When I was a 13-year-old, one day in 1993, my dad fell down the stairs on a construction site and died three months later due to his deteriorating condition. The loss of my father was a huge blow to our family, and my mother was sad all day long because of the unexpected death of her husband, with tears on her face every day. Mom often sighed alone in the yard, not knowing how her life would be spent in the future. Until one day, my second uncle walked into my yard with a basket of vegetables. He put the dishes in the kitchen, gently wiped the sweat on his forehead with his sleeve, and then said to his mother: "Sister-in-law, don't worry so much every day, life still has to go on." Although my brotherNot thereBut you're not alone, I'm here. In the future, I will discuss the work at home with your younger siblings, and we will help you take care of it. Hearing this, my mother said gratefully, "Brother, how embarrassing is this!."The second uncle sat on the stump of a tree and lit a cigarette, and said lightly, "Sister-in-law, don't say that." That's as it should be, my eldest brother saved my life back then. People, don't forget your kindness. The second uncle took one out of his pocketRattleHand it to me and I playedRattleBian asked curiously: "Second uncle, how did my dad save you?"The second uncle took a puff of cigarette and said, "I was the same age as you are now, and I, your father, and a few children from the village went to swim in the reservoir three miles away. Because of my high self-confidence, I felt that I was very good at the water, so I swam towards the depths of the reservoir, but suddenlyLeg crampsI felt like I was about to be submerged, and your dad jumped into the water to save me. After the second uncle finished speaking, he let out a long sigh: "Your father is a good person, but it's a pity that good people don't live long!."After speaking, the usually rough second uncle had red eyes and tears flowed out. Looking at the appearance of the second uncle, I couldn't help crying, and the second uncle hurriedly stopped me: "Don't cry, manly man, you can't cry." If there is anything in the future, I will come to the second uncle. ”
The story of this rebuilding life is both warm and inspiring, full of family relationshipsAffectionand camaraderie between neighbors. This story made us feel the selfless help of my second uncle to my family, and at the same time made me understand the importance of kindness. It is often said that relatives are not as good as neighbors, but in this story, the appearance of the second uncle and the second aunt really brings endless strength and warmth to our family.
After I lost my father, my second uncle and aunt became the most important support for my family. Not only did they help my mom with household chores and livelihood, but they also cared about my growth and future. They were willing to break my heart for me and did everything possible so that I could better face the challenges of life. Their way of helping each other is so natural, as if the family should be so supportive of each other.
In addition to helping my family solve problems, my second uncle often gave me some life experience and teachings. He said that as long as a person is grateful, he can face the ups and downs of life more strongly. The second uncle told me that my father was his personal "savior", and the second aunt also told me that she and my father were with meWeddingsexpressed gratitude to them. This made me understand that the reason why my second uncle and aunt showed so much love and dedication to my family was because they remembered their kindness, and even more because they understoodAffectionand the preciousness of friendship.
I deeply understand that the second uncle is rightAffectionand the importance of friendship, but also understand how important the inheritance of kindness is. The conversation between my second aunt and my father reminded me of a scene when I was a child, when I was helped by my classmates in an emergency, and at that time I deeply understood the value of kindness. I think the magical connection between people doesn't stop thereAffectionand extended to friends. As long as we are good to others, others will be good to us, and as long as we are willing to give, we will be able to get more help and support. So either wayAffectionOr camaraderie, eitherBlood relationshipOr noneBlood relationshipMutual help, mutual care, and mutual respect are the most real between peopleEmotionExpression.
When my mom mentioned that I was looking for a partner, I also had questions and worries. After all, our family's economic conditions are not good, and I can't help but worry that I can't find a girl who is willing to marry into such a family. However, the help of the second uncle and the second aunt changed all that. They built me a new house and helped me find a classmate who was silently watching me and thinking about our futureMarriage。All this has made me deeply realize that no matter how many difficulties and setbacks we encounter in life, as long as we dare to face them and work hard, there will always be hope and opportunities. They used their actions to tell me that the family is not the size of the wealth, butAffectionand the power of camaraderie.
In mineWeddingsMom hopes that I can kneel down and kowtow to my second uncle and aunt to express the kindness that we will never forget in our lives. My wife and I knelt in front of my second uncle and aunt at my mother's request and kowtowed repeatedly. At that moment, I really felt the importance of kindness and how to repay their selfless help. They treated me as if I were their own son, and they cared for me in every detail, which is a kindness that I will never forget.
Hopes and difficulties in life are intertwined, and everyone will encounter various challenges along the way in life. However, when we are crushed by difficulties, when we feel helpless, we need to remember this story and remember the kindness and selfless dedication of the second uncle and second aunt. They let us see the warmth and hope of life, and made us believe that as long as we persist in working hard and dare to pursue, we will be able to overcome all difficulties and realize our dreams.