In the relationship between men and women, men always like to use all kinds of tricks to test the true heart or bottom line of girls. Then let's unveil the mystery of these "routines" and see what common temptations there are!
Careful observation: Men will watch you carefully!Include changes in your expressions, postures, and tone of voice, wanting to understand your interests and bottom lines. So, girls, be careful not to be seen through by them!
Sugar-coated cannonball method: They will use sincere compliments and compliments to convey concern to see if you can confidently accept these compliments or show doubts about yourself. It's a little way for them to get to know your self-esteem and receptivity
Personal Information Sharing Act: Men will take the initiative to share some of their personal life experiences and encourage you to share your own stories as well, thus building a deeper level of mutual trust. At this point, you have to be careful about which stories you can tell them!
Humor test: They will use a sense of humor to communicate easily, depending on how you react, whether you appreciate this humor, and if you can respond in a relaxed way. If you like humorous guys, just laugh out!
Frequent contact method: They will increase the frequency of communication, depending on how active you are, and avoid making you feel too passive or stressed. But if you think it's too often, tell them about it!
Accidental Encounter MethodThey will also create unexpected encounters to see how well you react and learn about your resilience and flexibility. If you can take it in stride, it means that your resilience is not bad!
In addition to these, the men have some deeper ways of probing:
Verbal provocation: They may mix up ambiguous words in their conversations, or deliberately say something provocative. At this time, you should stay calm, clearly express your position, and let the other party know that your bottom line is **.
Make an appointment to meet: They will invite you out to meet and see how you react. If you're willing to come out, they might get to know you better;If you decline the invitation, they will also respect your decision.
Gift-giving law: They may give you small gifts to show their concern and affection. If you accept the gift, they may learn more about you;If you turn down a gift, they will also try other ways to show their affection.
Exposure Vulnerability Method: Sometimes men will expose their vulnerable side in front of you, such as sharing their worries, frustrations, or failures. See if you can understand and support him. If you can give positive feedback and support, he may trust you more
Observe the social circle method: Men will observe your social circle. Look at how well your social skills and relationships are and whether you fit in with their social circles. If you can fit into their circle, then your relationship may be more harmonious!
Although there are many ways for men to be tempted, girls should not be fooled by these temptationsRespond according to your own feelings and needs, and men should also respect women's feelings and needs and not try to force them to do things they don't want to do. A healthy relationship is based on mutual respect and understanding
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