In this era of rapid change, everyone wants to be able to seize the opportunity of the future and pursue their own success in life. However, in the process of personal growth, there are often various challenges and dilemmas. As a person who has been engaged in the consulting industry early, Mr. Zhang Xuefeng's success is not accidental. What is less well known, however, is that he put in a lot of hard work and selfless dedication in his journey to success. Teacher Zhang Xuefeng challenged the views of professionals in a program, questioning whether academic qualifications can represent ability. His answer makes people think deeply: academic qualifications are not equal to ability, but the world's top 500 companies only recruit talents from Tsinghua University and Peking University, and will not go to Qiqihar University to find talents. This view has led to reflection on the relationship between academic qualifications and abilities. Mr. Zhang Xuefeng is well aware of the lack of resources and the difficult situation, and he understands the difficulties faced by students from low-income families. He often gives advice on college entrance examination and postgraduate entrance examination skills, and cares about the growth of these students. However, in this interview, Mr. Zhang rarely expressed his inner emotions. He said frankly that he hoped that his sense of responsibility in the next life would not be so strong. This sentence expresses his concern for his career and family, and also highlights the pressure and helplessness of personal growth. He mentioned that he was alone to bear the hardships of his family and felt the heaviness of his sense of responsibility. The conflict between the sense of responsibility and the sense of mission and the inability to indulge oneself makes people feel inexplicably sad. I am afraid that this sadness can only be understood by those who have been taking on family responsibilities in the midst of hard work.
Mr. Zhang Xuefeng is an ordinary person born in 84, and he can represent the voice of the masses at the bottom. His expression "I don't want to be a responsible person in the future" is actually a complaint after physical and mental exhaustion. Because he has endured hardships all his life, he would love to stop taking on so many responsibilities in the future. This sentiment is especially common in the post-80s and post-90s. They have gradually gone from high-spirited teenagers to "greasy middle-aged". They were once criticized by their predecessors for being willful, but in fact, they carried all the burdens. College is free while they are in elementary school;And when they go to university, primary and secondary education becomes free again. However, when they graduate, many find that housing prices have skyrocketed and those who have a house have become different. They are well aware of the pain of having many children from poor families, so they feel guilty for being accused of having only one child. Under this guilt, they succumb to pressure and dare not make expectations and demands of their parents. However, driven by a sense of responsibility, they demand that they give better material and moral support to their descendants. They silently bear the wounds given by their predecessors, and do their best to avoid repeating the tragedy of their children. The post-80s and post-90s generations work hard to provide labor for their families and society, and at the same time they are also providers of old-age security. However, their future is not guaranteed. They often encounter few opportunities when they enjoy "meat", and when they are hit, they are hurt again and again. When they were young, they pursued the trend of "rolling babies", but their mediocre grades failed to live up to their parents' training. When they become parents, they find that this is already an "era of fighting for fathers", and they cannot expect their children to achieve better results. The ability to do so makes them feel ashamed of their descendants, but they have to silently bear the criticism and accusations of the outside world. In general, the existence of the post-80s and post-90s generations always seems to be full of "embarrassment". They have taken on a lot of responsibility, but they also face a lot of accusations and criticism. They have suffered for a long time in compromise, but they still have no satisfaction with others. Mr. Zhang Xuefeng's successful counterattack resonated with many people in the comment area, and he changed his situation while also winning the respect of his family. However, more ordinary people are still unable to stop driven by a sense of responsibility, but they cannot get their own respect and satisfaction.
In today's competitive society, responsibility has become everyone's consensus. Whether it's work or family, we want to be responsible for creating a better future for ourselves and our families. However, at the same time, it inevitably faces many pressures and challenges. Everyone's situation is different, but some feelings may be the same.
For me personally, I also feel the pressure and burden of responsibility. While striving to pursue my career, I inevitably have to be responsible for my family, friends, and society. This sense of responsibility prevents me from easily indulging myself and selfishly pursuing personal gain. Although I feel stressed and tired at times, I also understand that a sense of responsibility is the driving force for my growth and progress.
Like the post-80s and post-90s, I am well aware that I have taken on many responsibilities but am often blamed and questioned. Sometimes, despite all the hard work, you still can't meet your expectations due to your own lack of ability or environmental limitations. This confuses and distresses me, but it also encourages me to keep working hard and improving myself.
Although there will be ups and downs and setbacks over the years, I believe that as long as you keep working hard, you will be able to grow and succeed gradually. I hope to be able to maintain a positive attitude and face various opportunities and challenges in the midst of the complex tide of the times. At the same time, I will cherish my family and friends, grow and pursue happiness with them.
Everyone's life path is different, for Mr. Zhang Xuefeng, his success is not only due to his own efforts and persistence, but also inseparable from the support and encouragement of his family. For each of us, there are challenges and difficulties in school, career, and family. But as long as we maintain a sense of responsibility for ourselves and others, work hard, and believe in our own abilities, we will be able to overcome difficulties and pursue the life we want. At the same time, don't forget to give yourself some proper relaxation and rest during the struggle to maintain physical and mental health and balance. Time will tell if we persevere and strive for our goals, in the end we will all be able to achieve the life and achievements we want.