV has also come forward to call on sick babies not to do their homework, after all, it is more important to recuperate first in the future. When I was sick when I was a child, my parents would buy me some canned fruits, meat floss and other delicacies, and they would also let me watch TV and read books to fully enjoy the fun of recuperating at home. There is no pressure, it is completely a carefree state. When I returned to school after I got well, the teachers would be very concerned and ask about my physical condition, and there was no request for homework. At most, I just missed some classes and needed to ask my classmates for notes. At that time, even though I was not feeling well, I was still very happy. Today, children don't have the opportunity to enjoy the same comfortable life as we did when we were children.
When winter comes, they are always trapped in the hospital, constantly giving injections, hanging bottles, and hanging infusion bottles in their hands, and they can't enjoy the fun outside in winter at all. Unfortunately, this situation is not caused by an individual person. CCTV appealed to the sick baby not to do homework, but why did no one respond?Could it be that the parents are too ruthless, and even though the children are sick, they still have to let them do their homework, and they are urged over and over again with a small leather whip?Or is the teacher too mean and insists that parents go into school and pick up a lot of unfinished homework every day?Or is it because the children are too model workers and feel uncomfortable not doing their homework?Actually, these are not the main reasons. The main culprit for this situation is that the environment forces the children to do their homework while sick, otherwise they will fall behind their classmates. I recently met with some middle school parents, and they generally complained that their children were sick for a few days and did not go to school, and there was a mountain of homework that could not be finished at home. When they were a little better, the children began to lose their ability and asked to go to school and do homework with their classmates. They think it's more efficient than at home, but in fact, when they get home, they still have to put off finishing their homework very late.
And the parents of healthy children are not happy, they wonder why other children are getting sick in rounds and continuing to go to school, isn't it spreading the virus?In such an environment, it is difficult for children to avoid being affected, and even if parents do not require them to study Xi sick, it is difficult for children to resist doing homework. In short, the phenomenon of children writing homework while sick makes people feel helpless. This is not only a problem for children, but also for parents and teachers to face together. While attaching importance to education, we should pay more attention to children's physical health and mental health, so that they can enjoy a carefree childhood. Children give up the opportunity to play in the snow in favor of heavy schoolwork, but this does not necessarily ensure that they will achieve excellent grades. The current situation is that excellent students are under pressure, and the slightest relaxation can be surpassed by others. And ordinary students are also suffering. Excellent students study Xi until 11 o'clock every night and at least have comforting grades in return;Ordinary students also need to Xi study until 11 o'clock at night, and sometimes they can't even stay up late to complete their tasks. What are they trying to do?
Even if you are sick, you have to write your homework while hanging the infusion, which is not all the preserve of excellent students, but also ordinary students. This situation is distressing. I'm really worried that a few years later, looking at this generation of children who grew up in the epidemic era, they may never really have a good time, and their academic performance is average, but they have experienced countless disease invasions, experienced n positive reactions, experienced n adventures, and even suffered from several types of pneumonia. This is where parents feel the most guilty.
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