Famous actor Wang Ji: I won as an actor, but I lost as a mother!When it comes to Wang Ji, many parents may have a deep impression of her. In 1993, "Beijinger in New York" was broadcast, Wang Ji became popular for playing the heroine Ah Chun in it, and became a hot actress, and at the same time she also gave birth to a son this year, but unfortunately was diagnosed with autism (autism), behind Wang Ji's smooth sailing career, there is a sad heart of an autistic mother, so now that 30 years have passed, what is happening to her and her autistic son?
1. My son was diagnosed with autism
In 1993, after the crew was finished, Wang Ji finally got a respite. In addition to going home to accompany her husband and take care of her eldest daughter, she looked at her bulging belly and looked forward to the appearance of Erbao. It didn't take long,
Erbao was born, and his nickname was Danzi, and his big name was Gao Xiaofei.
But in 1994, Danzi suddenly rolled to the floor in his sleep, foaming at the mouth, his eyes rolled up, and his limbs were constantly twitching. After some rescue, the eggs returned to normal. But the doctor came with bad news: "The child is autistic. ”
Wang Ji got the "verdict", she didn't give up, she didn't accept her fate, she didn't want to believe it, she didn't dare to believe it, she began to travel to various hospitals with her husband, visited famous doctors, and "tossed" not long after, the two of them had little savings left. And after visiting many hospitals and seeing countless doctors, the conclusion is the same.
In order to protect the child's medical expenses and future living expenses, Wang Ji had no choice but to start acting in film and television dramas again.
However, at that time, no one knew that she had an autistic son waiting for treatment behind her.
Second, both the mother and son were thrown off the plane
One day in June 2008, Wang Ji's mother flew from Los Angeles to Beijing with Danzi. After successfully boarding the plane, Grandma was busy storing her luggage, while Danzi was full of curiosity about the things around her, and pulled the curtain of business class. This pull didn't matter, but it aroused the vigilance of the flight attendants.
When they learned that the child was autistic, they asked the two to downgrade on the grounds that they would disturb other passengers, but who knows, the two had not yet taken their seats in economy class, and the captain asked them to get off the plane on the grounds that they were "unsafe factors".
Wang Ji tried to communicate with the airline's people, but to no avail. In the end, an old man and a young man were thrown off the plane in the early hours of the morning in Los Angeles.
After this incident, the fact that the son is autistic was made public. Wang Ji no longer deliberately concealed it, and in between interviews, she would also talk about the difficult process of raising her autistic son.
3. Don't give up hope
In the face of her son's illness, Wang Ji did not give up, but persevered in finding the best way. She constantly worked hard to earn money and pay for her son's **. In order to take care of her son, she even did not hesitate to work two jobs, working day and night. Since 1995, Wang Ji has never stopped, almost at least one work a year, she almost doesn't choose many roles, and even played the mother of Zhao Yazhi, who is older than herself, in the play.
On the other hand, just in case, Wang Ji began to train her son to cook, go to the toilet, and do laundry, so that he could master the basic knowledge of self-care. She said hand in hand: "You put the rice in, then put the water in it, flip the switch, and when you hear the sound of 'goo', 'goo', you can eat!."”
She specially imitated some onomatopoeia to make the egg better understood. Despite this, it is still difficult to learn the egg, and it has to be taught over and over again, and demonstrated over and over again. However, Wang Ji never gave up and persisted every day. Slowly, Danzi learned to brush her teeth, learn to wash her face, and learn to dress herself ......It is already possible to achieve basic self-care.
After many years of **, Danzi's condition was under control, and Wang Ji was relieved.
I remember once Wang Ji said in an interview that if she was absent one day, if her son could eat a scrambled egg with tomatoes, she would be content. This sentence makes people teary-eyed, and vividly interprets the old mother's love and deep sense of powerlessness for her autistic child.
Today, Wang Ji's son is still receiving **, and she herself has become a public welfare spokesperson for the care of autistic children. She called on more people to pay attention to this special group, and hoped that those "children from the stars" could find their true selves as soon as possible. Her experience has taught us that taking care of your body and life during pregnancy is essential to keeping your baby healthy.
Wang Ji's experience also tells us that more attention should be paid to and supported families who face the challenges of autism in their lives, because they also need our understanding and help. Autism is a complex and diverse disorder, and each patient has different characteristics and needs. As a society, we should create a more inclusive and supportive environment for people with autism and their families.
The above is the story of the famous actor Wang Ji and her autistic son, in the process of accompanying the child's growth, in addition to her own efforts, she is also inseparable from the help of Wang Ji's mother and daughter Gao Liwen. And because of her son's condition, Wang Ji admitted that she is much more timid now, because she has to take care of her son, and she even said: "We autistic parents are dead, I really don't know, what will happen to the child after I leave." "This is really a hard work to become a son in the end, pity the hearts of parents all over the world!However, I believe that with the increasing attention of the society, the country's help for the autism (autism) group will become greater and greater, and the children's future life path will become warmer and brighter.