Hi, I'm Ai Hee.
Yesterday my daughter invited two classmates and their mothers to come to my house after school. As soon as the two mothers came into our house, they kept praising me, saying that we are a dual-income family, and the home can be stored very well, and the floor is also very clean.
But in fact, a family really can't be supported by a mother, and if you want to live well at home, you need the efforts and maintenance of all family members.
Next, Ai Xi will share with you 6 signs that our home is getting better and better, so that our lives will be smoother and smoother.
01.The home environment should be clean
A home doesn't need to be too big, but it must be clean and tidy.
Home is the most relaxing place, and when you come home tired from work and see a comfortable environment, you can also ** our mood. Don't underestimate the impact of the environment on us, the living environment can imperceptibly affect a person's spirit, and in the long run, it can also affect our quality of life.
Therefore, only when the home is clean, the happiness index will increase.
02.Don't compare to others
During the New Year's holidays, everyone gets together and always praises each other. "You bought a new house this year", "I heard that you got a new car", "Your son has been admitted to a key school in the city", "Is he promoted again"...
People are more popular than people, everyone has their own way of life, and behind the glamorous and glamorous there are more or less hidden difficulties in life.
There is a good saying: "The tiredness of life is tired in the heart, and the tiredness of the heart comes from survival and half from comparison." ”
So there is no need to compare, no need to complain, no need to care, adjust your mentality, and happiness will be attached.
03.Know how to control your emotions
When people reach middle age, there are always a lot of people who can't help themselves. Layoffs and salary cuts, parents getting sick, children going to school, mortgages and car loans. Who is not enduring humiliation and burden, while moving forward bravely.
The slightest unpleasant thing can always hit your heart, and it is easy to leave all the bad temper to the people closest to you.
But a truly mature person will always be careful not to fall into a bad mood. A family can be harmonious and harmonious, and the mind and thoughts of everyone in the family are closely related, and the less tempered the family, the higher the happiness index.
04.Encourage your child
Although when the child is naughty and disobedient, the parents are really angry and will say something hurtful to the child.
As the saying goes: "Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June." The charm of language is limitless.
Once, after eating, the child helped me bring the bowl with soup to the kitchen, but when the soup was spilled on the floor, she kept looking at me with the bowl. In fact, she knew that she had done a bad job, and she was afraid that I would talk about her.
Later, I saw her emotions and encouraged her: "My daughter now knows how to help her mother clean up the dishes and chopsticks, it's so good, although it is scattered all over the ground, but it's okay, your behavior makes her mother feel so warm in her heart."
Parents' encouragement will help children learn to do things to gain a sense of accomplishment and help them gradually build up their self-confidence.
05.Family members have a harmonious relationship
For a family, respect, understanding, and tolerance should be words that a good family cannot live without.
Dad understands Mom's hardships, Mom understands Dad's hardships, respects children, and does not suppress children with parental authority. can reflect the harmony of a family.
In the family, only mutual respect, understanding and support can solve the current conflicts and problems in the family.
06.Keep learning Xi and growing
My favorite family moment is when after dinner, the children are drawing and learning Xi, and the parents are reading on the side, without disturbing each other, and everyone is constantly learning and Xi and growing.
Children are copies of their parents, and parents strive to improve their own quality and ability, which can also drive children's competitiveness and increase the fun and vitality of the family.