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When it comes to the name Yingda, most people may not be familiar with it, but when Song Dandan and Batu are mentioned, I believe everyone will feel very familiar. And Yingda is Song Dandan's ex-husband and Batu's father.
A few years ago, Yingda and Song Dandan ended their marriage and married Liang Huan instead. After marriage, Yingda is immersed in a new relationship and firmly wants to keep her distance from Song Dandan.
Moreover, Indah didn't care about his biological son after the divorce, but now that Batu has grown up, he turned his head and wanted to reconcile with his son, 25 years later, will Batu forgive Indah?
What happened to make Yingda, known as the "cold-faced father", change his mind?
Doesn't care about his own son.
The marriage relationship between Yingda and Song Dandan is obviously an incorrect start.
The relationship ultimately failed to survive seven years of twists and turns, and finally in 1997, the two came to the end of their marriage.
After the divorce, Batu was raised by Song Dandan alone, and the two mother and son relied on each other, although they were very rich materially, Batu was never able to truly feel the warmth of his father's love.
For Batu, the incident had far-reaching consequences, as his father was a ruthless man in his opinion.
When the two decided to divorce, Batu was still just a child. Whenever he saw other children with their fathers, he would ask his mother all sorts of questions. Whenever Song Dandan saw this, she would burst into tears.
Even if it was the fault of two people, it should not cause harm to the son.
However, Song Dandan never expected Yingda to be such a ruthless person, and she never came back to visit her children after the divorce.
Shockingly, Indah is not just indifferent to Batu, he even declared on a show that if you get divorced, you won't come to me again.
He was unwilling to cause harm to himself and Liang Huan's children, and even considered taking back Batu's surname.
Obviously, Indah is not willing to admit that Batu is his son at all.
For Batu, a childhood is incomplete without a father.
In the past few years, Batu has tried to get in touch with his father, hoping to find a touch of paternal love for himself. However, whenever Yingda receives a call from Batuu, he hangs up immediately because he is busy with work**.
Moreover, while attending the event, the ruthless Yingda openly declared that he only had one son, and that was his youngest son, Yingrudi.
However, Indah is still very young and doesn't know much about these things, he just misses his father deeply.
As the years passed, Batu gradually understood the truth behind the matter.
In the depths of little Batu's heart, every detail quietly planted the fire of hatred.
But in fact, the divorce between Yingda and Song Dandan was proposed by Song Dandan, because Song Dandan made a mistake in a momentary infatuation, but why is it that despite Song Dandan's mistake, everyone blames Yingda so much?Are there really other facts?
The real situation about divorce.
It is often said that "tiger poison does not eat children", after all, Batu is the son of Yingda's blood, but why is this father so ruthless?
*The reason behind it is actually related to Song Dandan.
As we all know, the divorce between Song Dandan and Yingda has attracted the attention of many people, and everyone wants to understand the reasons behind it. But when everyone failed to find an answer, Song Dandan revealed the truth of the matter at a press conference.
She insisted that the reason for the divorce between the two was her infidelity, and Song Dandan took the initiative to file for divorce afterwards, and Yingda agreed without hesitation.
At first, Song Dandan still had doubts in her heart, but after a period of time, she finally understood the reason behind it.
It turns out that this is not a one-sided act of infidelity, but a two-way infidelity between two people.
After the divorce, Yingda and Liang Huan quickly walked to the palace of marriage, which was criticized by many netizens, who thought that Liang Huan was an immoral person and actually robbed their close friends.
You have to understand that Liang Huan and Song Dandan have a deep friendship in the workplace, and the connection between the two is very close.
Before the two officially divorced, Liang Huan kept asking about their divorce plans in various ways, and it seemed that they had been planning for a long time.
When the two went to go through the divorce procedures, Yingda's mobile phone kept receiving text messages, and Song Dandan glanced at it inadvertently, only noticing the surname Liang.
Now that I look back and think about it carefully, I really understand the truth of the matter, and it turns out that these two people have begun to have a deep relationship.
Libra is out of balance.
If both spouses wish to maintain a longer period of time in the marital relationship, then mutual understanding and tolerance between them are indispensable.
It's like a balance that can only be sustained if the relationship is balanced.
However, the scale used by Song Dandan and Yingda seems to be out of balance.
Song Dandan was originally a professionally trained student and had already achieved a certain degree of popularity during that period, so she used her connections to help Yingda enter the crew as a screenwriter.
This sitcom "I Love My Home" is the earliest one in China, and Song Dandan became famous because of it, it can be said that "I Love My Home" and Song Dandan are mutually promoting and accomplishing.
Yingda was an eloquent person when he was young, and after joining the crew, he quickly became a group with the choreographer.
During this time, he also met Liang Tian, who was Liang Huan's direct brother.
At that time, although Liang Huan was only a senior student, he had a very good creative talent and often assisted the crew in adapting the script, so the two quickly became close.
The young Liang Huan was attracted by Yingda's literary talent, and she was full of deep respect for Yingda, almost to the point of obsession.
You have to understand that in the married life of Yingda and Song Dandan, Yingda has always been the disadvantaged party, and whenever he is mentioned, people will think of Song Dandan's husband.
Suddenly, a little fan girl appeared, and her exaggerated description of her abilities undoubtedly satisfied the vanity of Yingda men.
At this moment, Yingda and Song Dandan have been in a state of cold war for a long time, although Song Dandan has shown great strength, Yingda is also a person with machismo views.
