Our people have always paid attention to courtesy and exchanges, whether it isCelebrate the festival or go to relativesAs long as you go to other houses, your hands will not be empty, evenIf you have good things, you will share them with each other。It's okay to give gifts to each otherIncrease friendships between people, but if you prepare the wrong gift,conveyed the wrong meaning, but this piece of good intentions is bad.
As the old saying goes, there are seven things that are not suitable for sendingIt may be the result of a song endingWhat are the seven things?
Why can't you give away shoes? There's a lot of attention to detail in this. People can walk with shoes onTherefore, shoes have the meaning of running away and leaving, couples and couples are not suitable for sending shoes.
If between couples, one party gives shoes to the other, it is definitely good to give and receive gifts, on the other handThere is the intention of breaking up with the original partner or running away from others.
If the two of you had a holiday and you reconciled, you can give him shoesThere is also the meaning of putting small shoes on him.
Wearing shoes can make walking smoother, and some people will understand that giving shoes allows each other to do soSoaringYesGo higher and further。In addition, shoes and evil have the same sound, and it is possible to send shoes withSend evilInvolved in the relationship, it is a good meaning,If it is understood as bringing about evil, it's not good.
For now, it is common for couples and husbands and wives to send shoes, and two people wear couple's shoes together, and they are not so particularIf you believe, you will have it, and if you don't believe it, you will not。If believed,You can transfer money to the other party online, and then let the other party buy it themselves, so that it will feel more comfortable.
Or ratherTwo people go to the mall together to buy, you can also let people try it on the spot, and you won't be afraid that the person receiving the gift won't like it, and you're not afraid of wearing it inappropriatelyBuying shoes has added a lot of good memories at the same time
Since ancient times, people have been very fond of moneyPeople know almost everything about money, and there is one of themGifts cannot be given to wallets.
Ancient money bags were used to hold money, as well as some small itemsThe purse used by women is called a purseIn ancient times, the purse was very important and would not be given away casuallyThe person to send is not ordinary.
The feelings of the previous era were very pure, and it took a lifetime to recognize the right person, if this girl fell in love with any man,He will give him a purse to show his heart.
Wallets are used to hold money, and there were no electronic payments before, except for health and lifeIt's the wallet that is the most important, keep the family's money in a bag and hide it somewhere.
If you send a wallet, that probably means to beSend away the "fortune and treasury"., give it to others, bad luck or leakage of money, generally listen to this statement, do not choose to send a wallet.
Couples, couples, and loved ones can send it, wealth is not exposed, wealth is not outflowed, wealth always stays at home,The family members work together to make a lot of money.
For now, most people use electronic payment, cash is rarely used, and the wallet is back, so it is not appropriate to send the walletYou can send a card holder and put your bank card up.
Another gift that can't be given in relation to money is the fish tank. Fish tanks have a relationship with Feng ShuiSince ancient times, people have paid great attention to Feng Shui, regardless of scienceThere is still some truth to the existence of Feng Shui.
From the point of view of Feng Shui,Water represents wealth, and water generates wealth, the fish tank can need water to raise fish, if the fish tank is sent, thenand transported the wealth out in disguise, which may also affect your financial fortune.
Sending fish also does not allow carp, which is pronounced the same as "leaving" and may be misunderstoodThe meaning of parting,But on the other hand,Fish and Yu have the same sound, carp has a long lifespan, more than every year,Add it up and have itWishing you a long life.
Pear and "away" the same sound, I remember when I was a child, adults and elders taught us that we can't share pears with others to eat, separate pears, eat may meanThe two will then separate
In daily life, the fruit of pears is still relatively abundant, and if you eat it in general, you may not be able to eat it allCut it in half and give it to the family to eat, so as not to waste the taste, at this time there is no other meaning.
If you are taboo with pears as a fruit, you canSend something else that means goodFor example, apples - peace and security, oranges - sincerity, wishes come true, persimmons - everything goes well, sugarcane - step by step and so on.
"No umbrellas for happy events, no cigarettes for birthdays".
Getting married and holding a banquet for the full moon of the child is the top priority of the happy event, and the villagers will come to participateIf you have a good relationship, you will give some gifts.
All those who came to the feast were thereCome with good intentionsAt the same time, I came with joy at this timeIt is even more taboo to send umbrellasBecause the umbrella has the same sound as "scatter", the meaning is not good.
Giving something to someone elseThe original intention is good, I'm afraid that you choose something "unlucky", and it is very uncomfortable to have such a gift on this beautiful day.
Couples generally do not send it, but also have something to do with parting, in addition to the umbrella is a good thing in life, can help us shelter from the wind and rain.
If you have to send itDon't send dark-colored umbrellas, which has something to do with white things, and also has an impact on feelings.
Pillow is a must-have item for every family, with pillows people can lie more comfortably, in order to sleep more peacefully, although comfortable but it is not good to give away.
Pillows are intimate objects for people, it can be said that it is a sleeping partner, and it is suitable for more intimate people to send pillowsMeaning to spend a lifetime together; If you are not close to someone, it is not appropriate to send a pillow, andA little presumptuous.
Pillows are associated with peace of mind,Sit back and relax, in one sense, is carefreeIf you give away the pillow, it is equivalent to sending away your "peace of mind" daysI have to suffer a lot.
No matter who you send or what,The most taboo thing is to send a watch, because sending a clock is the same as sending the end, and you give it to himConvey the meaning of letting him "go"., very disrespectful to others.
It can be sent under special circumstancesThe watch means to show one's heart and confessIt is more appropriate for men and women to send each otherHelpful for the further development of the relationship, also has a better meaning,I want to spend every minute with you, I have always loved you.
There is nothing wrong with food and objects, what matters is what people say and think, and gifts still need to consider their meanings, and good intentions are the best. These rules and sayings deserve respect and reference.