Because I love my job and the responsibilities that come with it, my wife and I have become "separate couples", working in different units during the day and returning to the same home at night.
Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang are the high-profile hosts of China's CCTV news program.
One of them will appear on "Today's Attention" and "China News" as the host of the daytime slot.
He made frequent appearances on the evening "Live Newsroom" and "Midnight News" programs.
Lu Jian got up early in the morning to go to work, and Zheng Tianliang had just returned home at this time, and he had fallen asleep not long after.
When Lu Jian was about to go home after work, Zheng Tianliang was already ready to go to work in high spirits.
If I had understood the truth that "the day does not understand the darkness of the night", I would not have married you at that time!
Sometimes, Zheng Tianliang will also complain about being coquettish.
Although the difficulties existed, the two were still able to overcome them.
When the child arrives, how to solve the contradictions in life for parents with regular schedules?
They are reluctant to give up their jobs, and they don't want their children to suffer with them.
Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang discussed for an afternoon, and finally decided to send the child out ......
Lu Jian, from the Alxa League in Inner Mongolia, is a young man.
Being hired as an announcer by Alxa League TV was my first job after graduating from university.
Subsequently, he went to Beijing Broadcasting Institute (now Communication University of China) for further study.
With excellent grades and strong recommendation from his teachers, he was awarded a master's degree in 1997 at the age of 25.
After graduating in 2001, when he was nearly 30 years old, Lu Jian was lucky to be hired by ** TV station.
Here, I also met Zheng Tianliang, a "senior" who is 6 years younger than me.
At the age of 19, Zheng Tianliang was admitted to Beijing Broadcasting Institute, and began to be responsible for the production of the new version of "**" when he was a senior.
When Lu Jian was still studying for a master's degree in 97, he cooperated with the famous host Bai Yansong and started his hosting career.
* In August 2001, the television station conducted a systematic knowledge explanation and practical learning for a group of staff members.
After the first class, Lu Jian sat next to Zheng Tianliang from the seat selection, and his mind wandered frequently at first.
When Lu Jian saw me again the next day, he thanked me for carefully copying Zheng Tianliang's notes and praised me for my beautiful handwriting.
The young Zheng Tianliang may also answer mischievously: "Is my handwriting good-looking, or am I good-looking?"”
Lu Jian's face flushed with embarrassment, but this also made the two begin to get acquainted.
Indoor learning is followed by extracurricular practice.
Lu Jian, as the captain, led a group of people to take a bus to Chifeng TV Station in Inner Mongolia for exercise, and the car was driving precariously.
Here again, he saw Zheng Tianliang's cheerful and lively side, but also showed a dedicated and motivated side.
Lu Jian was busy while accompanying Zheng Tianliang.
Lu Jian waited for Zheng Tianliang to get off work, and then began to do the next day's work.
During the half-year internship, they kept each other company and naturally became good friends.
And back to ** TV.
With his solid basic skills and excellent internship results, 29-year-old Lu Jian successfully entered the overseas center to engage in news reporting.
Lu Jian wants to change his relationship with his "good friend" because his career is steadily developing.
Decisive expression of love, but was quickly rejected.
I don't want to marry my peers!
After Lu Jian listened to Zheng Tianliang's words, he was dizzy.
He silently believed in his heart, "As long as you don't give up and continue to stay, there may be a turnaround."
constantly expressed special concern for Zheng Tianliang, arranged some accidental encounters from time to time, and often prepared some small surprises, which persisted for more than two years.
26-year-old Zheng Tianliang was moved and threw himself into the arms of 32-year-old Lu Jian, who was really trapped in it and couldn't extricate himself.
The work is over, and the family takes precedence.
Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang were assigned a small one-bedroom apartment with an area of more than 50 square meters by the unit at that time.
They carefully decorate the small home to make it look extra warm, and then put into the intense work.
Because of his outstanding personal ability, Lu Jian was transferred to the international channel "Today's Attention" in 2005 as the host.
Zheng Tianliang has now become a popular host of "Midnight News" and "News Live Room".
They work during the day, and at night and early in the morning.
The couple's reversal of working hours led to a de facto "separation" in the same house.
Zheng Tianliang not only has a great love for work, but also has a great passion for life.
Even when time is of the essence, she can make sure that the home is spotlessly clean.
Occasionally she would have a day or two off and would go grocery shopping and cook after cleaning.
I will prepare a hearty seafood feast with Yantai flavors for my husband, and I will also pair it with his favorite Northwest noodle dish so that he can enjoy it after work.
Lu Jian used to get up early every morning to cook for a long time.
She still hosts the show at night and can't stop working, but her husband Lu Jian can't help.
Since their work is special and irreplaceable to a certain extent, after all.
Lu Jian deeply felt his wife's hardship, so he tried to take care of her life as much as possible.
Before going to work, I prepared several rich breakfast options, the house was full of fruits that can relieve morning sickness, and I also bought the most comfortable backrest cushion for my wife to relieve fatigue.