Although Yingda is not as successful as Song Dandan in his career, Yingda, who knows that he is oppressed, feels heavy in his daily life, and perhaps he has considered the possibility of divorce.
But contrary to his expectations, Song Dandan proposed a divorce in time, which made Yingda ecstatic and agreed without hesitation.
The couple had no moral values at all.
In view of the deep friendship between Song Dandan, Yingda and Liang Tian and others, when Yingda and Liang Huan were in trouble, Liang Tian felt deeply indebted to Song Dandan.
He was deeply disgusted by the improper behavior of his sister and the two who were called brothers-in-law.
After the death of Liang Zuo, the eldest brother of the Liang family, Liang Huan and Yingda secretly removed his computer. Liang Zuo is a well-known screenwriter who has a large number of manuscripts saved in his computer. Out of consideration for their own interests, Liang Huan and Yingda even stole their brother's computer.
At that time, Liang Zuo was saddled with huge debts, and although the purpose of these manuscripts was to repay these debts, unexpectedly, once the manuscripts disappeared, all the debts eventually fell on Liang Tian's shoulders.
This situation also caused a large number of netizens to question the moral character of the couple.
The Internet is full of bad words, in order to calm everyone's anger, Yingda and Liang Huan decided to stand up and clarify that their creations were hidden in the computer, so they chose to take it quietly.
Regarding this explanation, many netizens said that they did not agree.
It is not surprising that this couple, who have no moral bottom line at all, can behave like this.
Although they are both sons, there is a huge difference in their treatment.
Yingda and Liang Huan welcomed their son in the second year of their marriage and named him Ying Rudi.
Indah poured all her love into his youngest son without reservation.
When his son was only three years old, Yingda sent him to piano class and bought him a piano worth more than 100,000 yuan, with the aim of cultivating his artistic talent.
An unexpected opportunity made Indah realize that his youngest son had a great passion for ice hockey, so he decided to take his son abroad to learn Xi hockey.
You have to understand that learning Xi ice hockey is not just a lot of money, it also requires a lot of energy. In order to help his son realize his dream, Yingda is willing to live separately from Liang Huan.
Fortunately, Ying Rudi performed well and was selected by the national team after returning home, which also proves that Yingda's hard work is worthwhile.
Just when their family was living very happily, Yingda chose to turn back and want to care for her son Batu, who had not been taken care of for decades.
What were the factors that prompted Indah to change his perspective?
After all, my young son is just as good and won't have a trumpet failure or a search for a tuba.
Although they are both biological sons, Yingdah's attitude is completely different, which makes Batu not feel hatred
Paternal love that came later.
Yingda once mentioned in a variety show that if he were to go to space, he could only carry three things: books, CDs, and photos of Yingrudi.
Just a short sentence was enough to reflect Yingda's deep affection for this young son, considering that Batu already had memories at that time, his heart couldn't help but feel cold in the face of his father's reply.
Today, Batu has achieved a lot of success in his career, especially with the support of his mother, he gradually stepped into the world of show business. Initially, he only played a few small roles, but over time he joined the larger crew and made positive progress on the path of his career. However, Batu eventually chose to leave the entertainment industry.
He felt that he was not very suitable for development in this industry, so he seized the business opportunity of his own ** and started his live broadcast career, which I have to say, this is what Batu is good at.
Today, I am not only successful in my career, but also in love, and I have a son.
Indah's change in attitude began with the birth of Batuu's son, perhaps because he wanted to be a grandfather, or because he saw what his son was now and wanted to pave the way for his younger son.
Now approaching the age of sixty, Indah no longer has the ambition of his youth, and what he really desires is to have a family and enjoy the peace of his old age, which is why he wants to reconcile with Batu and get his son and grandson back.
Yingda even arranged for his youngest son, Yingrudi, to go in search of his brother in order to ease the strained relationship between him and his father. However, Batu did not have much emotional attachment to this strange brother and cold father, so he did not hesitate to refuse his father's request.
In the face of Yingda's repeated questions, Song Dandan said that even if her son is gone, she still wants to see her grandson, which is really an unrealistic idea.
Compared with Yingda's ruthlessness in the past, Batu and Song Dandan's current behavior is quite good.
Hypocritical falsehoods.
In her younger days, Yingda was neither a competent husband nor a competent father. He was the son of a landlord and his father was a farmer. After meeting Liang Huan, he has indeed changed dramatically, becoming both a competent husband and a competent father.
Still, this does not mean that Indah is a kind person, as the damage he caused to Batu and Song Dandan is permanent, especially to Batu's young mind.
Therefore, in an interview, Yingda began to defend himself, claiming that it was not that he did not look at the child back then, but because Song Dandan stopped him.
Everyone understands that in this world, there are too many divorced families. Wouldn't there be any interaction between the children and their parents?As long as you have an idea, there is almost nothing that cannot be done.
At the end of the day, Indah still doesn't care enough about Batu.
Whether it is a husband and wife or a father-son relationship, as long as a family is involved, everyone needs to maintain and manage it wholeheartedly.
As the saying goes, emotions between people are interchangeable, and only by treating others sincerely can we get corresponding rewards. The idea that Indah was reluctant to take on any responsibilities at a young age, but longed for the care of her children in old age is almost unrealistic.
Although the child was fortunate to know his father, there was no genuine affection or family bond between them.
Indah