I, Zhou Hua, am a 32-year-old senior software engineer working for an Internet company. Every **9 to 5, although the work is not easy, but it can also make a living. I have been pampered by my family since I was a child, and my parents' dedication has made me accustomed to receiving care from others, but I am not very good at taking the initiative to give. This kind of character stayed with me until I met Faye Wong.
Faye Wong is an alumnus of my university, and she is deeply attracted by her flower-like beauty and determined personality. When I was in college, I always liked her silently, but I never had the courage to confess to her due to low self-esteem and a sense of disparity. It wasn't until three years later that a text message from hers changed my life.
Faye Wong graduated from graduate school and became a high-paying working woman in a foreign company. She expresses her anxiety about loneliness and hopes to find someone who truly loves her. This became an opportunity for me to confess, and I decided to rise to the challenge and confess my heart to her.
That day, I left work early and bought a bouquet of roses with excitement to confess to her. I met her on the road, and the beauty of her professional attire made my heart skip a beat. I plucked up the courage to give her the roses and confessed my heart.
Her response was beyond my expectations, she knew I liked her, and she gladly accepted my confession. From that moment on, we became boyfriend and girlfriend, and this relationship made me feel the beauty of love.
However, the beginning of happiness is not always smooth sailing. Half a year later, I fell in love with her and decided to propose to her. Although she agreed to my proposal, her family's demands put me under a lot of pressure.
Her family asked for 5,000 yuan a month for living expenses, real estate transfer, and a bride price of 300,000 yuan. To meet these requirements, I borrowed money from everywhere and used up almost all of my savings. On the day of the wedding, I was shocked by her extra request and I was confused about the future.
In my conversations with my parents, I realized that I was giving too much and experienced an awakening. At the wedding, I resolutely canceled all preparations and refused her additional requests. This decision, while painful, made me re-examine the definition of myself and love.
After separation, I learned to be alone and reflect on my life and values. The experience was painful, but it was also a valuable lesson in my life. I have learned that true love is not about giving endlessly, but about understanding and cherishing on both sides.
Love is not a change for one person, but two people working together for each other's happiness. This experience taught me that the starting point of happiness should not be based on one-sided sacrifice and pressure, but on sincerity, understanding and joint efforts. This is the starting point for me to redefine happiness and my deep understanding of the true meaning of love.
However, at a critical moment in the wedding, an unexpected episode occurs, filling the whole story with suspense and twists. Faye Wong's extra request made me fall into heavy consideration, and at the moment of the wedding, her actions made everything confusing. What the hell is going on?How will her decision affect the future of the two?
Faye Wong's extra request made me fall into heavy consideration, and at the moment of the wedding, her actions made everything confusing. What the hell is going on?
Before the red carpet of the wedding, I was looking forward to it, but I didn't know what was about to happen. When I was happily waiting for Faye Wong to get out of the wedding car, the bridesmaids suddenly ran and plunged the whole scene into an eerie silence.
Faye Wong wants a drop-off fee of 100,000 yuan, otherwise she will not get married. The bridesmaid's words shocked and outraged me, and all eyes were on me.
I couldn't believe my ears that this seemingly beautiful moment could be so absurd. I ran to the bridal car and saw her sitting in the car, her eyes determined and her eyes unrelieving my questioning.
Why the sudden increase in conditions?My voice was full of helplessness and doubt.
There was a hint of firmness in her eyes: "Just give 100,000 yuan, and I will be your person immediately." ”
I tried to persuade: "Fei, we have been preparing for so long, do you really want to do this?"Can't you wait until you're married?But she just shook her head, indicating that there was no way to compromise.
The guests were talking a lot, and the scene was chaotic. I felt as if I had become the laughing stock of others, and I had mixed feelings in my heart. Looking at her determined expression in the car, I couldn't help but wonder, who is this woman?
Pushing open the door, I eagerly told my parents what had happened. After hearing this, my father's face turned very ugly.
He stood up and slapped me hard: "What are you doing this for?".How much do you have to pay for someone who doesn't know how to cherish you?”
That slap seemed to be the awakening of the emotions I had accumulated over the years. It dawned on me that I was really giving too much.
I told my parents that I had decided to cancel the wedding and stop paying anything for Faye Wong.
Although my mother was worried about me, seeing my firm determination, she nodded: "You decide for yourself, we support you." ”
With my father's help, we started removing all the wedding decorations from the house. Soon, Faye Wong rushed into the house and was stunned when she saw the empty living room.
2023 Post Sprint Race I took a deep breath and calmly said to her: "I have given so much, but I feel that what I get will always be wishful thinking. We can't go any further. ”
Faye Wong burst into tears, and she looked at me in disbelief: "How can you do this?".Aren't we all ready?”
But I've decided that I can't allow myself to be immersed in endless giving.
She cried for a long time in my home and then left silently. From that day on, we were never in touch again.
I know that it was a painful but necessary choice in my life.
In the days after I was separated from Faye Wong, I began to learn to be alone and re-examine my life and values. Time is like a whetstone, which makes my state of mind more mature.
This experience, although painful, was a valuable lesson in my life. I understand that true love is not about giving endlessly, but about understanding and cherishing each other.