Let's take a look at what netizens have to say::
Netizen 1: I just married a phoenix man, and I regret dying. He was never kind to me, he would only send all the money to his parents and siblings, and ask me to work for them. His parents are also very domineering, always telling me to do this and that, and asking me to give birth to a son to support them. His siblings are also very shameless, always borrowing money and not paying it back, and asking me to help them take care of the children. I really couldn't stand it anymore and wanted to get a divorce, but he didn't agree and threatened me that if I dared to leave him, he would cripple me and make me regret it for the rest of my life. [crying].
Netizen 2:
I don't think all phoenix men are bad, but there are also good. I know a phoenix man, he is very talented and responsible, he is very good to his wife and very filial to his parents, but he will not let his wife be wronged, nor will he let his parents interfere in their lives. His wife is also very happy, they have a lovely daughter, and their life is harmonious. I think they are the role models of the phoenix man, and they are worth learning from Xi. [Like].
Netizen 3:
I think phoenix men are all **, they will only use women and then abandon women. My previous boyfriend was a phoenix man, and he was very nice to me, saying that he wanted to marry me, and he also took me to meet his parents. But then I found out that he had another woman out there, and he had a lot of debts, and he wanted me to help him pay it back. I broke up with him in a fit of rage, and he was still unwilling, and he still wanted to pester me, and said that he would make me pay. I really regret believing him in the first place, he is not a phoenix at all, he is a chicken. [angry].
Netizen 4:
I think phoenix men are selfish, they only think about themselves, not others. I have a friend who is married to a phoenix man who gave up her career for him and followed him to a strange city, gave birth to two children, and took care of his parents. Her life was hard, but she never complained, and she felt that it was what she should do. But her husband didn't appreciate it, he felt that she didn't know anything, didn't understand anything, and often quarreled with her and beat her. He also said that if it weren't for him, she would have run out of food a long time ago, and she should be grateful to him. I really couldn't stand it anymore, I persuaded her to divorce, but she didn't listen, she said that she still loved him, and for the sake of the children. I really don't understand why she wronged herself like this, why did she marry such a phoenix man. [helpless].
Netizen 5:
I think phoenix men are all cowards, they will only rely on others, they will not be independent. I have a colleague who is a phoenix man, he has a very poor ability to work, but he always relies on his wife, his wife is the boss of our company, and he relies on her to come in. He was lazy every day, didn't do anything, always made excuses, and always asked for things. His wife was also helpless, she knew that he was a waste, but she did not dare to divorce him, because she was afraid that he would retaliate against her, and she was afraid that he would take half of her property. I really look down on him, he's not a phoenix at all, he's a chicken. [contempt].
From the above comments, we can see that in the eyes of many people, Phoenix Man is a derogatory term, referring to those men who were born in the countryside, but have not got rid of the thoughts and Xi of the countryside, and there are many shortcomings and problems. They may appear to be excellent on the surface, but in reality they are very selfish, very mean, very incompetent, very hypocritical, very greedy, very violent, very irresponsible, very disrespectful to women, very unfilial to their parents, very ununited brothers and sisters, very unconcerned about society, very unpatriotic, and so on. They are a woman's nightmare, a marriage disaster, a cancer of society, and the scum of the country.
So, why is there such a phoenix man?They are.
The difference between such a phoenix man and urban women is obvious. Most urban women come from the city, and they have enjoyed the care of their families and society since they were young, and they need to learn Xi knowledge, cultivate their interests, expand their horizons, pursue their dreams, find a suitable job, marry the right person, and live the life they want. Their goal in life is to realize their self-worth, pursue happiness, enjoy life, and contribute to society. Their values are people-oriented, rational-oriented, quality-based, and freedom-guaranteed. Their morality is to be society-oriented, fairness-oriented, law-based, and kind-hearted. Their emotional outlook is to take marriage as a partner, a husband as an equal, a child as a blessing, and a parent as a parent.
For such an urban woman, conflict with a phoenix man is inevitable. The selfishness, meanness, incompetence, hypocrisy, greed, violence, irresponsibility, disrespect for women, disobedience to parents, disunity with brothers and sisters, lack of concern for society, unpatriotism, etc., will make urban women disgusted, disgusted, dissatisfied, angry, sad, and desperate. The rationality, quality, freedom, kindness, equality, blessing, pro, fairness, law, society, happiness, etc., of urban women will make Phoenix men feel jealous, fearful, uneasy, depressed, contradictory, lost, and inferior. Such a marriage has no future, no happiness, and no meaning.
Therefore, I advise you not to marry a phoenix man, otherwise you will regret it for the rest of your life. If you are already married, then you have to leave him as soon as possible or you will ruin your life. If you are not married, then you have to keep your eyes open, recognize his true colors, stay away from him, and find your true love. You deserve better, you have the right to choose your happiness, and you have the ability to achieve your dreams. Don't let the existence of the phoenix man become your obstacle, your sorrow, and your remorse.