Beauty may be innate, but being able to speak is a woman's.
There is a highly praised comment on Zhihu.
The boy's iron buddy has a new girlfriend and has a great figure. When the boy was with his girlfriend, he inadvertently praised the girl, but as a result, his girlfriend said lightly: "So what, her boyfriend is not as handsome as me." ”
In a word, it is full of wit. praised his boyfriend, and also raised himself lightly.
can't speak, no matter how beautiful the skin is, it can't save the boredom in the bones.
When I was in college, a male classmate in the same class caught up with a beautiful little junior sister, and we all joked that this male classmate was a beautiful student. But just as he was happy for two months, the news of the breakup came, and it was a male classmate who took the initiative to mention it.
I found out the reason for this later. The male classmates started to be very active and always wanted to take the initiative to create topics. But most of the little sister's response was, "Oh, oh, well, good." ”
How can you believe that you have given your heart if you are perfunctory?
And speaking out of proportion accelerated the breakdown of the relationship between the two.
Once, the boy fell on a bicycle and hit the back of his head, and posted a circle of friends.
Most of the friends who left the message at the bottom expressed concern such as "Baby, are you okay?", but the junior sister said: "You go to the hospital to see if there is something wrong with your brain?"”
The two started to be together, maybe because of the passion of hormones, but they always had nothing to say, or they couldn't go together, and they couldn't go far after all.
In many cases, there is only one sentence of difference between frankness and impartiality.
Girls who are liked may not be very beautiful and bright, but they are not always self-centered, but will take others to heart.
This kind of girl usually changes "I" to "you" or "he" when speaking, and after expressing herself, she does not forget to throw the topic to the other party, so that the other party can also speak freely.
Everyone wants to express themselves. But your anecdotes may not be interesting to others, and your troubles may not be wanted to be heard by others.
Cai Kangyong said that when chatting, everyone is me. Everyone just wants to talk about themselves. If you talk about your experience or your opinion on something, and then add "what about you" and "what do you think", and throw the topic to the other person, so that the other person also has the space and right to express it, you will become a lot more cute.
In life, the goddess of high coldness is usually not as popular as the public imagines, and girls with good relationships with the opposite sex usually respect others and take care of others' feelings.
Do you like the gift I gave you, did you take it out and use it?
The style is too old-fashioned and I don't like it.
Do you like the gift I gave you, did you take it out and use it?
I put it in the cupboard, and I don't usually want to use it.
The effect of the two expressions is completely different.
Observe and test before speaking, know where the other party's minefield is, and never talk nonsense.
The wife said to her husband, who did not do housework, "Wipe the window!"I'm too busy. "Husbands are generally reluctant.
You can go up and polish the windows brighter. Please. "It's even more effective that way.
Showing weakness never seems contrived and cheap. On the contrary, showing weakness appropriately can just make the tense days seem calm and peaceful.
A woman's biggest emotional intelligence is about the four words "show weakness", it is by no means a coquettish tone word, its connotation is actually more praise, not madness, through a few words, let boys feel that their existence is valuable.
I tinkered with this ps installation package for a long time and didn't know how to put it into the computer.,Can you please tell me about it?
Today I took the car to be repaired, if you stop by the way, can you please take me a little bit?I'll treat you to dinner.
Men are essentially big boys, and there is no man who doesn't like adoration and praise with a smile;No one wants to run around for a day, and when they come home all they hear is picky and dissatisfied, and no one hates a warm hug.
Women in the world, they may have thousands of appearances, or bright eyes and teeth, or beautiful eyebrows and eyes, or they may have all kinds of temperaments, or strong, or gentle, each life is different.
But a girl who can talk can use her strong inner strength to make her days gentle and make life really bloom.