In March 2007, the young couple was full of expectations and ushered in the safe arrival of their daughter Lu Zhiyu.
Lu Jian's mother took the lead in expressing her willingness to take the child home to take care of her.
The case of father-in-law paralysis due to cerebral thrombosis can be considered in 98.
In addition to taking care of her father-in-law, her mother-in-law also needs to take care of her elderly mother.
Zheng Tianliang looked into his mother's eyes.
Mom, I'm sorry, I might be going to trouble you......
Zheng's mother patted her daughter's back, waved her hand to stop, and said, "What kind of burden is that?"I can't wait to hug my granddaughter and let your dad see how cute this child is. ”
They decided to wait until the child turned six to take him back to school, and then to take time out to visit the child every month.
On the days when I didn't meet, I would call a ** back almost every day.
From time to time, there are couriers sent from Beijing to Yantai, and these items are all love.
I didn't know it when I was a child, and it wasn't until Lu Zhiyu was more than four years old that he became extremely dependent on his parents.
The little girl will prepare her clothes in advance, arrange the little red flags she received in the kindergarten, greet the hugs of her parents, and greet them with the best image and grades, as long as it is the appointed time.
Whenever this happens, Zheng Tianliang and Lu Jian always feel miserable.
They were smiling, capable and professional, and were able to overcome the emotional distress at this moment and return to their posts as CCTV news hosts.
In the conflict between emotion and reason, her daughter Lu Zhiyu is 6 years old.
Quickly develop a time and education plan that works for both parties.
Zheng Tianliang and Lu Jian returned to Yantai together and saw the baby they had been thinking about for 6 years again.
For the sake of his daughter's healthy diet, Lu Jian gave up all party activities except work and learned good cooking skills.
When I woke up early in the morning, I not only prepared breakfast, but also prepared a bento box for my daughter and sent her to school.
Under the guidance of her grandparents, the little girl performed well.
Although she didn't understand how unique her grandmother's "work speciality" really was.
She understands that her parents can't be with her as often because they need to be on TV every day to share time with more people.
When Zheng Tianliang heard his daughter say such words, he felt that a sense of exhaustion suddenly dissipated, and the whole person was full of vitality.
A family of three was enjoying a warm moment when a new surprise was suddenly ushered in.
In 2014, 36-year-old Zheng Tianliang became pregnant again.
Just when they were hesitating, Mother Zheng suddenly opened the knot in the couple's hearts.
Don't worry about that, give birth to your child, and your dad and I will take care of him. If you are worried about your child's lack of parental companionship and emotional loss, you can consult Zhiyu to see what she has to say.
His mother's persuasion shook Zheng Tianliang's determination, and he pulled his eldest daughter to his side.
Xiaobao, have you ever blamed your parents for not accompanying you to grow up?
Mom, aren't you growing up with me right now?Are you going to welcome a baby again?When will he come?I will definitely be a good sister, be good to him, play with him ......”
Before the little girl finished the first grade, she didn't care about her mother's first question.
After careful consideration, Zheng Tianliang adjusted his emotions and waited for the birth of the child.
Lu's mother was an elderly woman who was suspicious of her daughter-in-law's care, so she traveled to Beijing again to take care of her daughter-in-law.
In 2014, when the end of the year was approaching, Lu Zhiyu happily returned to school and showed off to his classmates and friends.
I got a very cute younger brother who was called "Manman".
The little girl was just starting to be happy, but her younger brother was about to go back to Yantai with her grandmother, which made her feel very bad.
Zheng Tianliang's father announced his retirement in 2015.
The daughter and son-in-law are the objects of distress for the old couple, and they also need to travel long distances in addition to their busy work.
As a result, they began to travel back and forth to Beijing once a month.
It is really worrying that two elderly people in their 60s have to take care of a young child.
Lu Jian decided to ** a flat property, and used the savings accumulated by his wife for many years to buy a spacious three-bedroom apartment near the Fifth Ring Road, with a small study.
In November 2016, Lu Jian quickly completed the renovation and then went to Yantai to pick up his father-in-law, mother-in-law and son, who were full of praise for the new decoration of the home.
After 16 years of night work, Zheng Tianliang finally ushered in a change in his work in 2019.
She switched to hosting the same type of program "Morning News World", and was finally able to maintain a normal schedule.
In the same year, Lu Jian volunteered to undertake the new program "China Geographical Names Conference" launched by CCTV.
Because of his excellent work ability, the leadership even set up a special interview column for him.
Their days are steadily moving forward in a better direction day by day, and they have more time to take care of their families and distant parents.
The men and women who work hard to make a living in the city, each face their own hardships and difficulties.
Balancing career and family has always been difficult, and this struggle has ruined how many once-welcoming havens have been destroyed.
Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang's marriage has always been as new, thanks to their spirit of mutual tolerance and understanding, and their willingness to bear difficulties together and give each other strength.