In the current materialistic era, each of us is working hard for a better life, in this process, if you can have the blessing of good luck, life is bound to be more smooth, today Shangze will share with you a few tips for life, I hope to help you at the moment. 
1. It is true that it is a good moral character to be helpful and helpful, but the premise is that you have to have that ability, if you don't take care of yourself and pay attention to others all day long, then you will put the cart before the horse.
What's more, sometimes you care too much, not only can not make the other person feel comfortable, but also cause others to resent and resist, which is even more counterproductive.
Real help is based on respect and understanding, meeting the needs of the other party in moderation, not being overly involved, giving the other party enough room to grow, rather than making decisions for the other party. Especially for people who are weak, it is not advisable to worry too much about other people's affairs, otherwise it will form mental internal friction, which will be more and more unfavorable to their own fortune, and it will be difficult for the other party to succeed. Second, others laugh at me for being too crazy, and I laugh at others who can't see through it.
Don't care too much about other people's opinions and evaluations of themselves, each of us lives for ourselves, should not be swayed by other people's views, everyone's outlook on life, values, and outlook on life are different, specific to something, methods and behaviors will naturally be different, this is a very normal thing.
As long as we have a clear goal, we must be firm in our beliefs and believe in our own choices and practices, which in itself is a strength that can greatly increase our chances of success.
On the contrary, if you care too much about other people's opinions, you will be swayed by others and lose yourself, you will be farther and farther away from success, and others will think that you are a person who goes with the flow and has no opinions, and the leader or customer is of course unwilling to hand over important things to you to do, which will invisibly lose a lot of opportunities. Third, the past has been dissipated with the clouds, why bother to think about life in the world, everyone will make mistakes, make mistakes, look up and look forward, just learn from the previous experience, don't repeatedly entangle, blame yourself for the mistakes you have made before, and don't feel ashamed and lose confidence in yourself because of your mistakes. If you don't even believe in yourself, if you don't look down on yourself, then others will have less confidence in you, and you must firmly believe in an idea, and the more mistakes you make, the higher your chances of success in the future.
Don't dwell too much on the mistakes you made before, don't be depressed all day long, put aside your ideological baggage, seriously review and summarize, and meet the next challenge with a full mental state, victory is not far ahead. Fourth, there is nothing in the world, mediocre people disturb ourselves, we don't have to worry about things that we can't control, don't worry about the sky, maybe a lot of things you worry about will not happen at all, rather than let such troubles affect us, it is better to face it calmly, accept the fact that we can't control, that is, accept the unknown development of all things. We are not immortals, even numerologists, we also summarize and summarize the fortunes of life according to objective laws, and we do not have the ability to predict the future.
Therefore, we need to accept the objective world, there are many things that are not under our control, even if these things are unfortunate, we must learn to face them calmly, instead of worrying about these bad results all day long, it is better to think in advance about how to minimize the bad results, everything is a problem, and doing is the answer. Fifth, life must be happy, do not make the gold bottle empty to the moon anyone has a good and bad time, fully enjoy the happiness and happiness of the present, do not recall the past, do not covet the future, the present is pure, this is happiness. This is not only a kind of wisdom of life, but also the key to improving personal aura, many times our anxiety does not come from the previous unpleasant, but from the fear of the unknown. We often feel anxious about the uncertainty of the future, but ignore the beauty of the life in front of us, we must learn to be happy in time, do not be troubled by the uncertain things in the future, happiness and happiness can form a positive energy field, and such an energy field will react on itself, so that your fortune is more and more prosperous. Sixth, I don't know what the world is repaid, we must understand that the attitude of gratitude is the beginning of all good luck, people's mentality is very important, and people who forget their righteousness and treachery will not have good luck. We must know how to be grateful, others give us help, we must keep in mind, the so-called grace of dripping water should be reciprocated by springs, when others encounter difficulties and need us, we must help in time. Life is a generous gift from God, every grass and tree, one person and one thing are all natural gifts, only those who know how to be grateful will really get help from others. Be a humble and courteous person who knows how to be grateful, and your life path will be smoother and smoother.
7. All results are the best arrangement.
We must firmly believe that everything that happens is good for us, whether it is good or bad, this is a life journey that we must go through, and it is a life experience that we are destined to live. It is inevitable to encounter difficulties in life, it is normal to have ups and downs, no one can have good luck in a lifetime, and no one will have bad luck in a lifetime. You must learn to self-adjust, you must be able to find the positive side in the unfavorable things, and you must firmly believe that those unfavorable things are all reminding you to stop losses in time and not fall into a greater crisis. I have to learn to look at the problem from a different perspective, and turn why such things happened to me to what kind of inspiration this incident gave me, and how to avoid such more serious things in the future, so that your future fortune will naturally go more and more smoothly.