Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge
90% of the people in this society are eager to soar and own luxury cars and mansions.
Of course, there are also people who do not have material desires, but the proportion is too small.
I belong to the kind of people who run around every day, just to earn a little food and clothing to make ends meet, and most of the people around me are like me.
But a friend of my husband's, the way of life is how to spend the money in their hands, do rich people have troubles?
Seeing that people have endless money, I will only fight for a lot, never eat on the street, let alone eat a big meal, and I am not even willing to have a snack.
The gap between people is so big, my wealth is not even as big as someone's little thumb fingernail.
Why is there such a big gap between us in the current situation and in our lives?
Some people say that studying is not the only way out now, because some people who study well will still be a mess after graduation, and those who study poorly can mix better.
Such a chance is not impossible, but the proportion is small, or there are more options for children who excel in learning.
Different choices in the past have caused differences in today's lives, but each choice is determined by our perception.
As high as the cognition, the choice is as high as the choice.
For example, if I am self-a**, why I can only earn 100 yuan a month, but others can earn tens of thousands of yuan, the fundamental reason is that my cognitive level is different from that of others.
The perspective of other people's problems is very different from mine, I will only see the little things at home and outside the home for a short time, but other people's eyes can see social phenomena that I can't find.
I'm very uninterested in hot spots, but I don't want to look at the hot spots that others are keen to pursue, so I don't deserve to make money.
I made an investment, but I made all my savings and lost a mess, so my current situation today is related to my choices in the past.
I have to pay for the mistakes I made, I can't blame anyone, my ability is so ordinary, I can only accept the ordinary life, and be content and happy.
If your desire is greater than your ability, you will live a very miserable life, and if you don't envy others, you will live your own life and keep your own one-third of an acre.
Riding an electric car to pick up and drop off my children every day, I classify myself as a poor person, and I want to buy a car when I see other parents driving their children.
But after thinking about it, I gave up for the time being, I didn't have any savings and didn't want to take out a loan, and the use of the car was really not much, it was not as free as I rode a two-wheeled electric car.
I'm also long past the age of loving face, I don't care what others think of me, I don't have a car, I don't have a car, and I almost wear it calmly.
I don't want to have too much interaction with the people around me, I just want to simply live in my own world, and I don't care about other people's opinions.
I just want to let my hand have as much money as possible, and there are many people who have different views than me, so let him go and be yourself.
The strong in this world are great, I accept that I am an ordinary person, why should I care about the eyes of others.
It is impossible to become a rich person in this life, but at least it is still okay to have enough food and clothing, and it can be regarded as developing a side business while working.
Although my side hustle is like an ant, with a monthly income of only about 100 yuan, I am working hard after all.
I can't climb to a better position, because I really don't have that material, and my monthly salary is only more than 4,000 yuan.
But now I feel that I am living a good life, and I have lived my life without any pressure, just doing things for the sake of doing things, and leaving work at the end of the day.
I don't worry about being fired, and my performance will always remain average, without any risk or pressure, so I do a side hustle while working, which is also the life of many people.
What I'm worried about is how to make my side business bigger and stronger, so that I can catch up with half of the income of my main business, and not only earn 100 yuan a month like now.