Wen Lingling.
My wife and I are getting married this year, and we met on the first day of college, but at that time I was so inferior that I didn't dare to pursue him who was so good and talented, and I only dared to be friends with him, so much so that I missed five years.
Until he broke up with his ex after graduation, I was single again, and I chose to give it a try, but I didn't expect that the "college male god" had always felt that I was also a shining existence.
After four years of studying in a different place, we only met a handful, but the distance never interfered with our relationship, and we finally met this year, and we have known each other for almost ten years.
I had bipolar disorder due to some unpleasant upbringing, but he was gentle and sunny and was recognized as a humble gentleman.
I think it's very important that we can fall in love because we have been friends for five years, we know each other's roots, the foundation of mutual trust and understanding is also better, and our majors and aesthetics are also very consistent, in addition to each other's different interests and areas of expertise, we also continue to open the door to new worlds for each other.
He is basically perfect in my eyes, although after falling in love, I found that he is not the particularly masculine kind I thought, nor is he chic and individual, but I think after all, many characteristics are difficult to have both, and the boy who is intimate and gentle and cares for the family is really fragrant.
I like people with personalities, but in fact, I also have a lot of personality, so I often don't get along very well, and none of the people I have chased before have succeeded.
I am not so "top-notch" to my lover, but it is this relatively rational relationship that allows us to get a lot of positive nourishment and help in the relationship.
Many of my friends said to me when they first fell in love, and that's how it is to fall in love
A little disappointed, but I've never felt this way.
I think it's a good thing that my lover once said: Love is love at first sight, and love is long-lasting. Partners are meant to be with them for a long time, and they can choose people who never get tired of being together in order to experience more scenery together.
In a relationship, the most valuable thing is not love at first sight, but the long-term companionship, and companionship is the longest confession of love.
People who love you or not can actually feel it, people who love you will always care about you, will always consider your feelings, people who don't love you, even feel bored with you, don't want to be with you for too long, want to run away from you, don't want to stay with you, feel like it's a waste of time.
And the people who love you, every minute, every second, are actually looking forward to seeing you, eyes full of you, hoping that you can be happy every day, and also hope to be able to stay with you all day.
Life is short, the coming days are not long, I hope each of us can meet a person who likes each other, a house, two people, three meals, four seasons. For the rest of your life, do the most romantic thing with each other.
For the rest of your life, I hope you can find someone who is comfortable with you, give you stable emotional value, and manage a relationship well together, so that each other can feel nourished.
The best relationship is always to support each other, achieve each other, the power of growth, will benefit each other, a good relationship, will also allow you to meet a better self, so that you don't get tired of getting along.
Because a good partner will give you a mature mentality, and you can also be nourished in this relationship, which is love.
Being with someone who is emotionally unstable may also become the person who is emotionally unstable.
I also hope that you will strive to become a person with a stable core, and after self-improvement, you will shine on the people around you.
After all, the relationship between people is actually mutual, and if you want to get along without getting tired, it depends on each other's efforts and behaviors, and also depends on whether the three views between each other are the same.
Before you meet the person you love, you must love yourself well, don't feel inferior, don't be anxious, don't be pessimistic, if you meet, then cherish it, be honest with each other, in order to have the best feelings, and let yourself be happy.
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